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MaMaTeenie
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Does your DH
know how much you test? Do you share the disappointment with DH? Do you go thru that alone?
eta: i should answer my own question, with DS we got preggo the 1st try and he didn't know I tested until it came back positive and I told him when he came home from work.
We have been trying for 3 mos now, the 1st month I tested twice and did not tell him, the 2nd month I did not test and the 3rd month (this past month) I tested got a BFP but I was ify about it because of 1 light line and I told him after the fact, then I got 2 more BFP's the next day. Now after the mc I don't think I will tell him until after I get a couple positive tests.
Message edited 10/8/2008 2:40:57 PM.
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Angel321
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Re: Does your DH
i think all in all - i tested maybe 4 times in 6 months....
i didn't share with him - no.
I stopped testing because every single time (the last 3 times) i tested, i got AF that day....i figured i'd stop playing with fate... 
Message edited 10/8/2008 2:28:08 PM.
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| Posted 10/8/08 2:27 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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Deanna
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Re: Does your DH
he knew some of the times i was testing... but not all... i would drive him nuts by all the BFN i get
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| Posted 10/8/08 2:42 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: Does your DH
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MRSBA
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Re: Does your DH
I've never tested...but my DH doesn't even want to know about the OPK's
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MrsPowers
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Re: Does your DH
I only tested twice on 6 months. DH knew both times.
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| Posted 10/8/08 3:49 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Does your DH
I always tell DH when I'm testing - we usually pick the day together.
It changes based on the particular month - but some months I don't test at all. Other times I'll test once before AF is due. Other times twice before AF is due.
We always talk about it though - DH likes to be involved
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| Posted 10/8/08 3:51 PM |
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LemonHead
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Re: Does your DH
I rarely test as well. I just wait to get AF.
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| Posted 10/8/08 3:51 PM |
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carlowlou
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Jen
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Re: Does your DH
I've only tested once in 6 months. I didn't tell DH I was going to test but I did tell him after the fact, that I got an BFN.
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| Posted 10/8/08 3:52 PM |
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Melissa1013
My sweet boy
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Re: Does your DH
I don't tell him when and if I'm testing (I would love to be able to surprise him) but I have told him after I've gotten a negative on one occasion.
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| Posted 10/8/08 4:32 PM |
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HomeIsWithU
Baby #2 on the way!
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Re: Does your DH
Posted by MetsGirl07
he knew some of the times i was testing... but not all... i would drive him nuts by all the BFN i get
same here. DH knew some of the times I tested. Sometimes I test when he's not home or when he's sleeping -- I dont tell him because 1) it would make him crazy if he knew how many times I tested and 2) I dont want to disappoint him with the BFNs.
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| Posted 10/8/08 5:48 PM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
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Patty
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Re: Does your DH
I very rarely test, but I will always tell DH what the outcome is. He's in this all the way.
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