? about Deanna's Plan

On Deanna's plan it says not to try every night but DH and I have BD'd every night this week since Monday.....is that bad??? The doctor said it couldn't hurt to try every night but every other was fine too. I figured the more we try, the better the chances.....am i wrong??

Re: ? about Deanna's Plan

I don't know, but if your doctor said it's okay, I would think that it is.

Re: ? about Deanna's Plan

My Dr. was not against BDing every night. But he said every other night was better because it gives DH's "men" time to build up.

Re: ? about Deanna's Plan

found this:

Question:
Can having too much sex affect our chances of conception?


Expert Answers:
Sherman Silber, fertility specialist

No. While many couples believe they have to save the man's ejaculate until the exact moment of ovulation, that's not true. In fact some couples become so obsessed with timing sex during ovulation that they actually hurt their chances of getting pregnant. Stressing over ovulation can wreak havoc on your cycle — not to mention your marriage!

It's a myth to think you should have less sex in order to conceive. All the evidence shows that the more you have sex, the better your chances of getting pregnant. In fact, having sex often ensures that the sperm in a man's ejaculate is as healthy as it can be. Storing it up can decrease its motility, so don't be tempted to put off intercourse until you ovulate, and don't abstain for more than seven days in a row. While it's true that the density of sperm in each ejaculate diminishes with frequent orgasms, all that really matters is that there is some sperm in the woman's fallopian tubes during the time of ovulation.

This is not to say that you should have or need to have sex every day when attempting pregnancy. I would recommend two or three times a week.