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TTCingAgain
LIF Toddler

Member since 9/08

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Nobody gets it

Thank you ladies for letting me come on here and vent. The only person IRL who knows about us TTC is my sister. I just emailed her telling her i wanted to test this week and how i feel good about the cramps but how it could be AF cramps too.

DO PEOPLE NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW OFCOURSE IT COULD BE A BFN?? I mean ive been ttc for a f*cking year. I think i know that cramps could be AF or BFP. But cant i just be allowed to friggin get ALITTLE dam n excited?? I am so sick of being told that i should let AF come. When people arent TTC they have NO idea. And last yr when more people did know, they trivialized it. Yeah must be nice when you get PG on your first try or so,

Im so frustrated that i have NO one to cheer for me or anything bc everyone is always being "realistic" (MAM- NOT YOU!!! I tell you EVERYTHING!!)

Thank god i have you ladies to just let me vent even if its silly or "unrealistic"

Message edited 3/3/2009 11:53:40 AM.

Posted 3/3/09 11:52 AM
 
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

Member since 10/07

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Re: Nobody gets it

Phew! I totally thought this was for me...

You know that I know what it's like to be in your shoes - thinking that the chances are SO great and that I am pregnant - and then to find yourself crushed when AF comes. I just would hate for anyone to have to experience that, KWIM? So I always try to help people see BOTH sides of the story...

I really do hope this is it for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/09 11:56 AM
 

TTCingAgain
LIF Toddler

Member since 9/08

388 total posts

Name:
In Hiding

Re: Nobody gets it

Posted by maybeamommy

Phew! I totally thought this was for me...

You know that I know what it's like to be in your shoes - thinking that the chances are SO great and that I am pregnant - and then to find yourself crushed when AF comes. I just would hate for anyone to have to experience that, KWIM? So I always try to help people see BOTH sides of the story...

I really do hope this is it for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Im glad i added that part about you bc i was afraid youd think i was talking about you bc we were just FMing
Im just being sensitive- see AF must be on her wayChat Icon

Posted 3/3/09 12:11 PM
 

luckystar08
LIF Infant

Member since 9/08

354 total posts

Name:
C

Re: Nobody gets it

Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sorry, I know how you feel! It's so frustrating because we walk that fine line of trying to be hopeful and positive, yet we know we have to be realistic or else we will be completely crushed every month if we get a BFN.Hhang in there and feel free to vent as often as you like!!

Posted 3/3/09 12:12 PM
 

skinny
3 boys and a princess!

Member since 11/08

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Momma

Re: Nobody gets it

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Trust me, I understand! I'm so glad 2 have these boards to be able to b!tch and vent!

Posted 3/3/09 3:21 PM
 

katiebug
I'll love you for always

Member since 2/08

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Katie

Re: Nobody gets it

I just wanted to offer a Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


Thank goodness for these boards, or I would go nuts.

Posted 3/3/09 3:23 PM
 

JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08

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Jen

Re: Nobody gets it

Just wondering...have you had any testing done?

Posted 3/3/09 3:59 PM
 

TTCingAgain
LIF Toddler

Member since 9/08

388 total posts

Name:
In Hiding

Re: Nobody gets it

Posted by JennyPenny

Just wondering...have you had any testing done?



yes. everything is fine, i conceived over summer, had m/c in fall

Posted 3/3/09 5:50 PM
 

wcs3504
my boys

Member since 2/06

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Wanda (formerly cw0904 on LIW)

Re: Nobody gets it

I can completely relate. I was a mess the past few days with the cramps I was feeling. Unfortunately for me, AF showed up!

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Posted 3/3/09 7:43 PM
 

Octbaby10
LIF Infant

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Re: Nobody gets it

Let it out hun Chat Icon
Stay positive and try not to stress. It never helps any situation. Keep your chin up Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/09 8:13 PM
 
 
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