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Trying
LIF Infant
Member since 11/06 137 total posts
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K
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DH is making me so frustrated.....
...we have been trying for 6 months now and I have to go on clomid on my next cycle.
I am doing so much to try to get this right between testing and temping and going to the doctor.
I got a positive OPK 2 days ago, so we BD'd the first day...took last night off because I came down with a really bad cold. Now we should BD again tonight and he doesn't want to.
Lately since we have been TTC he's being difficult. I know he wants a baby because he's always talking about what we will buy the baby and names and stuff like that.
I have to beg him to have sex and it's so degrating. I don't know what is up with him. 
Why am I going to go on fertility drugs if I can't even get him to have sex with me??
Meanwhile, he has no problem any other time of the month.
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Posted 2/28/07 8:07 PM  |
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kitkat32
LIF Adolescent
Member since 1/07 710 total posts
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kate
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
 I'm so sorry. Have you talked to him about it?
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| Posted 2/28/07 8:09 PM |
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nicrae
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
maybe it is the pressure.....some guys freak out when they have to "perform" on command.
Message edited 2/28/2007 8:16:53 PM.
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| Posted 2/28/07 8:16 PM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
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Melissa
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
I would not even talk to him about it. Start to keep your cycle to yourself. If he asks, tell but not until then. GL
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| Posted 3/1/07 9:35 AM |
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LovingLife
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
Posted by melijane
I would not even talk to him about it. Start to keep your cycle to yourself. If he asks, tell but not until then. GL
I agree....my DH was doing the same thing...so I kept all of the info to myself and initiated sex in a fun and playful way......and every single time we finish he says to me "we're making babies!!!!"
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| Posted 3/1/07 9:40 AM |
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Lauren
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
I agree. I would keep all the charting and cycle info to yourself and just go with it.
Good luck!
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| Posted 3/1/07 11:13 AM |
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nov06
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
I agree...don't say anything to him. I think they feel it takes the fun out of it when we "I'm ovulating".
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| Posted 3/1/07 12:59 PM |
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DancinBarefoot
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
I'm sorry you're getting this reaction from your DH. I would try something different. Make dinner, get a bottle of wine (or sparkling non-alcoholic whatever), light some candles, put on your wedding song, and tell him you want to dance.
Try to make sex about "making love" not "making babies" and I'm sure his interest will be aroused.
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| Posted 3/1/07 1:48 PM |
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jennifaaaa
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Jenn
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
I totally agree with this.... my DH tends to do the same thing when he feel pressure... which i rearly do to him... but i i now how you feel....
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| Posted 3/1/07 4:55 PM |
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lmnscc
LIF Adolescent
Member since 1/07 598 total posts
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Re: DH is making me so frustrated.....
My DH used to be like that. Although, we've been TTC for over 2 years now but at one point he was like your DH. I was taking fertility drugs, charting, using OPK, etc. I felt all he had to do was have sex. And like your DH, the rest of the month he was all over me. It was bizzare.
It all came down to being forced to do something, regardless if you enjoy the heck out of it normally. And as the months go on, it gets worse.
What I wish I did was what the other girls are saying - keep all the fertility info. to yourself and just initiate sex as much as you can. GL
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| Posted 3/2/07 9:14 AM |
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