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Leb
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Is this weird?

I don't take the lirr much any more so maybe I am missing something. I get on an express train and the car is like 1/3 full. I grab the window seat of a 2 seater. Some big guy gets on and sits next to me. Meanwhile there are completely empty 2 seaters and the 3 seaters w someone by the window.

I know the train isn't going to fill up so the next stop before its express I get up and move. Now the train is going express with no stops to Penn and the train is like barely 50% full. Plenty of seats for everyone w out us being on top of each other.

Posted 5/25/16 7:55 AM
 
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luvbuffet
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Re: Is this weird?

weird!

Posted 5/25/16 7:56 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Re: Is this weird?

Yeah, it's weird and I never understood why people do that.

Posted 5/25/16 7:58 AM
 

Kitten1929
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Is this weird?

Weird and I don't like people in my personal space when they don't need to be.

Posted 5/25/16 8:26 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Is this weird?

Yes I have had it happen to me too and I never understood it

Annoying

Posted 5/25/16 8:29 AM
 

Pumpkin1
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Is this weird?

My husband has always told me that, as a big guy, he always looked to sit next to girls because there was a little more room. However, I doubt he'd do that if the train was 1/2 empty.

Posted 5/25/16 8:44 AM
 

PearlJamChick
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Re: Is this weird?

Yeah, that's weird. I've had that happen on the subway and I also get up and move.

I always want to stand up and in my best Buzz Lightyear voice, bellow "SEATS....EVERYWHERE!"

Posted 5/25/16 8:48 AM
 

TwinDani
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Is this weird?

I ride LIRR everyday and this happens all of the time! For me it is they take the middle seat in a 3 seater when there are open seats everywhere, I never understand it. I see many WEIRD things on a daily basis, I could write a book!

Posted 5/25/16 8:52 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Is this weird?

I ride LIRR every day - I learned my lesson early and never sit in a window seat - EVER. That way I can get up and move whenever I want, for whatever reason

Posted 5/25/16 9:09 AM
 

twizzlers
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by Pumpkin1

My husband has always told me that, as a big guy, he always looked to sit next to girls because there was a little more room. However, I doubt he'd do that if the train was 1/2 empty.



This is so true....guys always sit next to me when there are other seats available. So annoying.

Posted 5/25/16 10:19 AM
 

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Re: Is this weird?

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.

Posted 5/25/16 12:29 PM
 

oldtimerocknroll
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Re: Is this weird?

I think it is odd, but not because he is big. I don't see how that is related; I would find it an unusual action for a small person too!

Posted 5/25/16 12:40 PM
 

LuckyStar
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Is this weird?

Is it weird to ME? Yes, most definitely. But this is the LIRR. It's a hot flucking mess.

I also find it weird that grown men run for their lives as soon as a track is announced to get to the platform, when 99% of the time the train isn't even there yet. Yes, I get they want a seat, but the sprinting is really unnecessary.

Posted 5/25/16 12:50 PM
 

BargainMama
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Re: Is this weird?

Weird, but I think people do it just to get a rise out of others. Like, they wake up, and say "Lets see who I can annoy the sh*t out of on the train today". Chat Icon

Posted 5/25/16 1:06 PM
 

HomeIsWithU
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by PearlJamChick

Yeah, that's weird. I've had that happen on the subway and I also get up and move.

I always want to stand up and in my best Buzz Lightyear voice, bellow "SEATS....EVERYWHERE!"




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Posted 5/25/16 1:20 PM
 

busymomonli
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Is this weird?

I always sit on the end seat now so I can escape if needed.

I once had a guy sit two seats away and start to masturbate in an empty LIRR car. I will never sit by the window again.

Posted 5/25/16 1:31 PM
 

CSK
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



I'd bet this.

Posted 5/25/16 1:33 PM
 

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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



Even still why not pick a different seat where nobody else was sitting?

Very weird.

ETS: I would think he was some kind of perv and just wanted to be touching someone.

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Posted 5/25/16 1:43 PM
 

JDubs
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Re: Is this weird?

Yes, I think its weird and I would have moved.

Posted 5/25/16 2:08 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



Even still why not pick a different seat where nobody else was sitting?

Very weird.




Because then he risks another larger man sitting next to him instead of a smaller woman. As someone who rode the train day in and day out, this is pretty common actually.

Posted 5/25/16 3:01 PM
 

ali120206
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by NYCGirl80

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



Even still why not pick a different seat where nobody else was sitting?

Very weird.




Because then he risks another larger man sitting next to him instead of a smaller woman. As someone who rode the train day in and day out, this is pretty common actually.



This.

It is weird but, it is common.

Posted 5/25/16 3:37 PM
 

Otherme
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by NYCGirl80

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



Even still why not pick a different seat where nobody else was sitting?

Very weird.




Because then he risks another larger man sitting next to him instead of a smaller woman. As someone who rode the train day in and day out, this is pretty common actually.



that's just way too many 'what ifs' to occur.
i'd just chalk it up to he was an idiot Chat Icon

Posted 5/25/16 3:46 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by Otherme

Posted by NYCGirl80

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



Even still why not pick a different seat where nobody else was sitting?

Very weird.




Because then he risks another larger man sitting next to him instead of a smaller woman. As someone who rode the train day in and day out, this is pretty common actually.



that's just way too many 'what ifs' to occur.
i'd just chalk it up to he was an idiot Chat Icon



What if he was a diabetic????????




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Posted 5/25/16 3:49 PM
 

BabyRN
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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by LuckyStar

Is it weird to ME? Yes, most definitely. But this is the LIRR. It's a hot flucking mess.

I also find it weird that grown men run for their lives as soon as a track is announced to get to the platform, when 99% of the time the train isn't even there yet. Yes, I get they want a seat, but the sprinting is really unnecessary.




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Posted 5/25/16 3:52 PM
 

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Re: Is this weird?

Posted by ali120206

Posted by NYCGirl80

Posted by MsSissy

Posted by NYCGirl80

He probably didn't realize the train wouldn't fill up.



Even still why not pick a different seat where nobody else was sitting?

Very weird.




Because then he risks another larger man sitting next to him instead of a smaller woman. As someone who rode the train day in and day out, this is pretty common actually.



This.

It is weird but, it is common.




Yes, also some peopel just don't want to have to get up again.

If I am going to sit on the aisle of a 3 seater, I prefer one with someone already in the window seat. If both seats are empty, either I have to get up for someone to sit in the window , or worse, 2 people who want to sit together will want to get int here & it will be tight and/or loud.

I saw someone today pass up multiple seats even though it meant walking against the flow of traffic to an area that had fewer options.

I think she just didn't want to sit backwards.( I know that bothers some people.) Or she just liked making her own life difficult.

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Posted 5/25/16 4:24 PM
 
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