Susan - I'm hoping it all works out quickly for you, and that seeing the RE just turns out to be a precautionary measure!
Me too..I'm cautiously optimistic. I don't want to fool myself either. I waited a long time to be ready for a child..I'm not even sure I'll ever really be ready, but now that the clock is ticking very loudly, I don't want to have any regrets.
I told DH he has to go work for Verizon because they have an excellent IVF benefit..