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***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son

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***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

My sister just had her second try at invetro. The first time they took 15 eggs, 7 fertalized, she was implanted with 2. Then had an early miscarriage. The 5 that where left died and could not be frozen. This time they took 10 eggs, 9 fertalized (6 with donor sperm), she was implanted with 2 (BIL's sperm was used). She finds out on the 16th if they took, but the eggs they didn't use all died. Is this normal??? Did this happen to anyone else??? Why are her eggs not surviving. This is terrible Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon We're all devestated. It's so unfair... Please Chat Icon that the two they implanted her with survive Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


***Thanks so much for all of your prays and sticky vibes!!! They obviously worked because my sister got her BFP yesterday Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon We are all so excited. I wish you all the same good fortune that has been bestowed upon my sister Chat Icon !!!

Message edited 6/17/2010 10:11:02 PM.

Posted 6/11/10 3:18 PM
 
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WaterGirl
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Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

First off I am so sorry for your sister.
I can be totally wrong here, but from what I have read...it's the quality of the embies...not the quantity. So she may have had a lot, but there qualilty wasn't the greatest so they didn't make it to freeze.


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Here is some sticky dust for her.
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Message edited 6/11/2010 3:41:24 PM.

Posted 6/11/10 3:40 PM
 

kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son

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Kelly

Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

Posted by WaterGirl

First off I am so sorry for your sister.
I can be totally wrong here, but from what I have read...it's the quality of the embies...not the quantity. So she may have had a lot, but there qualilty wasn't the greatest so they didn't make it to freeze.


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Here is some sticky dust for her.
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Thanks, is there anything she can do to increase the quality of the eggs? They have her on all kinds of hormone shots and pills already...

Posted 6/11/10 5:26 PM
 

BA2008
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Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

Hey, how old is your sister? That sometimes will play a role. There's a lot she can do to change her diet, but many people don't get frosties. Hopefully, it wont matter and she'll get good news next week.

Posted 6/11/10 5:33 PM
 

Bops
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Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

My 1st IVF cycle I had 13 retrieved, 2 put back and none left to freeze The 2 they put back on day 3 were very poor quality but they did get me pg ( but it ended as a chemical pg) That cycle I was on BCP to supress me, along w/ Follistim and another med which I cant recall...

For my 2nd cycle, they changed up my meds and used Lupron, Menopur and Bravelle and I ended up with 26 embies , 4 of which made it to day 5, all blasts, got pg w/ my DD and had 3 left to freeze all excellent quality...

My RE changed to Lupron because he said it could improve quality so that what I attribute the huge difference to :IVF is such trial and error Chat Icon

Message edited 6/11/2010 8:12:00 PM.

Posted 6/11/10 8:11 PM
 

readts78
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Tricia

Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

My first round of IVF, I had 35 eggs, 17 fertilized, one transfered..bfn and none froze. My second cycle, I had 10 eggs, 7 fertilized and had one transfered..bfp. and one froze.
The difference for me was I had better quality embies the second time due to the adjustments in the meds from the first cycle. I was so sick and they kept taking me and then off the drugs then lowering the dose. it all affects the embies.
The second time, we had a better game plan as to how my body would respond to the drugs. It was a very smooth cycle and even tho I produced less eggs, they were better quality.
This may be similar to what your sister is going thru.
All the best to her!
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Posted 6/11/10 8:47 PM
 

kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son

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Kelly

Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

*She's only 30, she'll be 31 at the end of the month.


Thanks so much for your advice and support. I'm going to show her the thread and I hope that this will help her. Chat Icon

Posted 6/12/10 8:21 AM
 

maybemommy10
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Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

Some women, even when young have high FSH or problems with egg quality, ovarian reserve. I hope this is it for your sis and wish her lots of luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/12/10 12:35 PM
 

SJSM
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Re: Has this happened to anyone else?

why is she using donor and Dh sperm?
Good luck to her

Posted 6/13/10 7:12 PM
 

kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son

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Kelly

Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

bump

Posted 6/17/10 10:11 PM
 

allIwant
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

OMG thats great! Congrats to her!

Posted 6/17/10 10:28 PM
 

Bops
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

Great news !!!!

Posted 6/17/10 10:46 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

Wow, congratulations to her!!!!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/10 10:48 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

Congrats to your sister!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/10 11:04 PM
 

maybemommy10
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

Yay!!! Congrats to you Auntie!!! and to the momma to be!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 9:21 AM
 

Nayia
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

Yaay to ur update! Sorry she went through so much to get there but at least now she has her BFP!! yaaay

Posted 6/18/10 12:55 PM
 

shelby34
Love being a twin mommy!

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Michele

Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

Yay! Great news!
Sending her sticky vibes!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 1:27 PM
 

lbw
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Re: ***Update - Has this happened to anyone else? ***Update

That's great news, congrats to your familyChat Icon

Posted 6/18/10 2:13 PM
 
 

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