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babylove26
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O'ing
Do you tell your DH's when you are o'ing? We are both on the same page about ttc but I didn't tell my DH i am O'ing this week. He doesn't know I take OPK either.. i guess I didn't tell him because I put a lot of pressure on conceiving asap and he thinks I need to relax and just let it happen when it happens.
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MrsKS
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Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: O'ing
DH knows when I am o'ing. We also are doing Deanna's Plan... so we have a calendar of marked off days to  ... haha.. which is almost like everyday.
He has fun with it and enjoys all the that comes his way!!!
He likes to know when I'm Oing and what's going on. For us, we are in this together.
I do understand where those who don't tell are coming from though.
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| Posted 8/26/10 3:32 PM |
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emomma17
All My Girls!
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Mia
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Re: O'ing
I do tell him, I actually text him a picture of the smiley face with messages...he thinks I am crazy but we get a good laugh and it get's fun text messages going  
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| Posted 8/26/10 3:46 PM |
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Egg
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/09 627 total posts
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Re: O'ing
no because i don't want to put pressure on it and take the fun out of it. one of my good friends told me his wife took all the fun out of it when they were trying to get pregnant, and i'm trying very hard not to be like that.
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| Posted 8/26/10 3:48 PM |
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nicknmb
SISTERS!
Member since 1/06 5193 total posts
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MaryBeth
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Re: O'ing
Yes, DH is aware. I think it makes TTC that much more exciting, b/c you know you are possibly making a life at that moment
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| Posted 8/26/10 4:31 PM |
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MrsRitaB
Love of my life! <3
Member since 4/10 4669 total posts
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Ri
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Re: O'ing
I WILL BECAUSE WE ARE DOING DEANNAS PLAN SO HE WILL KNOW WHEN WE 2 NIGHTS IN A ROW
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| Posted 8/26/10 4:43 PM |
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JellyBear
LIF Infant
Member since 6/10 260 total posts
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Thinking positive thoughts!
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Re: O'ing
Yes I tell him. The way I see it, we are in this together, so why should I bare the stress alone? He doesn't want that and neither do I.
So far, it hasn't taken any fun out of sex, in fact, it's just the opposite, it's really cool knowing we're trying to create a life together.
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| Posted 8/26/10 8:26 PM |
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WhitneyL
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/07 645 total posts
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Whitney
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Re: O'ing
I definitely do... it's the only way i'm guaranteed to get him to !!!
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| Posted 8/26/10 8:28 PM |
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Its4Real
LIF Toddler
Member since 6/10 393 total posts
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Wait and see
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Re: O'ing
I tell DH everything!
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| Posted 8/27/10 10:56 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: O'ing
I got the :) this morning... and i told him when he dropped me off at the train... and honestly he looked a little scared... lol
hes like so you wanna bang tonight? (no joke his exact words) lol so i said idk do you... and he got the same color as when he proposed... like he might pass out... lol I dont know if i will tell him in the future! LOL
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| Posted 8/27/10 11:00 AM |
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MrsRitaB
Love of my life! <3
Member since 4/10 4669 total posts
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Ri
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Re: O'ing
Posted by AngnShaun
I got the :) this morning... and i told him when he dropped me off at the train... and honestly he looked a little scared... lol
hes like so you wanna bang tonight? (no joke his exact words) lol so i said idk do you... and he got the same color as when he proposed... like he might pass out... lol I dont know if i will tell him in the future! LOL
I JUST BURST OUT IN LAUGHTER AT MY DESK
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| Posted 8/27/10 11:11 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Ang
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Re: O'ing
Posted by MrsRitaB
Posted by AngnShaun
I got the :) this morning... and i told him when he dropped me off at the train... and honestly he looked a little scared... lol
hes like so you wanna bang tonight? (no joke his exact words) lol so i said idk do you... and he got the same color as when he proposed... like he might pass out... lol I dont know if i will tell him in the future! LOL
I JUST BURST OUT IN LAUGHTER AT MY DESK
I was holding back laughter on the train on the way in... every time i thought about the conversation i would start laughing...
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| Posted 8/27/10 11:13 AM |
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PrettyPeonies
GAW my baby boy <3
Member since 8/10 3874 total posts
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Pino
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Re: O'ing
Posted by AngnShaun
I got the :) this morning... and i told him when he dropped me off at the train... and honestly he looked a little scared... lol
hes like so you wanna bang tonight? (no joke his exact words) lol so i said idk do you... and he got the same color as when he proposed... like he might pass out... lol I dont know if i will tell him in the future! LOL
:ol:
awwwwwwwww poor Shaun!!!!! Just be gentle w/him during the Ang & I'm sure he will be fine
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| Posted 8/27/10 11:28 AM |
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ncf0410
LIF Infant
Member since 7/10 136 total posts
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Re: O'ing
Posted by MrsKS
DH knows when I am o'ing. We also are doing Deanna's Plan... so we have a calendar of marked off days to ... haha.. which is almost like everyday.
He has fun with it and enjoys all the that comes his way!!!
He likes to know when I'm Oing and what's going on. For us, we are in this together.
I do understand where those who don't tell are coming from though.
DH and I are the same way...we are going to to the Deanna's plan for the first time this month...but DH knows I use the OPK and will ask me what did it say...he is very involed and he wants to be involved any way he can it is his baby to.
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| Posted 8/27/10 11:29 AM |
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PrettyPeonies
GAW my baby boy <3
Member since 8/10 3874 total posts
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Pino
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Re: O'ing
ummmm we aren't TTC yet but this is my last AF b/f I go off BCP. I have been keeping track off the last few O dates and haven't told him but moving forward....yeah, I probably will.
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| Posted 8/27/10 11:29 AM |
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babylove26
LIF Adult
Member since 8/10 987 total posts
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Re: O'ing
Posted by AngnShaun
I got the :) this morning... and i told him when he dropped me off at the train... and honestly he looked a little scared... lol
hes like so you wanna bang tonight? (no joke his exact words) lol so i said idk do you... and he got the same color as when he proposed... like he might pass out... lol I dont know if i will tell him in the future! LOL
my dh's face turned a little pale . After posting this question yesterday I told him when he got home bc we really do tell each other everything. Boy, I'm sorry I did was not fun last night..i guess he felt a lot of pressure and had some trouble which has NEVER happened before. Needless to say he doesnt need to know when I'm o'ing because as far as im concerned every night could be the night we make a baby!!
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| Posted 8/27/10 4:00 PM |
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wants-2-b-a-mommy
LIF Adolescent
Member since 6/10 593 total posts
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cant tell ya yet!
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Re: O'ing
when i told DH i was O'ing the first time he was like what does that mean? lol i was like OOO boy!!!!! lets talk
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| Posted 8/28/10 11:48 AM |
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LoLaBlue
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Re: O'ing
Posted by emomma17
I do tell him, I actually text him a picture of the smiley face with messages...he thinks I am crazy but we get a good laugh and it get's fun text messages going
OMG me too!! It makes me fun & exciting
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| Posted 8/28/10 1:56 PM |
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Meggo613
im a big girl!
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Megan
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Re: O'ing
i didtell him but we still ahve fun with it its not a chore just yet
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| Posted 8/28/10 2:57 PM |
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