i need to vent

and I know everyone can relate. I am in my tww fourth month ttc - all weekend we were around children- which I love but I get so sad I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooo frustrated why cant we including me get pg already I know we will all be awesome moms I just am really trying to deal- I want children so badly and it is so hard bc to a certain extent we have no control over it. sorry vent over

Re: i need to vent

I know the feeling, I went to my best friends daughters b day party today and someone asked me which was my daughter.... my 2 SIL's are pregnant- it can be such a downer to be around some of these people. Feel free to FM mail me if you need to talk.

Re: i need to vent

Vent away! I am also going into my 4th month trying and I know how hard it gets as the months tick by. In most cases in life the harder your work at something the more likely you are to succeed. When it comes to getting pg however, all the trying in the world doesn't mean it's going to happen more quickly. Hang in there and when you can't hang anymore remember that there are RE's out there.

Re: i need to vent

I think venting can be very therapeutic so vent away. We need to air out our feelings and frustrations from time to time-that way we can move on. One thing I have come to realize about ttc is that it cannot be micromanaged or controlled. We can do our best to time things just right under "optimal" conditions, but in the end we really are powerless. However, I do firmly believe that when the time is right it will happen...for all of us.

On a personal note, I have started researching RE's and plan to see one in September if not pregnant by then. So in a way, that gives me some extra peace of mind knowing that no matter what, I'll be moving in the right direction...

Message edited 7/29/2007 9:31:27 PM.

Re: i need to vent

I feel the same way sometimes, but I keep telling myself my time will come!!
XOXOXO
Kitty