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I can't stop wondering...
Remember when I posted a while back about the spotting, the weird cycle, the cramping, etc, and the late AF, with the dark brown spotting.
Even thought I tested BFN a few days before my AF and never had a BFP, could it have been a possible pregnancy with a MC at a "normal" time?
I never had a cycle like that. I still felt I may have been PG. I don't know why it matters, but I guess I can't stop wondering if it could have been....
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Posted 10/12/08 12:23 AM  |
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waterspout4
My loves
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Kelly
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
It's definately possible. I was thinking about that as you were going through it. I'm not a fan of the term 'chemical'. If you're pregnant, you are pregnant.
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| Posted 10/12/08 6:48 AM |
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maybebaby
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Maureen
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
I know its easier said than done, but I would not look into it too much...
Think of it this way...they say that a large percentage of women at some point will have an early miscarriage/chemical at some point in life but never ever know it. You don't feel differently, period comes on time or within a few days of normal, etc...in those instances the pregnancy is just not viable and that is the result.
I hope you don't read my response as insensitive...I am trying to put into words what I'm thinking. I guess I mean to just move forward and not dwell on it...if I had a weird cycle with a late AF and a BFN I would call it just a whacky cycle and nothing else. I would assume I was not pregnant...
Are you guys actively trying now?? If so, good luck to you!!!!
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| Posted 10/12/08 7:48 AM |
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TheNextStep
LIF Adolescent
Member since 8/08 773 total posts
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
With my chemical, I had multiple BFPs then they turned into BFNs.
Either way, I wouldnt think about it so much. . . . just focus on the future!
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| Posted 10/12/08 7:58 AM |
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TCOMF09
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Laura
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
Posted by TheNextStep
With my chemical, I had multiple BFPs then they turned into BFNs.
Either way, I wouldnt think about it so much. . . . just focus on the future!
Ditto!
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| Posted 10/12/08 8:20 AM |
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ready2ttc
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
Posted by TheNextStep
With my chemical, I had multiple BFPs then they turned into BFNs.
Either way, I wouldnt think about it so much. . . . just focus on the future!
At what point did they turn into BFNs? I got a recent BFP but worry about it being this!
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| Posted 10/12/08 9:07 AM |
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
Posted by maybebaby
I know its easier said than done, but I would not look into it too much...
Think of it this way...they say that a large percentage of women at some point will have an early miscarriage/chemical at some point in life but never ever know it. You don't feel differently, period comes on time or within a few days of normal, etc...in those instances the pregnancy is just not viable and that is the result.
I hope you don't read my response as insensitive...I am trying to put into words what I'm thinking. I guess I mean to just move forward and not dwell on it...if I had a weird cycle with a late AF and a BFN I would call it just a whacky cycle and nothing else. I would assume I was not pregnant...
Are you guys actively trying now?? If so, good luck to you!!!!
No, we aren't - we are waiting until next year, although I kind of am hoping for another surprise at this point because it was so awesome to just find out I was PG without going through the stress of trying, so we will see what happens. I want to wait a while for a few logistic reasons (things coming up where having a newborn would be difficult) as well as save some money...
I don't think you are insensitive at all. I am not upset at all and was actually relieved to discover I wasn't PG. I believe there are no accidents and theres a reason for everythng. If I am meant to have #2, it will happen if I'm trying, or even if I'm not. I'm already so blessed, I couldn't ask for more. If its in the cards for me to have another it will happen. If not, I am already more blessed than I ever thought possble! 
thank you ladies!!! 
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| Posted 10/12/08 9:21 AM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: I can't stop wondering...
Did you test during that time at all?
If you tested and it was BFN, then it was probably just a wacky cycle.
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| Posted 10/12/08 2:49 PM |
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