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sorgy
LIF Infant
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For those of you who have had a miscarriage
Hi, I am just about 9 weeks and I found out last night it's just a matter of time before I miscarry.
From the beginning I have had problems because I was about 2 weeks behind what I normally should be. I have had to go for blood work and sono's every week.
Last night I went for a sono and I am 9 weeks showing a fetal size of just 6 weeks. There has been minimal growth in the last 3 weeks. The Drs. say I can't do anything until the heart stops beating on it's own.
Anyone ever been in this situation? If so how long until it's over. As harsh as it may seem I have been dealing with this since I found out I am pregnant and I am ready to move on. I don't think emotionally I can hang in to much longer.
Any advice would be great.
Thanks ladies I appreciate all of your kind words.
Message edited 2/28/2008 1:37:12 PM.
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Gumpslilqtpie
Living the DREAM!!!
Member since 7/06 2646 total posts
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Kimmer
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
No advice...just 
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| Posted 2/28/08 12:38 PM |
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lovemy2boys
LIF Adult
Member since 10/07 3915 total posts
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
omg I'm very sorry for what you are going through I don't have any advice for you, I hope you get to move on from this very soon
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| Posted 2/28/08 12:41 PM |
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MrsPJB2007
MBA at your service!
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MJ
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
i'm so sorry---just wanted to offer some : 
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| Posted 2/28/08 12:52 PM |
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firsttimer
Member since 5/07 1532 total posts
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
Ugh - I went throught the same thing at 8 weeks with my first pregnancy.
Fetal growth stopped just short of 6 weeks and the heart was still beating at 8 weeks, but it was the faintest of beats. I was told it was not a viable pregnancy and it was a matter of waiting it out.
It was so devastating for me as I too had to wait for nature to take over. Within 5 days I started to bleed and cramp and by 7 days I had miscarried everything naturally.
If you need to chat more you can FM me.
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 2/28/08 12:54 PM |
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neener1211
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J
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I just wish you the best. 
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| Posted 2/28/08 12:54 PM |
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msbree825
whole lotta cute...
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
i'm sorry i have no advice, but i just wanted to say i'm sorry that u are havning to go thru this.
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:12 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
Im so sorry, for me I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks, nothing developed no sac, nothing. Basically they told me that I had to wait till my levels went down to 0 before I could start trying again.
This process took about 3 weeks.
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:21 PM |
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chikita315
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M-lo
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bicosi
life is a carousel
Member since 7/07 14956 total posts
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M
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I am so sorry! I pray for you to have much strength during this time!
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:23 PM |
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wannabemom
look who's freshly baked!
Member since 12/07 7364 total posts
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
so sad..... I have no advice, only 
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:24 PM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I just wanted to send you hugs and prayers and say I am very sorry.
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:25 PM |
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CalendarGirl16
Alyssa's Mommy!!!
Member since 7/07 1138 total posts
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Tiffany
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sami
So very blessed!! Thank u !!
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I had a m/c..mine went really quick I did not feel well one day cramping etc..that night I started to bleed....in the AM I was having contractions i was 12 weeks went to the hospital ...and it just passed on its own!....
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:29 PM |
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
Member since 9/06 9947 total posts
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Anne
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I am so sorry. By the time we had the sono there was no HB so we opted for a D&C.
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| Posted 2/28/08 1:56 PM |
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DeniseMarie
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
so sorry
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| Posted 2/28/08 2:09 PM |
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MEWF
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/07 503 total posts
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
hugcry:
i mc at 6 weeks. heart wasnt yet beating. sac was there baby wasnt. i knew it was happening. it passed 1 week after the dr said it would. i felt a sharp pain once in my back ( which was a sign of impending mc) then the next day it started.....it was painless and quick. it was like a normal period- mine are very short and light this was no differnt. i cried a lot. and was very angry. i missed a good friends baby shower b.c too many preggos would be there.. and i couldnt deal....
then 3 weeks later i was pg with twins. im now finishing up my 2nd trimester and all is well.
it doesnt sound bad to want it over. its very hard to move on until this passes.
im so sorry for your loss. FM me if you want.. people often dont thnk its painful to have this happen eary on but it was very hard for me and im sure for you as well. . first trimester MC are not indicitave of future ones. best of luck
GL
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| Posted 2/28/08 2:48 PM |
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astroqueen74
Vibrant Health
Member since 1/07 2822 total posts
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Karina
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I am really sorry for what you are going through. Do you have a perinatal specialist?
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| Posted 2/28/08 4:26 PM |
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My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I aslo have had one its called a molar pregnancy and I had to have a D&C done to remove it I was 5weeks and its hard but know that we will be here for you and keep your head up. I got prego with my daughter 3 mnths after that and she was very healthy
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| Posted 2/28/08 4:39 PM |
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AnotherBFP
LIF Infant
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Re: For those of you who have had a miscarriage
I am so sorry for what you are going through. Please know that you will get through this eventhough it seems difficult right now. I promise.
I had a a natural miscarriage at 5w that started 1/22. It lasted for four days and was like a period. I had no cramping or pain. To my surprise we got pregnant 3 weeks after the miscarriage and are now 5w4d along. Please note that you will get pregnant again!!! FM me if you need.
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