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Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

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anonttcer
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Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

After reading the posts yesterday about how nasty and mean women could be to each other- I just had to post my experience today.

I met a friend for lunch at a local pub/restaurant that we are both regulars at.
It was pretty empty in there today- just a few people scattered around the bar.
So I'm sitting at the bar- having a drink with my friend and we are BSing. At one point he goes- "Gee I wonder why that girl just moved her seat". Apparently there was a girl sitting near us- who I didn't even notice until he brought it up- who just kind of got up and moved her seat. I glanced over, but was like- I don't know, whatever. I mean we weren't being loud- just talking in a normal tone- especially considering it was a bar. I was talking to the bartender and some of the waiters that walked by too- as I said we are regulars here and know pretty much everyone.

So an hour goes by and we get up to leave. This girl is now talking to a few random guys at the bar. (not sure if she knew them or just started talking to them). As I walk past her she goes OUT OF HER WAY- to step back and put her foot in my line of walking- obviously trying to kick or trip me!!!

Now- I don't know this woman from a hole in the wall- NEVER saw her before in my life! And I certainly didn't do anything AT ALL to her to warrant her anger or agression towards me! I didn't even look or speak to her. I didn't even notice her until my friend pointed out that she moved her seat!

I was so taken aback that I kept walking and didn't even really have a chance to process what just happened until I got outside in the parking lot. Then I was like- What the EFF???

Now I SOOOO wish I would have said something. Like "Excuse me but WHAT is your problem with me??" But again, it all happened so fast at the time. I am now STEWING over this. I want to know exactly what she thought I did that gave her- A GROWN WOMAN- the right to act like this?

I really am FUMING right now!!! Is it just me??
Why do grown women act like this to each other?? Serioulsy!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 2:50 PM
 
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Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

I still cant figure this out...Chat Icon

But I have seen it far far to many times!!!

Posted 4/22/08 2:56 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

She was probably just jealous that you knew so many people there, and was having a good time. She probably craves attention and wasn't getting it! Women are weird--lol

Posted 4/22/08 3:14 PM
 

HoneyBadger
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Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

That is incredibly bizarre. Not to mention childish.

Chalk it up to people acting strange.

Posted 4/22/08 3:20 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Leslie

Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

You decreased her odds! How dare you! That person needs to get a grip.

Posted 4/22/08 3:23 PM
 

anonttcer
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Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

So I had to update.

I just texted my friend who works there and was behind the bar at the time and I said to him- "Umm, what was that girl's problem with me? Did I do/say something wrong?"
And he texted me back that he had no idea what her issue was but that she walked out on her check and also left her cell phone behind- which he was holding for "ransom" until he got paid Chat Icon

I feel better now... It seems she was an all around crazy... or in light of today's post on the topic- what we would call "TRASH"

I swear- some people in this world should not be allowed to be unsupervised ever!! Chat Icon

Message edited 4/22/2008 4:02:44 PM.

Posted 4/22/08 4:02 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

Not to give a nasty stranger the benefit of the the doubt but...

I had a teenager literally bang into me and not apologize at Costco the other day. Full on bang into me and just walk away. I was fuming until I realized I knew her and she is developmentally delayed. You couldn't tell by looking at her and I would have just chalked it up to a rude teenager.

Maybe she was not all there?Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 4:12 PM
 

anonttcer
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Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

Posted by CkGm

Not to give a nasty stranger the benefit of the the doubt but...

I had a teenager literally bang into me and not apologize at Costco the other day. Full on bang into me and just walk away. I was fuming until I realized I knew her and she is developmentally delayed. You couldn't tell by looking at her and I would have just chalked it up to a rude teenager.

Maybe she was not all there?Chat Icon



I mean it could very well be... You never know...
IMO she wasn't all there in any case to be acting like this- whether she was actually developmentally delayed or not.
So I chalk it up to that I guess.
Especially hearing she also walked out on the bill.... Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 4:15 PM
 

DaniJude
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Danielle

Re: Another Catty/Nasty Women Post!

never ceases to amaze me - i'm so sorry Chat Icon

Posted 4/22/08 4:31 PM
 
 

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