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BabyAvocado
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Is there anything that has happened to you
in your life that has left you bitter? I don't mean that you are a bitter person in general because of it, but that you are bitter about that particular thing?
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suvenR
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
YUP! At work...
and, I know it's something that I will remember for a looooooooooooong time.
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| Posted 2/2/06 10:04 AM |
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Michi
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
yes 100%..there is a situation that occured to me a while back, and while i dont dwell on it..just the thought of this other person (a girl) makes me want to throttle someone..bitter is a perfect word :)
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| Posted 2/2/06 10:05 AM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
Yes - quite a few things actually..
though I still do not feel as though I'm a bitter person as a result, lately its pushing me towards that!!
Message edited 2/2/2006 10:08:40 AM.
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
sure
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LIBOUND
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
Yes... and all I'll say about it is that it made me bitter all around for a looooong time...and it had to do with a man.
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| Posted 2/2/06 10:11 AM |
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Stefanie
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
YES and I will no longer talk to that person or have her at my house to see my son ever.
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| Posted 2/2/06 10:12 AM |
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kathleeng
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
Yup, losing my mother left me EXTREMELY bitter and angry for awhile. I was pretty much mad at the world and extremely angry at those who I felt "had it better". I kind of had the "why me?" mentality, particularly against those who had parents ; especially the ones who lived to be grandparents.
Since then, I have grown to realize that we all have our tragedy's and strife's, it is an imperfect world. I just have to enjoy my life as I can.
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PrincessP
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
Posted by kathleeng
Yup, losing my mother left me EXTREMELY bitter and angry for awhile. I was pretty much mad at the world and extremely angry at those who I felt "had it better". I kind of had the "why me?" mentality, particularly against those who had parents ; especially the ones who lived to be grandparents.
Since then, I have grown to realize that we all have our tragedy's and strife's, it is an imperfect world. I just have to enjoy my life as I can.
 I just lost my dad 2 months ago and like you ...I am so bitter for the same exact reasons! My DH has grandparents still alive and married in the 80s. We just went down to see them. My mom will never have this and my siblings and I will never have this nor will my children. I am also bitter at the people who say they are here for you and they clearly are onto their own lives. I totally sympathize with you and know what you are going through. Like you said I am living my life the best I know how for now.
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
yes I have. And I highly doubt I will EVER be rid of this bitterness in this situation
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
Posted by dooodles
yes I have. And I highly doubt I will EVER be rid of this bitterness in this situation
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kathleeng
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Re: Is there anything that has happened to you
Posted by PrincessP
Posted by kathleeng
Yup, losing my mother left me EXTREMELY bitter and angry for awhile. I was pretty much mad at the world and extremely angry at those who I felt "had it better". I kind of had the "why me?" mentality, particularly against those who had parents ; especially the ones who lived to be grandparents.
Since then, I have grown to realize that we all have our tragedy's and strife's, it is an imperfect world. I just have to enjoy my life as I can.
I just lost my dad 2 months ago and like you ...I am so bitter for the same exact reasons! My DH has grandparents still alive and married in the 80s. We just went down to see them. My mom will never have this and my siblings and I will never have this nor will my children. I am also bitter at the people who say they are here for you and they clearly are onto their own lives. I totally sympathize with you and know what you are going through. Like you said I am living my life the best I know how for now.
Sorry about your dad. I have to admit that more than 7 years later, I still do not feel 100%. I don't think I ever will. But you will find ways to help yourself heal. One of the greatest comforts has been having my husband. Thinking of the future and our future children (God willing) provides a huge amount of comfort to me as well.
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