CM wasn't as good by the time we BD...

I posted yesterday about how my CM and cervix was perfect for BD while I was at work yesterday. Well, by the time we BD I didn't have any EWCM. Just really wet. And my cervix wasn't as soft. I did use a little Preseed this time just in case. I still didn't O yet. My temp was still down and my OPK's are almost positive, but not yet. Hopefully I will get a + today.

Is it normal for my CM and cervix to change throughout the day even during O??? I thought once your cervix is really soft, it stays like that until you O? Mine every month seems to go from really soft to only a little soft, and then back to really soft, etc. So confusing. It's high and open but the CM keeps changing. I don't get it? Please tell me it's normal???

We did BD again. That makes it 4 nights in a row this time so far. We'll be BD again tonight since I don't know what my OPK will say. I don't test until 2:30-3:00pm. Yes, at work! LOL!

I wish I would O already. Now I feel like going to gym did mess up my CM and me O.

Re: CM wasn't as good by the time we BD...

so the same thing happened to me yesterday, and then last night. I just worked until 10 pm, didn't go to the gym or anything, so I think that the CM can vary. are you taking mucinex?

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I don't know? It feels like my body is laughing at me because it knows we don't/can't BD during the day. Once again I'm at work and very fertile!!! Why can't I be this fertile at night. I still have fertile signs at night but not as good as during the day. Oh well, guess I can only hope for the best! Hopefully we'll still get PG! I did get PG with my older son with only wet CM so we'll see!

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well think of it this way: your fertility is the same whether you feel it or not. i don't think you are more fertile during the day than at night. try taking mucinex every 12 hours, and drink lots of water to keep everything hydrated, and see if that helps :O) ugh the things we have to worry about!

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LOL!

I've tried Mucinex in the past, (a long time ago) and it didn't do anything for me. Maybe I should try it again. Why not I'm doing so many other things! I do drink water. I'm drinking about 48 ounces a day. I want to be able to drink 64 but for some reason I run out of time during the day.

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i know, the water thing is rough.........i try to drink anywhere between half to a gallon a day! i feel like i spend my life in the bathroom