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Why did I do that???

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MrDeeNMe
whatcha doin!?

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Nikole

Why did I do that???

So AF is due to show tomorrow... and DH and I BD'd on the days that I thought I O'd - never got a peak on CBEFM - and few days after...

So I decided to test this morning... and BFN... Chat Icon Chat Icon
I'm so disheartened by this whole process... Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm back on the wagon again after a MC in June, three months of AN-ovulatory cycles (Sept., Oct., Nov.) , a cyst removal, D&C, HSG (in Dec.), and blood panels (all of which came back freakin' NORMAL Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon ) and hoped that this would be it... at least I would see improvement in the O'ing department... and still nothing.

We are officially ONE year TTC and I can't take this cr@p anymore... I want to choke the person responsible for making me like this! My mother and grandmothers both had NO issue with conceiving... why me?

Every single friend in our age group is PG, just had a baby or is already working on #2 or 3... Is it because I want it so badly that something's stopping this from happening?

Sorry I needed to vent... Chat Icon

Message edited 1/26/2009 11:47:43 AM.

Posted 1/26/09 11:46 AM
 
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nferrandi
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Nicole

Re: Why did I do that???

I'm so sorry you're so upset. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 11:52 AM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: Why did I do that???

Is it possible that you had another anovulatory cycle?

I know how frustrating this is... and getting to the 1-year mark can be very painful!

My mom had NO trouble conceiving either - and of course I thought I'd be the same way!

Please VENT AWAY! And you know you can always FM me if you want to talk.

Posted 1/26/09 11:53 AM
 

sweetdreamz1181
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Posted 1/26/09 12:40 PM
 

ETAB
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Re: Why did I do that???

Vent away.... it is okay to feel that way... it just gets very frustrating.... Is there any way you could go to the dr to confirm you are oing.I am so sorry you are feeling this way.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 1:45 PM
 

sj-girl
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Posted 1/26/09 2:01 PM
 

jam11308

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Posted 1/26/09 2:02 PM
 

waiting4ablessing
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Posted 1/26/09 5:33 PM
 

MG156
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Re: Why did I do that???

Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm sorry hun Chat Icon

Posted 1/26/09 6:10 PM
 

Tinyswife
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Cathleen

Re: Why did I do that???

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Posted 1/26/09 8:34 PM
 

skinny
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I'm so sorry u r going through this. Has your DH had a SA? Have you been to a RE? (I know you had blood work done and the HSG, but I know some people go to their OBGYN's for those tests.)

Posted 1/27/09 9:10 AM
 

MrDeeNMe
whatcha doin!?

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Nikole

Re: Why did I do that???

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I'm so sorry u r going through this. Has your DH had a SA? Have you been to a RE? (I know you had blood work done and the HSG, but I know some people go to their OBGYN's for those tests.)



Yeah, DH had an SA in August of 08 and all was normal... I haven't been to an RE yet... I'm actually kind of afraid to go - I just don't want to hear that everything is FINE, you just need to "relax"... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/09 6:22 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Michelle

Re: Why did I do that???

I am so sorry hun-i wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, but I can give hugsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/09 6:41 AM
 

CrankyPants
I'm cranky

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Posted 1/28/09 8:23 AM
 
 
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