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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

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Name: M
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How will you surprise family/friends?
Im just wondering..I know some of us plan (or have already) surprised DH in a special way about you being pregnant, but what about friends are family? Did/Do you plan on just saying, "hey, guess what? Im pregnant" or do you plan on telling them in a special way?
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Posted 8/13/10 7:21 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
last time i got a BFP i bought a "grandmas rock" onesie for my mom, and a yankees onesie for my dad. i was going to give them as gifts at our birthday dinner. but i found out before the dinner that i was going to miscarry so i never got to give them. they know we are trying and that i have a lot of issues. so when i do get a BFP again it will be hard not to tell them. im not sure if i will wait for a few betas before telling, or tell them right away. i still might do the onesie thing, not sure. either way its not going to be the most surprising thing to either of them!!
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Posted 8/13/10 7:51 PM |
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TwoPeas
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
Next weekend is my parent's wedding anniversary. We invited my in-laws to come out to dinner with my parents (and my brother & sister-in-law). My parents and in-laws are friendly with each other so it wouldn't be strange that they celebrated with us. Then after dinner DH and I will have invited everyone back to our house for dessert. We'll bring out the cake (which we bought ahead of time) and on the cake will say Baby _____ (insert last name) arriving April 2011.
I think that should really surprise them! Just hope I can keep it a secret until next weekend.....I'm awful at keeping my own personal things a secret! lol
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Posted 8/13/10 9:34 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

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Name: M
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
Posted by TwoPeas
Next weekend is my parent's wedding anniversary. We invited my in-laws to come out to dinner with my parents (and my brother & sister-in-law). My parents and in-laws are friendly with each other so it wouldn't be strange that they celebrated with us. Then after dinner DH and I will have invited everyone back to our house for dessert. We'll bring out the cake (which we bought ahead of time) and on the cake will say Baby _____ (insert last name) arriving April 2011.
I think that should really surprise them! Just hope I can keep it a secret until next weekend.....I'm awful at keeping my own personal things a secret! lol
What a wonderful idea! I hope it all works out as planned!
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Posted 8/13/10 10:07 PM |
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poasBFP
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Name: EDD April 25th 2011
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
With our first we invited my parents and my inlaws over for dinner and had our female dog in a shirt that said "I'm going to be a big sister". We told them that Peanut had a special message and they needed to read her shirt.
This time I am buying our DC#1 a shirt that says "I have a secret, I'm going to be a big brother/sister"
But we aren't going to do a combo of all the parents together. We will do it separately.
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Posted 8/14/10 8:13 AM |
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smooney
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
that is a GREAT idea! what a fantastic anniversary surprise! i love that youre able to do it together with all the grandparents and family
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Posted 8/14/10 9:18 AM |
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summerwind
LIF Adolescent

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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
Posted by TwoPeas
Next weekend is my parent's wedding anniversary. We invited my in-laws to come out to dinner with my parents (and my brother & sister-in-law). My parents and in-laws are friendly with each other so it wouldn't be strange that they celebrated with us. Then after dinner DH and I will have invited everyone back to our house for dessert. We'll bring out the cake (which we bought ahead of time) and on the cake will say Baby _____ (insert last name) arriving April 2011.
I think that should really surprise them! Just hope I can keep it a secret until next weekend.....I'm awful at keeping my own personal things a secret! lol
LOVE IT!!! That is great!!! GL not spilling...
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Posted 8/14/10 9:18 AM |
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wants-2-b-a-mommy
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Member since 6/10 593 total posts
Name: cant tell ya yet!
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
i will probally have DH tell my parents lol i dont think i have the guts!
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Posted 8/14/10 6:10 PM |
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drwifettc
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
I had all of these great aspirations to surprise DH. I was thinking of getting a cute onsie and a dad related book, but I was so happy and anxious that I just blurted it. He was on call and I feel bad because he couldn't have a reaction at all.
We are surprising his parents because they live out of state with a box of gifts from a recent trip and a card that says something along the lines of hope you like these little presents, but the most exciting one won't be here till april! congratulations grandparents. Something equally as cheezy.
I didn't surprise my mom in any sort of cute way. I just blurted it out. She's the only one that knows right now. Although, I'm pretty sure she'll tell my dad in a moment of weakness.
Clearly, I have an issue with just blurting things out right away.
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Posted 8/19/10 8:11 PM |
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mrsyoungmommy
can't wait to meet Sophia!

Member since 6/10 1441 total posts
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Re: How will you surprise family/friends?
im not sure how we will tell our families...but i do know how i am telling my best friend.
she just moved to cali, and i told her that when i get PG i am going to text her a picture of a bun in my oven. BUT, i am going to fly out to Cali with my other bff (good excuse for a small vacay) and have her FH take a pic of a bun in her oven, send it to me and I will send it to her with a message that says, open your door. and we will be outside!
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Posted 8/19/10 8:14 PM |
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