I'm torn.....UPDATE

I always feel ovulation happening by cramping on either side of my lower abdomen area. From what I understand this can be a good time or an almost too late time to BD. Am I right so far? DH and I usually try to BD at least one day before and day after when TTC

Okay so now I feel ovulation today and I'm not sure if we should BD.....I knew it was coming but I just can't decide to go for it or not......A week and a half ago I had mc at 5 weeks PG. I haven't been back to the dr after the first day after the mc yet or gotten an all clear from him. I can't decide if we should try this month or not.......thoughts?

**Update** I have always believed everything happens for a reason and if its right it will happen so I decided to leave it to chanxce.....so we are now in the 2 week wait, need I say more?

Message edited 10/14/2008 8:42:26 AM.

Re: I'm torn.....

This is a tough one....your doctor will tell you to wait one cycle since it was early and natural.

But at the same time, I kinda feel like if your body is ready, it will work out. There are girls on pregnancy who conceived again right away.

It's a tough decision, and only you know whats right for you. My experience was that we tried right away after our first m/c, but didn't conceive that month anyway. Now after our 2nd m/c my doc is saying to wait two months...I am wrestling with deciding what to do, as well.

Good luck with your decision!

Re: I'm torn.....UPDATE

bumping update

Re: I'm torn.....UPDATE

I'm so happy you made a decision that you are comfortable with. Having never had a m/c, I wasn't sure how to respond to your OP - but I wish you the best of luck! And as you said, whatever's meant to be will be