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how would you react to this...

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pugmama
April already?

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Erica

how would you react to this...

my mom booked a week long cruise with her boyfriend for 2 weeks after my baby is to be born.

On top of that, when my daughter was 2 weeks old she had to be in the PICU for a week because she stopped breathing.


She doesnt understand why I am upset. I am wondering if I am wrong to be.

Posted 8/7/08 4:40 PM
 
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monkeybride
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Re: how would you react to this...

Are you guys close? Were you counting on her help?
I personally wouldn't care but that is in my circumstances given my relationship with my mother. I can definitely understand being a little bit disappointed that she didn't plan the timing better.

Posted 8/7/08 4:47 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: how would you react to this...

Im VERY close to my mom and would not care if she did that. that may be just me. By then I will be looking for her to go home and let me rest.Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/08 4:57 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Stephanie

Re: how would you react to this...

Posted by JennZ

Im VERY close to my mom and would not care if she did that. that may be just me. By then I will be looking for her to go home and let me rest.Chat Icon



I agree, I would not mind

Posted 8/7/08 5:01 PM
 

hmm8191
My loves

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Heather

Re: how would you react to this...

I'd be disappointed but I don't think I could say anything to her. It's my baby and my life "event" and I couldn't really expect her to put her life on hold for me.

But like I said I'd be upset inside!

Posted 8/7/08 5:09 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: how would you react to this...

I'm extremely close with my mother and I'd def be hurt if she planned that!

Posted 8/7/08 5:27 PM
 

MrsBumbleb
it's me

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Christine

Re: how would you react to this...

I wouldn't expect any less of my motherChat Icon

You'll be fine. It is very anxiety provoking at first but you'll have other supports. You'll be surprised how fast you work out a system.

Remember how DH stated he couldn't wait to just sit around watching baseball holding a newborn. Well... Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/08 5:31 PM
 

Secretely-Excited
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Member since 6/08

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Name:
LeShelle

Re: how would you react to this...

My mom planned a trip out of the country two weeks after my due date. She didn't even realize, she will be postponing this trip.

Posted 8/7/08 5:33 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: how would you react to this...

i'm very close to mymom and I would be ******!

Posted 8/7/08 6:39 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

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Name:
LB

Re: how would you react to this...

i would be very upset, and my mom knows it. she is planning some of her vacation this year around when Chat Icon is supposed to arrive.

i am sorry she did that Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/7/08 6:42 PM
 
 

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