Angy- hell yes.....but sometimes they're not our DH but our sh(stupid husband) I'm sorry he was a jerk and I wish I could tell you to put your foot down and be p*ssed, but here's the truth.....you husband and his BROTHER were acting like kids because...well they were acting like kids. I would maybe say something this weekend about how you were looking forward to dinner and Grey's and then leave it at that. If he does it again then pull out the fuming, angry, silent treatment guns. I guess sometimes you just gotta be angry and keep silent so that when you REALLY need to be p*ssed they get the point. for the stress and for our SH's