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Did I mention my BFN?

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diva7531
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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Did I mention my BFN?

Even with 3 great follies I can't PG. I know my situation could be worse and I could actually have something wrong with me, but having unexplained infertility is a bit frustrating!

I am beginning to worry that only IVF will work, and the meds aren't covered. DH and I made up some ground rules when we began this process and we don't want to gamble any money on an IVF procedure and will only do what our benefits cover.

Good Luck to everyone still in the 2WW!!

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Posted 8/27/09 10:14 AM
 
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Daisy32
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

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Posted 8/27/09 10:21 AM
 

k-diggity
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

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Posted 8/27/09 10:21 AM
 

lolipep
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

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Posted 8/27/09 10:25 AM
 

couldbtwins
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Posted 8/27/09 10:25 AM
 

LIBOUND
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

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Posted 8/27/09 10:29 AM
 

ETAB
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I am so sorry.. .I know how heartbreaking it is .. to know that there were multiple and follies and then a BFN!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 10:32 AM
 

MetsGirl07
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

i am so sorry Ryan.. unexplained IF is just awful... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 10:35 AM
 

nycgirl
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

That stinks!

I'm in the same boat with you. Pretty young with unexplained IF... and I just have this chewing feeling that only IVF will work. All the rest of the conditions have been too "perfect." It would be great to just be able to "fix" something...

You just completed IUI #2, right?

Hang in there! People give away their meds often gratis... maybe it's an option. We hope to be able to save a few thousand by next year to cover the "extras" which my RE office assures me we will have.

A friend of ours just did IVF #2... both completely out of pocket... resulting in another perfect baby. They have given up on a LOT of luxuries to afford it, but it looks like it's worth it.

Posted 8/27/09 10:36 AM
 

hcsf
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

I am so sorry Ryan...I was waiting and waiting for you to post.....

we will just need to keep throwing Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon your way along with Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon vibes.

Posted 8/27/09 11:03 AM
 

HopelesslyDiscouraged
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?


Ugh--I'm so sorry!

I know what you are goin thru. I, myself have Unexplained IF.......it sucks b/c theres no way to "fix" anything.

I also had 3 IUI's........2 w/ clomid and one w/ injectibles. After the 3rd BFN......I needed a break.......a huge break. I promised myself to enjoy the summer and thats what Im doing.

I don't know what my future plans are......I just keep trying and praying that it will work for me/us! And Patience......as hard as it is to learn.....this has taught me Patience!

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ETA: I also had 3 great follies all 3 times.....and NADA! Chat Icon

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Posted 8/27/09 11:21 AM
 

skinny
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

I'm so sorry. I know how it feels. Unexplained IF is so annoying----I kind of wish something was "wrong" w/ me so at least they could "fix" it.

Don't give up hope!

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Posted 8/27/09 12:50 PM
 

diva7531
My Peanut

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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: Did I mention my BFN?

Posted by nycgirl

That stinks!

I'm in the same boat with you. Pretty young with unexplained IF... and I just have this chewing feeling that only IVF will work. All the rest of the conditions have been too "perfect." It would be great to just be able to "fix" something...

You just completed IUI #2, right?

Hang in there! People give away their meds often gratis... maybe it's an option. We hope to be able to save a few thousand by next year to cover the "extras" which my RE office assures me we will have.

A friend of ours just did IVF #2... both completely out of pocket... resulting in another perfect baby. They have given up on a LOT of luxuries to afford it, but it looks like it's worth it.



Thanks everyone, sometimes I forget that if it wasn't for this board how lost I would be in knowledge and hope!

This was IUI #3 (1 unmedicated and 2 medicated [I actually missed an IUI once and had to do timed BD])

Posted 8/27/09 1:47 PM
 

KrisT
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Posted 8/27/09 1:49 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: Did I mention my BFN?

You're just a bit ahead of me...

I like the board because it makes me feel less lonely.

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We'll get there!

Posted 8/27/09 3:50 PM
 

Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!

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Posted 8/27/09 5:05 PM
 

babycranium
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Roberta

Re: Did I mention my BFN?

So sorry. Don't give up. I had 4 IUI's the first time before I had my DS.
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Posted 8/27/09 5:07 PM
 

shiv
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Posted 8/28/09 9:48 AM
 
 

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