BD related question-Do you and DH...

Do anything to try to take the "pressure" off? Anything romantic-candles, wine, lingerie?

I know V-day is coming up and this came to mind.

We try not to think about the purpose to avoid performance anxiety. I am trying to spice it up for him to keep pressure down.

Re: BD related question-Do you and DH...

usually not...lol

although this is our first month TTC so we may need to spice things up pretty soon as well.

Once in a while we use massage oil or lotion. I love it!

Re: BD related question-Do you and DH...

sadly no

well not usually but there have been times when i'll go upstairs and he'll have the whole room lit up with candles -- that's always nice