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katiebell
Hoping, wishing, waiting....
Member since 8/06 1418 total posts
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it's starting to happen....
When we first started TTC lots of my friends were also. Now they all have 1+ year olds and I was left in the dust....Now I am starting to get news of them already pg with #2!!! All of my friendships have already drifted apart because they plan playdates instead of our used to be monthly "girls poker night" Its just so hard to be going through this all by myself.....I know you guys are all here and a great support but its not the same as a real life friend 
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Posted 10/31/08 6:50 AM  |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: it's starting to happen....
I know the feeling  It definately is hard & I do find myself pulling away at times...
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| Posted 10/31/08 7:07 AM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
Member since 5/05 19978 total posts
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Jen - counting my blessings...
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Re: it's starting to happen....
Oh I know.....I am waaaaaay behind....but as I look back..I've always been a little behind...in HS, in the dating game, finding the right job...so I guess that's normal for me!
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| Posted 10/31/08 8:42 AM |
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Reese32
LIF Adult
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Re: it's starting to happen....
I know exactly how you feel. Since the beginning of September, SIX couples we know - SIX!! - have announced that they are pregnant. Four of them got married after us...it's hard. And I feel guilty, too because my first reaction is jealousy, not happiness, and I know how wrong that is.
I know it isn't the same as real life, but everyone here truly is there for each other.
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| Posted 10/31/08 9:19 AM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
Member since 2/08 2485 total posts
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Beth -Ann
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Re: it's starting to happen....
Posted by CaseyGirl
Oh I know.....I am waaaaaay behind....but as I look back..I've always been a little behind...in HS, in the dating game, finding the right job...so I guess that's normal for me!
Me too!!!
And ALL my friends are DONE having their kids. The youngest is 3 (shoot the oldest is 12) And they all did the same thing, married later and had kids later. Though I guess its somewhat helpful that they all live in NJ.
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| Posted 10/31/08 10:05 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
Member since 5/05 30683 total posts
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Re: it's starting to happen....
I know the feeling. Many of my friends were so scared of telling me they were PG, because they knew DH and I were trying for a long time
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| Posted 10/31/08 11:57 AM |
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Daisy32
Mommy
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Re: it's starting to happen....
Posted by katiebell
When we first started TTC lots of my friends were also. Now they all have 1+ year olds and I was left in the dust....Now I am starting to get news of them already pg with #2!!! All of my friendships have already drifted apart because they plan playdates instead of our used to be monthly "girls poker night" Its just so hard to be going through this all by myself.....I know you guys are all here and a great support but its not the same as a real life friend
Me too...I'm in the exact SAME boat. I could have written this myself 
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| Posted 10/31/08 12:10 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: it's starting to happen....
I know how you feel...I'm way behind all of my friends, too
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| Posted 10/31/08 3:23 PM |
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WNA01
my 2 boys
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Re: it's starting to happen....
I know how u feel. I cant count how many people i know found out they were preg after i mc.. 2 cousins right after my mc. i felt like my heart was being ripped out of my chest. for you. Hope u feel better
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| Posted 10/31/08 3:34 PM |
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stretch
LIF Infant
Member since 6/07 129 total posts
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Re: it's starting to happen....
Posted by daisy32
Posted by katiebell
When we first started TTC lots of my friends were also. Now they all have 1+ year olds and I was left in the dust....Now I am starting to get news of them already pg with #2!!! All of my friendships have already drifted apart because they plan playdates instead of our used to be monthly "girls poker night" Its just so hard to be going through this all by myself.....I know you guys are all here and a great support but its not the same as a real life friend
Me too...I'm in the exact SAME boat. I could have written this myself
I can join you in the boat.....and I am seeing a friend next weekend and from how she was on the phone, I think another BFP....I am thrilled for her, but fustrated for me and DH.
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| Posted 10/31/08 6:08 PM |
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