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ricki528
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Bummed!
Our best friends had a baby last night. After we left the hospital this morning I started to cry. I couldnt help but be sad for myself. I know it will happen when it happens but sometimes that answer doesnt satisfy me. After IUIS, injections, RE's appts, endless blood work. Im just so tired of this. thx for listening
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KrisClaire
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Re: Bummed!
Hugs.
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| Posted 6/5/10 1:32 PM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: Bummed!
I know how you feel, i think most of us here do. It's so hard, but hang in there our times WILL come !
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| Posted 6/5/10 1:39 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
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| Posted 6/5/10 3:10 PM |
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angel333
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Re: Bummed!
I know the feeling hang in there 
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| Posted 6/5/10 4:17 PM |
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It's hard and I think it's also ok to not do these things if they get to be too unbearable. You have to take care of yourself every once in a while too!
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| Posted 6/5/10 5:33 PM |
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wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle
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Re: Bummed!
Im sorry
I am sooooooo tired of it too I posted a thread on TTC last night because I was so sad. Im so sick of seeing pregnant people everywhere I look... even DH is starting to notice!!!!
Today we went to Costco and I saw a pregnant woman holding her belly and I didnt say anything (b/c I always do) and DH turns to me and says "Im sorry.... but can I ask you something? WHy do pregnant women hold their bellies when they arent even THAT big yet?? Is it because they dont want people to think they are fat???" This actually made me laugh bc its true lol!!! I'll prob be doing the same thing! So that comment did lighten my mood....but still.... Its the constant reminder that its not happening for us. I dont know how much longer I can go through this
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| Posted 6/5/10 7:24 PM |
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MrsFein09
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PennyCat
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Re: Bummed!
Posted by babybelly12
Today we went to Costco and I saw a pregnant woman holding her belly and I didnt say anything (b/c I always do) and DH turns to me and says "Im sorry.... but can I ask you something? WHy do pregnant women hold their bellies when they arent even THAT big yet?? Is it because they dont want people to think they are fat???" This actually made me laugh bc its true lol!!! I'll prob be doing the same thing! So that comment did lighten my mood....but still....
My belly isn't showing yet but I look it from how bloated I am  and put my hand on my belly because it makes my self conscious!  Even my mom told me I look pregnant  ummm and this was when I was only 5.5 weeks.......
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| Posted 6/5/10 8:11 PM |
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aoreo
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Re: Bummed!
big *hug* to you!  i know EXACTLY how you feel. when i found out my BIL's gf *accidentally* got pregnant a few weeks ago, I cried my eyes out the whole night. they both have no job, so not ready for a baby, but yet here DH and i are as ready as ever and we cant get it to happen. now i have to hear MIL describe every ultrasound and it kills me inside. to top it, my close friend got pregnant on their first try and almost due so i get daily emails about how very "pregnant" she is.
i should be happy for them but just cant help but be sad for myself. and i just totally want to avoid all of them right now.
but hang in there. youre not alone. :)
Message edited 6/5/2010 9:14:19 PM.
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wants2bamom
Praying For A Miracle
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Re: Bummed!
Posted by PennyCat
Posted by babybelly12
Today we went to Costco and I saw a pregnant woman holding her belly and I didnt say anything (b/c I always do) and DH turns to me and says "Im sorry.... but can I ask you something? WHy do pregnant women hold their bellies when they arent even THAT big yet?? Is it because they dont want people to think they are fat???" This actually made me laugh bc its true lol!!! I'll prob be doing the same thing! So that comment did lighten my mood....but still....
My belly isn't showing yet but I look it from how bloated I am and put my hand on my belly because it makes my self conscious! Even my mom told me I look pregnant ummm and this was when I was only 5.5 weeks.......
I will totally be putting my hand on my belly too early during my pregnancy....even if I dont have a belly lol!!!!
Awwwwwwwww!!!! Im sure your mom can see a difference already I want to see your belly pics!!!
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| Posted 6/5/10 10:12 PM |
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ricki528
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Re: Bummed!
You girls are great! I am in the 2 week wait so fingers crossed this will be the month. Its so frustrating this whole process but you have to keep moving along. I did injectables with iui this cycle this is my last iui and if not we move onto ivf. I am lucky my insurance will cover IVF 100 percent.
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| Posted 6/5/10 10:25 PM |
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bride07
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Re: Bummed!
That is totally understandable! I am almost 12 wks pregnants but not without struggle over the past yr.
I can't tell you how many times I would cry over someone being prenant, get mad "why not me", be so jealous, etc. You and I wouldn't be human if we didn't feel these different emotions. I was happy for them but so sad and jealous for myself. It's hard for it to ever make sense of it but just take care of yourself! Do some fun things and pamper yourself, you deserve it! It will help to take you mind off of things.
I promise you once you do get pregnant this long journey will all be worth it!!!
I hope this cycle will bring you your BFP!!!! Lot's of dust and prayers for you!!!
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| Posted 6/6/10 8:54 AM |
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VeeJay
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Re: Bummed!
I did the same thing when my sister-in law had my nephew. I cried the whole way home from the hospital. It is just so frustrating, we were TTC way before them and now they are PG with #2.
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| Posted 6/6/10 10:49 AM |
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FergieK
Loving my girls
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