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Dh might not be able to come to my FET

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angel7
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Dh might not be able to come to my FET

I can't believe DH told me today that if the transfer is the week of the 18th, he can't come!!! His co-worker is going to be away and he won't be able to take off. I am so upset by this. I hate to be mad at him but I am!!!!
I just don't know if I can go alone? I really have no one else around who knows my IF struggles. But I feel like he should be the one there with me.
UGH-thanks for letting me vent!

Message edited 6/6/2007 2:05:16 PM.

Posted 6/6/07 2:04 PM
 
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LaurenExp
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

I'm so sorry Chat Icon

It sucks when someone can't be there. Believe me, I know the feeling. Both times I went to the doctor for my miscarriage I was alone and a mess. I know how you feel. Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 2:38 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

Im sorry, DH didnt come to my first trasnfer, but was there for my FET transfer and thought the whole process was amazing.
Thant stinksChat Icon Chat Icon
Do they give you a pic of the embies??

Posted 6/6/07 3:34 PM
 

angel7
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

Diane, did they let you go alone or did you have someone with you?

Last time they gave me a picture. Guess I can show that to DH.

Posted 6/6/07 5:16 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

I went alone for my fresh cycle, yes they will for the transfer because you are NOT being knocked out like the retrievel

Posted 6/6/07 5:44 PM
 

angel7
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

Thanks!!

Posted 6/6/07 6:51 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

My DH hasn't been there for anythingChat Icon
My mom came for the retrieval and my first two transfers. The last transfer I went alone.
DH just started as a Court Officer and didn't want to take days.

Posted 6/7/07 7:28 AM
 

CAT215
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Cathie

Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

I'm sorry Chat Icon

Do you have a family member or friend you can confide in? Or it it just your DH that knows? Is there anyway he could just take off a few hours and go in after?


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Posted 6/7/07 9:54 AM
 

calendargrl
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jan

Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

I'm sorry, as the previous poster said if you feel comfortable with a close family member or friend maybe you can have them come with you. I wish you lots of luck.Chat Icon

Posted 6/7/07 10:21 AM
 

juju
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Re: Dh might not be able to come to my FET

Im sorry. Chat Icon Best of Luck!

I am not at that point yet, but I worry with DH's new schedule that I may have to go alone on certain appts.

Posted 6/7/07 2:11 PM
 
 

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