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When did you or will you tell?

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surfersgirl
LIF Infant

Member since 6/08

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When did you or will you tell?

12 weeks? end of first trimester? When do people usually go "public"?

Posted 6/8/08 7:10 PM
 
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma

Member since 9/06

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Anne

Re: When did you or will you tell?

It's different for everyone. You do what makes you comfortable.

My first pregnancy I waited until 8 weeks to tell my mom and sister. 11 for the rest of the family and I m/c @ 12 Chat Icon This time I told most of the family right after I POAS Chat Icon You do what you want and when the time is right for you. Congratulations!

Posted 6/8/08 7:30 PM
 

Hofstra26
Love to Bake!

Member since 7/06

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Re: When did you or will you tell?

We told our parents as soon as I POAS. Chat Icon We also told our siblings and close friends as soon as we found out. We told our extended family at about 9 weeks and I told everyone at work around 12 weeks. Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/08 7:36 PM
 

browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

Member since 6/06

6513 total posts

Name:
browneyes

Re: When did you or will you tell?

family and friends...immediately.

on here...right away but under a fake name. under my real name...after the ultrascreen.

at work...after the ultrascreen.

Posted 6/8/08 8:01 PM
 

Laura1976

Member since 5/05

5754 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: When did you or will you tell?

1st pregnancy, 12 weeks

this pregnancy, we needed a babysitter for our first sono at 8 weeks, so we told my parents...that day we found out it was twins, so we had to tell my parents and we knew that they werent' going to be able to keep news like that a secret so we ended up telling everyone then.

Posted 6/8/08 8:43 PM
 

sweetbabydreams
My Dream come true!

Member since 12/07

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Stephanie

Re: When did you or will you tell?

my first pregnancy i told the world as soon as i POAS. then MC at 7 weeks. this pregancy i POAS surprized DH day later cuz i was trying to hold old till fathers day and that didnt happen and we just told my mom and his mom last night so fathers day we want to surprize his dad and grandfather. As far as work goes im not gonna advertise it but i will be avoiding a lot of activity and i think they will catch on. In my opinion It was great having everyone know because god for bid something did happen again you will have the support system there. The first trimester seems to be the most stressful.

Posted 6/8/08 11:25 PM
 

My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies

Member since 2/08

9702 total posts

Name:
Valerie

Re: When did you or will you tell?

With #1 I was 6 mnths

#2 I was 2 mnths
#3 I was 5 wks

Posted 6/8/08 11:56 PM
 

LIMOMx2
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Member since 5/05

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Re: When did you or will you tell?

I told everyone practically right when we POAS with both.Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/08 7:02 AM
 

natasa
Girls Rule

Member since 2/07

2035 total posts

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natasa

Re: When did you or will you tell?

We told (1st relation) family once the pregnancy was confirmed by Dr. at 7 weeks. Then everyone else after the 12th week.

Posted 6/9/08 8:08 AM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

6453 total posts

Name:
Jeannine

Re: When did you or will you tell?

I am almost 12 weeks and we have only told a few people, we will be telling everyone in the next week or two.

Posted 6/9/08 8:36 AM
 

hmm8191
My loves

Member since 3/06

2908 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: When did you or will you tell?

We told DH's brother and his wife the day I POAS. We told me family (brother, sisters, mom and dad) a week later. than his Mom a few days after that.

We waited to tell everyone else until the heartbeat was confirmed at just over 7 weeks. I told work at the same time.

Posted 6/9/08 10:10 AM
 

kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

Member since 6/06

13519 total posts

Name:
Kerry

Re: When did you or will you tell?

Friends & Family---7 Weeks (once we heard the HB & had the ultrasound photo)

Work--I'm waiting the 12 Weeks

Posted 6/9/08 10:31 AM
 

ohbaby08
Winter is Coming

Member since 10/07

1718 total posts

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Re: When did you or will you tell?

We told our parents after our first sonogram at 9 weeks. I told work after the end of the first trimester, so around 13-14 weeks.

Posted 6/9/08 10:46 AM
 

Dulcinea
Weekend Warrior

Member since 3/08

2530 total posts

Name:
Dulcinea

Re: When did you or will you tell?

Family and some close friends at 8-10 weeks.

Work - when it becomes too obvious! probably 16 weeks.

Posted 6/9/08 11:16 AM
 

newwife08
LIF Adult

Member since 6/08

1001 total posts

Name:
Indira

Re: When did you or will you tell?

What is POAS? I'm new, sorryChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/08 11:56 AM
 

mikeswife06
Drama Momma

Member since 9/06

9947 total posts

Name:
Anne

Re: When did you or will you tell?

Posted by newwife08

What is POAS? I'm new, sorryChat Icon Chat Icon


pee on a stick

Posted 6/9/08 12:47 PM
 

dgirl
LIF Adult

Member since 5/07

1079 total posts

Name:
Danielle

Re: When did you or will you tell?

We told my MIL yesterday because when we go out we usually get wine and she would have known immediately anyway since I didn't have any.

I told my mom this morning over the phone and she was in hysterics and so happy. She's had a rough few months and it made me so happy to bring her a little joy.

I just got my BFP's.

Posted 6/9/08 1:10 PM
 
 

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