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aliciahelene
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Alicia
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Are there any normal men out there???
My gosh..in the past month and a half I have been asked out by three men..all of which are MARRIED!!!! UGH!! Im just disgusted!
I knew when I chose to leave my husband and go through with this adoption alone that it would be difficult finding men who would want to date me, but I had no idea that married men would be asking me out! Im insulted that these men think I would even consider going out with them since they are married..whats wrong with them?? YUCK
I just needed to vent..Im becoming a bitter woman towards men...I know there must be some nice ones left..ones that arent married!!
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lvdolphins
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| Posted 10/23/05 8:46 PM |
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HarleyGirlFLA
Come on in
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Mel
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
You are living with 2 wonderful men
Their are nice guys out there. when you least expect it he'll be waiting for you 
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| Posted 10/23/05 8:49 PM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Sorry you are dealing with such pigs! I hope you get to meet a wonderful man very soon!
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| Posted 10/24/05 7:59 AM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Genna
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bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??
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Gail
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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
There are great guys out there that aren't married. I'm sorry you are having this expereience. Lots of men suk, but there are still lots of great ones. Don't lose hope.
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| Posted 10/24/05 9:42 AM |
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momAGAIN
so outrageous
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TJ
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
I just had to tell you that after my divorce I had the same problems!!! I had pretty much put into my head (as well as my ex planting in my head ) that no man would want to be with me because i had 4 kids. Then when i least expected it I met my Fiance !!!! I also thought there were no good ones left........keep your head up there are some out there!!!!!!
Message edited 10/24/2005 11:34:09 AM.
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| Posted 10/24/05 11:33 AM |
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Hang in there- I know it's so hard. I was "out there" for quite a while before meeting DH, and I pulled out all the stops. Speed dating, the net, etc.
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| Posted 10/25/05 9:45 AM |
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ChristineR
New Year, New Beginnings!
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
 Omg that's awful!! Pigs that they are!  Their poor wives!!
Your man is out there somewhere!!
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| Posted 10/25/05 4:57 PM |
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aliciahelene
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Alicia
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Whats so amazing is that Im not honestly LOOKING..i want to focus on getting my family adjusted...I admit, I am somewhat lonely..but Im in no rush to meet Mr. Right..but geez...its depressing enough that Im not exactly prime catch..Im going through a divorce with two adopted boys...I doubt any man will jump at a chance to date me...and I understand that..I just didnt think I would attract so mnay MARRIED men..I just dont understand..why would they think its ok!!??? It grosses me out..there are so many guys out there..I dont need someone elses man..why would they even THINK I would waste my time!??? I could see if it were just one married man..I would call it a fluke thing..but THREE of them..it makes me wonder if I am doing something wrong...honestly..I am upset about this..all I do is work and take care of my boys..Im not out partying, although I wouldnt mind for one night!..I dress very casually at work and when around the boys..I just dont understand why married men think I would go for them. Yuck..I should tell their wives..or show them their awful emails!
Maybe its my age, Im 34 and most men around my area are married..so maybe they just assume its ok. yuck, yuck, yuck!
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| Posted 10/25/05 9:28 PM |
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Susan
Loving Mommyhood!
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Eew, that is gross. Where are these guys finding you if you don't mind me asking? I ask bc certain sites attract that mentality, like myspace.com.
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| Posted 10/25/05 9:46 PM |
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AliciaHelen...not to hijack your thread but I was curious....................has your Ex ever met your sons and has he moved on with his life????
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juju
Welcome to the World!
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Yup, Men can be scum! But, I know there are nice guys out there. If you are meeting people on the internet, it's a great place but you have to weed out all the bad apples!
Just as God brought you together with your boys, he will bring you Mr. Right when you least expect it! Sorry for getting all religious on you but that is how I truly feel. Too Bad, I do not have any single guy friends or that DH has any decent single friends. LOL But, you are a great Catch! Any guy would be crazy not to date you! YOu have a heart of Gold!
How do you find out they are married? Hopefully, very early on. The nerve!
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iffer042373
5 weeks till I'm a big sister
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Yep men can be jerks but there are some nice ones are out there
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| Posted 10/26/05 1:50 PM |
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mommy2Alex
3 babies for me :)
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nov04libride
big brother <3
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
My best friend is 27 and single and called to tell me she met a guy at a bar...He was kissing her and said, "You are so much better at kissing than my wife..." WT F!?  So it's not just you!
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| Posted 10/26/05 8:35 PM |
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ggt08
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
alicia- i hear what you are saying... in the same boat...
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| Posted 10/26/05 9:21 PM |
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aliciahelene
LIF Infant
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Alicia
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Im not meeting ANYONE on the internet! Nor am I trying! These men are dads to some of their "Friends"!!! They are people I see all the time..its just GROSS!!!!
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| Posted 10/26/05 11:52 PM |
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juju
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Re: Are there any normal men out there???
Oh my! That's Worse.
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| Posted 10/27/05 5:06 PM |
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Shanti
True love
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| Posted 10/29/05 3:49 PM |
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nancy6485
So in love
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