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I'm going to the boondocks

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Bxgell2
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I'm going to the boondocks

Next week. To Webster County, West Virginia to conduct an on-site investigation against a school.

When I say boondocks, I mean it. It's in the mountains of WV, and the closest hotel is an hour away.

I want them to feel slightly intimidated, but also comfortable enough to talk freely with me, thinking I'm their ally.

So, what should i wear? Suit? Business casual?

Message edited 1/16/2008 7:38:38 AM.

Posted 1/16/08 7:38 AM
 
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ml110
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

oh man!! well.. DHs family is all from way out in western PA- not quite west virginia, but very close! LOL so i know that kind of area and people pretty well...
everything is sooo much more casual in places like that that i think you would definitely intimidate them TOO much if you wore a suit... i would do some nicer business casual just to make yourself slightly more approachable to them. good luck!!

Posted 1/16/08 7:46 AM
 

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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Posted by ml110

oh man!! well.. DHs family is all from way out in western PA- not quite west virginia, but very close! LOL so i know that kind of area and people pretty well...
everything is sooo much more casual in places like that that i think you would definitely intimidate them TOO much if you wore a suit... i would do some nicer business casual just to make yourself slightly more approachable to them. good luck!!



I agree

Posted 1/16/08 7:50 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Posted by Gertyrae

Posted by ml110

oh man!! well.. DHs family is all from way out in western PA- not quite west virginia, but very close! LOL so i know that kind of area and people pretty well...
everything is sooo much more casual in places like that that i think you would definitely intimidate them TOO much if you wore a suit... i would do some nicer business casual just to make yourself slightly more approachable to them. good luck!!



I agree



Yeah, that's what I"m thinking. Ok, thanks!

Posted 1/16/08 7:56 AM
 

Lisa
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I went to WV for a weekend...once! I felt like I was in another country!!

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Posted 1/16/08 8:33 AM
 

2girlsforme
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I would go as casual as possible, maybe even jeans. I think the goal has to be fitting in and blending. Good luck and enjoy your free nights. Heck a hotel is a hotel, even in the boonies. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 8:40 AM
 

Kissy331
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Definately business casual & nothing over the top. I think if you even wear kahkis & a nice sweater, you will be good.

Posted 1/16/08 8:44 AM
 

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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Don't underestimate the boondocks. They may live at a slower pace but they are probably more saavy than you think.

Business casual should be fine but conduct yourself as you would any other client.

Posted 1/16/08 9:13 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Posted by 2girlsforme

I would go as casual as possible, maybe even jeans. I think the goal has to be fitting in and blending. Good luck and enjoy your free nights. Heck a hotel is a hotel, even in the boonies. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I don't know about that!! Chat Icon My biggest concern?? I'm a vegetarian. I have this sinking feeling I will be eating pretzels for 4 days straight Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 9:32 AM
 

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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Posted by Bxgell2

Posted by 2girlsforme

I would go as casual as possible, maybe even jeans. I think the goal has to be fitting in and blending. Good luck and enjoy your free nights. Heck a hotel is a hotel, even in the boonies. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I don't know about that!! Chat Icon My biggest concern?? I'm a vegetarian. I have this sinking feeling I will be eating pretzels for 4 days straight Chat Icon



bring a cooler with some stuff..are you driving out there?

Posted 1/16/08 9:37 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Posted by Blu-ize

Posted by Bxgell2

Posted by 2girlsforme

I would go as casual as possible, maybe even jeans. I think the goal has to be fitting in and blending. Good luck and enjoy your free nights. Heck a hotel is a hotel, even in the boonies. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I don't know about that!! Chat Icon My biggest concern?? I'm a vegetarian. I have this sinking feeling I will be eating pretzels for 4 days straight Chat Icon



bring a cooler with some stuff..are you driving out there?



No, flying to Charleston, WV and then picking up a rental car. I think I'll just pick up lots of snacks at Charleston and bring it with me.

Posted 1/16/08 9:45 AM
 

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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I definitely think you are right. Sounds like mooo country out there!Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 9:48 AM
 

Emily
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I am sure one of the several towns between the hotel and the job site will have a local produce farm. You can either ask someone at the hotel or try google. You will not be stuck eating pretzels for a week.

ets: I agree with a previous poster, treat this job like any other job. People may live in smaller homes and have outhouses but they will be very savvy.

Message edited 1/16/2008 10:31:16 AM.

Posted 1/16/08 10:27 AM
 

nov04libride
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Definitely business casual! Maybe black pants and dress shirts?

My dad applied for a job in WV and most of the houses did not have indoor plumbing. Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 10:29 AM
 

jax1023
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I live 45 minutes from WV right now. When you are expected to be dressed nice, things here are WAY more formal.

For example, I would wear dress pants a tee shirt (like a j crew tee) to work on LI. Here I have to wear at least a button down.

I would say to wear a suit, or at least a blazer.

Posted 1/16/08 5:45 PM
 

Preguntas
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I think if you have all your teeth you will intimidate them.

Posted 1/16/08 5:48 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

Posted by Preguntas

I think if you have all your teeth you will intimidate them.

that's really nice of you to say...

Posted 1/16/08 6:49 PM
 

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Re: I'm going to the boondocks

I say dress business casual- sweater anda nice pair of pants.

To eat, bring some microwaveable stuff and stuff to make sandwhiches. I'm sure somewhere there will be a farmer's market where you can get some produce.

Posted 1/16/08 6:54 PM
 
 
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