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S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

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Paramount
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S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

I'm bored at work today.

21 people answered a non disclosed day:
Average was $108.85

22 people answered Friday Night:
Average was $89.90

4 people had Saturday afternoon:
Average of $90.75

33 People answered for Saturday night:
Average of $121.66

24 people answered for Sun night: (I also lumped in the Monday and holiday people on this date as well)
Average is $105.71

This is not including tax and tip for most answers.


Posted 2/24/16 5:02 PM
 
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blessedmama
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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Lol. I forgot to add mine was a Saturday for $75/pp in 1993

Posted 2/24/16 7:12 PM
 

Paramount
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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by blessedmama

Lol. I forgot to add mine was a Saturday for $75/pp in 1993



oh well :)

Posted 2/25/16 5:00 PM
 

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S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

wow. you were really bored.

interesting info.

if i get hitched again, i'm running off to vegas... going through a drive-thru chapel and having In N' Out on our way back home. then a back yard bbq to celebrate.

i did city hall when i was 21 and knocked up.
i did the big fancy wedding when i was 33 and thought i had "made it"

maybe we'll just live in sin for the rest of our lives.

Posted 2/25/16 7:03 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

That is really interesting data. So it seems 200 - 250 would cover plates for two people at most venues.

Posted 2/25/16 8:07 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Saturday nights are 160+ at basic catering halls. I've recieved quotes for up to 1k per person.

Posted 2/25/16 8:26 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by luvbuffet

Saturday nights are 160+ at basic catering halls. I've recieved quotes for up to 1k per person.

I have to ask you, what brands are you wearing, or bringing with you like purse or shoes when you talk pricing with these places because my brother and soon to be sil did not get those kinds of quotes. They got a much lower rate...

Posted 2/25/16 8:47 PM
 

2BadSoSad
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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Where are you looking??? You are getting INSANE quotes.

Posted 2/25/16 8:55 PM
 

Mushesgirl
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interesting data!

Posted 2/25/16 10:03 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

I dont wear my ring and I don't wear logos. Maybe my coat? And I try and park my car away from the entrance,but most of these quotes are from emails.

Posted 2/25/16 10:16 PM
 

blessedmama
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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

What places?

Posted 2/25/16 10:24 PM
 

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Harbor club at prime $225++
Penthouses808 $385
Breakers in west palm 325-$700 ($1000 with service and tax)
Farmers table in boca $250
Carltun $195++
Paper factory hotel $260

And these are all quotes for a wedding in less than 6 months

Message edited 2/25/2016 10:41:35 PM.

Posted 2/25/16 10:40 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by luvbuffet

Harbor club at prime $225++
Penthouses808 $385
Breakers in west palm 325-$700 ($1000 with service and tax)
Farmers table in boca $250
Carltun $195++
Paper factory hotel $260

And these are all quotes for a wedding in less than 6 months



these were for a Saturday night??!!! some of these are crazy Chat Icon Chat Icon

I just answered the other thread I had a Friday night wedding and paid 65++ and only had min of 100 people. I also only booked when I was 6 months away

Posted 2/25/16 11:08 PM
 

LSP2005
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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

I looked at the Carlton in 2004 and it was 175 then. You are looking at great, but expensive places. There are other places for less.

Posted 2/25/16 11:15 PM
 

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S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

What about Jedediah Hawkins?

Everything in life is negotiable.

I personally don't think wedding costs are worth it. I just don't. I think it's a complete waste. Thousands and and thousands of dollars for 5-6 hours .. Insane. I rather go on an amazing, super fun trip and just do dinner with close family and friends when you return. Is that an option?

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Posted 2/25/16 11:25 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

I don't think they are worth it either.lol! Can I afford it? Yea.. But am I foolish? Nope.

Posted 2/26/16 12:41 AM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by luvbuffet

Harbor club at prime $225++
Penthouses808 $385
Breakers in west palm 325-$700 ($1000 with service and tax)
Farmers table in boca $250
Carltun $195++
Paper factory hotel $260

And these are all quotes for a wedding in less than 6 months



yeah these are fancy places, you know I am looking w my SIL and these are the sort of quotes she has gotten for a Sat night as well.

Posted 2/26/16 9:27 AM
 

Paramount
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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by luvbuffet

Saturday nights are 160+ at basic catering halls. I've recieved quotes for up to 1k per person.



Not according to the data.

I had 6 people that were in the $175+ category. I had 3 in the $160.

Everyone else was about $75 to $130.

YOU might be looking at places like that. but that's not what the ladies on here experienced.

Interesting.

ETA. I just saw your post about WHERE you are looking. Those are uber high end wedding venues.

Message edited 2/26/2016 10:11:55 AM.

Posted 2/26/16 10:09 AM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by luvbuffet

Saturday nights are 160+ at basic catering halls. I've recieved quotes for up to 1k per person.



this is 100% accurate! i got married on a friday night in June 2014 and I paid more then that. I actually think a quote for $160 for a Saturday night is good. I checked out 13 halls before we booked and every quote for a saturday night was close to or over $200

Posted 2/26/16 10:58 AM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

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Posted by luvbuffet

Saturday nights are 160+ at basic catering halls. I've recieved quotes for up to 1k per person.



Not according to the data.

I had 6 people that were in the $175+ category. I had 3 in the $160.

Everyone else was about $75 to $130.

YOU might be looking at places like that. but that's not what the ladies on here experienced.

Interesting.

ETA. I just saw your post about WHERE you are looking. Those are uber high end wedding venues.



even catering halls on LI not on this list are 160. Its not impossible to find a place for a lot less but MOST places average around that price.

Posted 2/26/16 11:02 AM
 

MrsB12614
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S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

I also got married in 2014 but booked a high end hall (flower field) for a Saturday night and paid 110pp. Like someone else said everything is negotiable we started out at $155pp. There wasn't a thing we didn't get besides their large seafood bar.

Message edited 2/26/2016 11:06:47 AM.

Posted 2/26/16 11:04 AM
 

luvbuffet
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Posted by MrsB12614

I also got married in 2014 but booked a high end hall (flower field) for a Saturday night and paid 110pp. Like someone else said everything is negotiable we started out at $155pp. There wasn't a thing we didn't get besides their large seafood bar.



what month?

Posted 2/26/16 11:18 AM
 

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S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

My friends daughter got married last year at the New Hyde Park Inn and added a viennese hour and paid 160pp on a Sat night in June.

Posted 2/26/16 1:52 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by Paramount

Posted by luvbuffet

Saturday nights are 160+ at basic catering halls. I've recieved quotes for up to 1k per person.



Not according to the data.

I had 6 people that were in the $175+ category. I had 3 in the $160.

Everyone else was about $75 to $130.

YOU might be looking at places like that. but that's not what the ladies on here experienced.

Interesting.

ETA. I just saw your post about WHERE you are looking. Those are uber high end wedding venues.



I think the data is a little outdated. There are people who responded who have been married for 10+ years. Even prices from 5 years ago are probably not accurate for today. I have heard that where I had my wedding is now upwards of $200/head but when I booked it was a relatively new catering hall so the prices were much more reasonable.

Posted 2/26/16 1:58 PM
 

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Re: S/O of wedding cost thread - Here are the numbers

Posted by Milerose

My friends daughter got married last year at the New Hyde Park Inn and added a viennese hour and paid 160pp on a Sat night in June.



That's great. I was married there in 2010, right after their renovations, a Friday night in June and paid c. $185 pp (including tax and grat). No Viennese hour (though we didn't want one). We were really happy with everything though, the food was great, the ballroom itself was beautiful, etc etc.

Posted 2/26/16 2:42 PM
 
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