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wants-2-b-a-mommy
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cant tell ya yet!

down in the dumps...

this TTC is harder than in is made out to be! i really hate it. i probally shouldn't be complaining TOO much considering its only been 2 months, but it totally is a bummer!

how do all you girls do it and stay in such high hopes? i am down right depressed about it! Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/10 3:16 PM
 
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MrsT809
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Re: down in the dumps...

I definitely have my up and down moments too. Sometimes it just seems like all the odds are stacked against you. I would say just look to the future...what will you do differently or looking for the positives that are always there. Good luck, I'm sure your blues won't last too long!

Posted 9/15/10 3:23 PM
 

dlj97
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Re: down in the dumps...

I know what you mean. I feel like my whole life I thought that if I wanted a baby, all I had to do is have sex and it would happen right away, lol. And I have seen so many of my friends stop bc and get pregnant right away. I guess for now we just have to keep trying - it can take up to a year, even for a healthy couple. It will happen for all of us - it just might not be when we planned or hoped.

Posted 9/15/10 3:50 PM
 

RGEC47
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Re: down in the dumps...

It is such a roller coaster and a lot of unknowns. But the TTC process, which I hope does not last as long as it has for some of us, will be all worth it in the end. This will help fortify your relationship with DH and you will be stronger for your LO. Good luck and I hope you get your BFP soon! Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/10 4:05 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: down in the dumps...

All I can say is .. you just do .. You pick up and move on, somehow.

I went through infertility treatments.. failed iuis... a pregnancy that lasted 17.5 wks until I had my D&E and was no longer pregnant and now have to wait about a month to try again with the RE ...

Somehow you just do it. I honestly don't know how I do it half the time but if you want it badly enough, you just have no choice but to keep moving on Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/10 4:09 PM
 

wants-2-b-a-mommy
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cant tell ya yet!

Re: down in the dumps...

thanks everyone

i literally am depressed about this ...i think i need to seek some help this month Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/10 6:29 PM
 

BabyHopes15
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Re: down in the dumps...

Posted by RGEC47

It is such a roller coaster and a lot of unknowns. But the TTC process, which I hope does not last as long as it has for some of us, will be all worth it in the end. This will help fortify your relationship with DH and you will be stronger for your LO. Good luck and I hope you get your BFP soon! Chat Icon



It is a roller coaster, but you're right. It will all be worth it. Hang in there girlsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/15/10 6:56 PM
 
 

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