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Spring Baby06
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After we BD, most times DH's "stuff" leaks out of me. I am so sorry this question is kind of gross, but I need to ask someone. Does this have to do with my CM? I've tried laying there for a while, but it usually doesn't stay. Could you still get preggo when it leaks out? I'm sure some found their way
Message edited 7/12/2005 3:25:23 PM.
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Ambersmom
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Re: Question
I know this is going to sound mad gross but someone suggested that I use a tampon to try to keep it up there (like a cork ). Guess it worked!
Good luck!
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:29 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Question
We have the same issue. According to my research, more than enough gets to the right places, but there's always some "left over" in the area.
I find that certain positions lend themselves to less leakage.
Doggie style seems to be the best for us.
Man, would DH kill me if he read this post!!
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:30 PM |
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MrsJ
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Kathy
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I just try to lay there for a long time and then when I get up nothign comes out. Dont know where it goes! Most of the time we BD right before we go to sleep so I just stay laying in bed.
I wouldnt use a tampon...you arent supposed to use one if you dont have AF because you can get an infection and tear yourself, inside.
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:32 PM |
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Spring Baby06
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Jillian
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Re: Question
Posted by kelleherkm
I when I get up nothign comes out. Dont know where it goes! .
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:35 PM |
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Laura1976
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there was a post on this a while back, someone asked their doctor and they said it was fine. Try laying with your legs raised for 15-20 minutes just to help the sperm swim to where they have to and even if some comes out when you get up it doesn't matter.
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:37 PM |
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Bxgell2
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Beth
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It's gross, I know, but I used to have the same problem (well, still do... ha ha ha). Within a minute, with DH, and only DH (bizarre, huh?), it would feel like everything would just leak out... but, I got pregnant (twice) so I don't think it poses a problem at all... and, like someone said, there are positions that lend themselves to less "leakage" (i.e. doggy style)
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:39 PM |
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Diane
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we also have the same problem. DH will roll me over with my feet over my head so it doesnt leak out
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:41 PM |
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rose825
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same problem here, but I dont think I can get my feet over my head.
I have heard from other people ( who asked their MD) and it was normal and shouldnt be a problem.
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:43 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Posted by Diane
we also have the same problem. DH will roll me over with my feet over my head so it doesnt leak out
Oh my, the things we talk about!!
But yes, I agree with everything said about .. we have a 'leakage' problem too BUT I have read many things on the topic and I can say that from whatever I've read, there is definitely enough sperm that will find its way up there when it wants to 
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| Posted 7/12/05 3:44 PM |
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MrsJ
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Posted by Diane
we also have the same problem. DH will roll me over with my feet over my head so it doesnt leak out
OMG!! Can you just imagine if any of our DHs saw this board?!?!
DH get sme about 5 pillows to prop my legs up after we BD. Then he complains he cant see the TV with my legs and pillows in the way
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We had the same problem. I would put a pillow under my butt to raise my hips up on an angle so it wouldn't leak too much....don't use a good pillow.
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| Posted 7/12/05 4:40 PM |
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Lichi
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you guys crack me up!
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| Posted 7/12/05 5:19 PM |
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leighla
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Posted by 2003fallwedding
We had the same problem. I would put a pillow under my butt to raise my hips up on an angle so it wouldn't leak too much....don't use a good pillow.
Excellent advice!!
I used my pillow the first time and I had to throw it away. Afterwards I was like "I can never put my face on this again!!"
So I have a PBDP - Post-Baby-Dance-Pillow.
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| Posted 7/12/05 5:21 PM |
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DebG
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My dr once said, "Don't worry about the boys who leak out, the obviously did not come out of the starting gate with a lot of gusto so they wouldn't have been able to make the journey anyway"
That thought always makes me feel a bit better.
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| Posted 7/12/05 5:22 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Posted by leighla
So I have a PBDP - Post-Baby-Dance-Pillow.
Oh no ... another new abbreviation to get used to on this board!! "PBDP" that is great!
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| Posted 7/12/05 5:34 PM |
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rose825
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Gosh where else could we talk so freely about leakage. When I was TTC with my first child, one time (I dont think it was the month I got PG). I actually hung myself over the side of the bed, "standing" on my head for about 10 minutes. I haven't tried it this time, but now that you reminded me....
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| Posted 7/12/05 9:37 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Posted by DebG
My dr once said, "Don't worry about the boys who leak out, the obviously did not come out of the starting gate with a lot of gusto so they wouldn't have been able to make the journey anyway"
That thought always makes me feel a bit better.
and PBDP!!!!!
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| Posted 7/12/05 9:41 PM |
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rose825
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BUMP for calendargrl.
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| Posted 3/16/06 10:56 PM |
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karacg
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I know some people will not like the idea, but the month I DID get pg I put in a tampon after BDing to keep everything in place. Now I have read enough to know it probably didn't make a difference but.....
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| Posted 3/16/06 11:02 PM |
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calendargrl
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BUMP for calendargrl.
LOL..this thread is great!, thanks for the bump 
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