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Pooka
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Feeling jealous

I know it's silly, but I spoke with my MIL today about some Christmas gift for SIL and she says to me "Oh by the way. Did you hear that Nicole is pregnant?" I'm so happy for NIcole (DH's cousin) but at the same time I am jealous and frustrated. This is our 5th month trying and still nothing. I was hoping to get a BFP before Christmas but it doesn't look like that will happen. Just wanted to share. Chat Icon

Posted 12/8/07 5:29 PM
 
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runlikethewind
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Re: Feeling jealous

I understand how you feel, trust me. I am going to be 36 and have been trying for a year. I did get pregnant after 5-6 months of trying, but had a m/c. Here I am 6 months after my m/c and nothing! I have to face the holidays looking at DH's nephew, who just got married this year and had a baby "by accident".Then his brother, who got his wife pg right after me and also m/c after me is I'm sure pg again but not saying anything - I just have this feeling since they got lucky first shot.

Anyway, my point is that you are not alone and what you are feeling is normal. I bet you will get pg in the next few cycles if not this one!!!

Posted 12/8/07 5:34 PM
 

LuckySV
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Re: Feeling jealous

I know how you feel. Chat Icon This is month 6 or 7 for us and I just don't think this is our month. Hang in there. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/8/07 5:50 PM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
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Re: Feeling jealous

I know what you mean. We had a m/c in October and we can finally TTC again. I just hate having to start all over and I dont think this is going to be our month Chat Icon

Posted 12/8/07 7:41 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: Feeling jealous

I know how you feel , this is our third month trying Chat Icon and I feel jealous too every time I see a pregnant woman or a with a newborn Chat Icon It's human nature

Posted 12/8/07 10:09 PM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: Feeling jealous

I completely understand how you feel. We've been trying for a year now and it feels like there are so many pregnant ladies around me.

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Posted 12/8/07 10:45 PM
 

BRod-Cheng
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Posted 12/8/07 10:56 PM
 

BunnyBaby
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Re: Feeling jealous

Keep believing sweetie. I can imagine how frustrating it is. What you are feeling is completely normal. Here is some

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Posted 12/8/07 11:51 PM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: Feeling jealous

Hang in there

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Posted 12/8/07 11:53 PM
 

sfp0701
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Tricia

Re: Feeling jealous

I know how you feel. It stinks. It took us 5 months to get pg and we promptly miscarried. Now this is our third try since then.... le sigh... It will happen it will happen.. repeat it again and again...

Posted 12/9/07 8:32 AM
 

hopin4baby
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Member since 4/07

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Allison

Re: Feeling jealous

Its ok to feel that way. I know exactly how you feel. We have been trying for a little over a year and for a lot of that year, I wasn't even ovulating, so couldn't have a 2ww, it was very upsetting.
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Posted 12/9/07 9:52 AM
 

JenandMikey
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Posted 12/9/07 10:22 AM
 

maybeamommy
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Posted 12/9/07 11:02 AM
 
 

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