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franklee
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Lisa
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Definitely TMI but here goes....
After BDing does anyone "leak" what I think is dh juice?? And if it is leaving....what do I do to make it stay inside and do it's job??!!
Sorry but I'm sooo 
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Posted 1/10/07 8:53 PM  |
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jellybean78
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
Yes I think that's normal. I heard laying down for 30 minutes with your legs up after BD'ing helps. I also heard that O'ing (the other type) after DH does is good because the contractions help more spermies get up there. Good Luck! :babydust
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| Posted 1/10/07 9:20 PM |
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sometimesmommy
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
lol no question is taboo. I thought the same thing too.
This month I laid in bed after BD, a few times I elevated my legs and once I looke dlike i was doing a hand stand 
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| Posted 1/10/07 9:21 PM |
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franklee
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Lisa
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
I did that move for a few minutes too!! I just can't show dh cuz he gets all nervous...we are ttc but he doesn't want to think about it...he just wants it to happen when it happens....I'm the one obsessing!! 
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| Posted 1/10/07 9:26 PM |
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Mrs
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
I asked the same question on here a month ago I noticed the same thing with us.
Someone told me that it may help if you BD w/ your hips on a pilow - or elevated. Though.. if your dh doesn't want to know about any of this it may be hard!.. maybe you can hide rthe pillow under the blanket?
Message edited 1/10/2007 9:54:44 PM.
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| Posted 1/10/07 9:36 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
no worries, the sperm will travel up no matter how much leaks out. Some people elevate their legs but it is definitely not necessary 
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| Posted 1/11/07 9:51 AM |
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franklee
LIF Adolescent
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Lisa
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
Good to know!! Thanks!!
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| Posted 1/11/07 10:15 AM |
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Bklyngrl
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
if i started doing the handstand in bed - DH would think i've completely lost my marbles. He is still living in the lala land of "when it happens, it happens" 
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| Posted 1/11/07 10:24 AM |
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franklee
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Lisa
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
At least I'm not the only one with a dh like that!!
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| Posted 1/11/07 5:32 PM |
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Rycois
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
I find putting the pillow there to start with is good - a) it's already there so you're propped and b) for me, it's just a good position
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| Posted 1/11/07 6:09 PM |
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runlikethewind
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
the same thing happens to me EVERY time! So glad you asked. I think someone else posted this & it received the same answer - it does not matter, sperm will go up there!! So we're good 
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| Posted 1/11/07 6:34 PM |
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Sneezy
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
Here is a TMI question if I have ever seen one... How soon does DH "exit" after he makes his contribution? Does lingering make more come out? Does it matter? I have always wondered...
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| Posted 1/11/07 7:07 PM |
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CaseyGirl
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
Posted by Sneezy
Here is a TMI question if I have ever seen one... How soon does DH "exit" after he makes his contribution? Does lingering make more come out? Does it matter? I have always wondered...
LOL we always wait about 15 seconds...I am always like WAIT WAIT and we start laughing 
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| Posted 1/11/07 7:31 PM |
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
Posted by Sneezy
Here is a TMI question if I have ever seen one... How soon does DH "exit" after he makes his contribution? Does lingering make more come out? Does it matter? I have always wondered...
I have to admit I do not know the medical term for the pre-you know what that comes out before ejaculation, but that is just as potent as ejaculate - that is why we were taught in health class never to put it in briefly without a condom because you can still get pregnant....
So, the amount of time it stays in after doesn't matter...
I also want to share, as I do in posts like these, that because I get urinary tract infections all the time, I am hardly the romantic after sex - I get up immediately, pee, and wash the area thoroughly - I had too many kidney infections to do otherwise - and I still got preggers doing all that....
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| Posted 1/11/07 8:31 PM |
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sometimesmommy
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
I agree about the pre-ejuculation fluids. There are many pregnant women who just stuck it in for one minute and had a lifetime responsibility after 
Message edited 1/11/2007 8:38:33 PM.
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| Posted 1/11/07 8:38 PM |
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Bklyngrl
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
i think the quick "exit" is what ruined it for us recently. i just knew it wasn't going to happen.
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| Posted 1/11/07 9:57 PM |
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franklee
LIF Adolescent
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Lisa
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
We usually keep it in there for a bit afterwards....
I am not the cuddlebug after either...first I run to the bathroom then I'll come back to cuddle!!
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| Posted 1/12/07 6:58 PM |
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Samnjenna
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Re: Definitely TMI but here goes....
if i started doing the handstand in bed - DH would think i've completely lost my marbles. He is still living in the lala land of "when it happens, it happens"
I'm totally with you -- DH keeps telling me that millions of people are on this planet without their mothers doing headstands. But I just figure any little bit helps. Plus its yoga!
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