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Test or Wait?

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(This poll is closed.)
test tonight 0 0.00%
test tomorrow with FMU 13 81.25%
don't test and wait a few more days 3 18.75%
other (please comment) 0 0.00%
 

To Test or Not to Test...UPDATED 9/30

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Melissa1013
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To Test or Not to Test...UPDATED 9/30

OK, here's the deal. I'm on CD33. My cycles haven't been all that regualr since coming off the pill 6 months ago. My average for AF to show up is 32 days.

Since yesterday I've been feeling pains like AF is going to show up but it's not here yet. Normally for me when I get the pains she's here within a few hours.

I'm not sure when I O'd but if mmc was right it was cd15. I'm not 100% sure but my luteal phase is 14 days.

So my question is...do I test or should I wait?

thanks!

Update 9/30
So I didn't test this morning. Not that I didn't want to and not that I sat there and debated it for a good 5 minutes.

I could just be having a long cycle this month and I'm not sure I wanted a BFN hanging with me all day.

I guess I'll just wait and see what tomorrow brings.

Message edited 9/30/2008 9:17:31 AM.

Posted 9/29/08 3:48 PM
 

MetsGirl07
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

if you think you are a day late... i would test tomorrow with FMU!

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Posted 9/29/08 3:49 PM
 

Melissa1013
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by MetsGirl07

if you think you are a day late... i would test tomorrow with FMU!

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thanks Deanna! I'm so confused! I'm not sure that I am late but I'm probably close.

I'm trying really hard not to get my hopes up, but when she wasn't here this morning I couldn't help it.

Posted 9/29/08 3:52 PM
 

MetsGirl07
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

well if your AF is average 32 days... you should get the hormone you need to get a positive... if you can hold out longer than good for you!! Chat Icon i know i cant..lol

Posted 9/29/08 3:53 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

what is the longest your cycle has been since going off BCP?

Posted 9/29/08 3:58 PM
 

Melissa1013
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by davenjess

what is the longest your cycle has been since going off BCP?



35 days. It was the only one that went that long. The others were either 31,32 or 33 days

Posted 9/29/08 4:04 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by Soon2BeTTC

Posted by davenjess

what is the longest your cycle has been since going off BCP?



35 days. It was the only one that went that long. The others were either 31,32 or 33 days



then, (and this is just my opinion) - i would wait until you are 35 days.

Coming off BCP REALLY, REALLY, REALLY can mess with you for a long time. A friend of mine, her schedule wasn't set for 8 months (32 day cycles, 21 day cycles, etc)...meaning her cycles were all over the MAP.....(it took her 11 months to conceive after coming off the pill).

Posted 9/29/08 4:09 PM
 

Melissa1013
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Melissa

Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by davenjess

Posted by Soon2BeTTC

Posted by davenjess

what is the longest your cycle has been since going off BCP?



35 days. It was the only one that went that long. The others were either 31,32 or 33 days



then, (and this is just my opinion) - i would wait until you are 35 days.

Coming off BCP REALLY, REALLY, REALLY can mess with you for a long time. A friend of mine, her schedule wasn't set for 8 months (32 day cycles, 21 day cycles, etc)...meaning her cycles were all over the MAP.....(it took her 11 months to conceive after coming off the pill).



I think I'm going to try to wait as long as possible (which would be Wednesday -- if AF doesn't show before then)

I appreciate the reply Jess!

Posted 9/29/08 4:13 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by Soon2BeTTC

Posted by davenjess

Posted by Soon2BeTTC

Posted by davenjess

what is the longest your cycle has been since going off BCP?



35 days. It was the only one that went that long. The others were either 31,32 or 33 days



then, (and this is just my opinion) - i would wait until you are 35 days.

Coming off BCP REALLY, REALLY, REALLY can mess with you for a long time. A friend of mine, her schedule wasn't set for 8 months (32 day cycles, 21 day cycles, etc)...meaning her cycles were all over the MAP.....(it took her 11 months to conceive after coming off the pill).



I think I'm going to try to wait as long as possible (which would be Wednesday -- if AF doesn't show before then)

I appreciate the reply Jess!



No worries!!! I always try and wait until i'm mentally prepared for the BFN...(last 3 times i tested, af arrived THAT day)...and i'm never ready - so i don't test...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/29/08 4:15 PM
 

Melissa1013
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Melissa

Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by davenjess

Posted by Soon2BeTTC

Posted by davenjess

Posted by Soon2BeTTC

Posted by davenjess

what is the longest your cycle has been since going off BCP?



35 days. It was the only one that went that long. The others were either 31,32 or 33 days



then, (and this is just my opinion) - i would wait until you are 35 days.

Coming off BCP REALLY, REALLY, REALLY can mess with you for a long time. A friend of mine, her schedule wasn't set for 8 months (32 day cycles, 21 day cycles, etc)...meaning her cycles were all over the MAP.....(it took her 11 months to conceive after coming off the pill).



I think I'm going to try to wait as long as possible (which would be Wednesday -- if AF doesn't show before then)

I appreciate the reply Jess!



No worries!!! I always try and wait until i'm mentally prepared for the BFN...(last 3 times i tested, af arrived THAT day)...and i'm never ready - so i don't test...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I had no plans on testing...but this is just a little strange for me....and it's terrible b/c everytime I go pee I'm checking to see if AF is here.

I think I need my head checked :)

Posted 9/29/08 4:17 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

i know what you mean! i check the TP whenever i go now...it's so odd!!!!!!!!!

Posted 9/29/08 4:18 PM
 

DanandNette
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

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Posted 9/29/08 4:41 PM
 

DanandNette
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by davenjess

i know what you mean! i check the TP whenever i go now...it's so odd!!!!!!!!!



OMG This is me all day today!

Posted 9/29/08 4:41 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

ITA with Jess - wait a few days!

I'm testing on Wednesday we can be buddiesChat Icon

Posted 9/29/08 4:46 PM
 

Melissa1013
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Melissa

Re: To Test or Not to Test...I need some opinions!

Posted by maybeamommy

ITA with Jess - wait a few days!

I'm testing on Wednesday we can be buddiesChat Icon



I'm going to try my hardest to wait but I'm not sure I'm going to make it!

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Posted 9/29/08 9:18 PM
 

Melissa1013
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Melissa

Re: To Test or Not to Test...UPDATED 9/30

bump for update

Posted 9/30/08 9:18 AM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: To Test or Not to Test...UPDATED 9/30

Good for you! Stay strongChat Icon

Now we can test together tomorrow!

Posted 9/30/08 9:25 AM
 
 

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