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TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

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Mama mama mama....

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We're having another girl. I've had a bunch of people ask how my DH is "taking it."

1) He's THRILLED to have another girl. DD is totally Daddy's girl; no doubt this one will be, too.

2) Even if he wasn't... it's a little late for a refund, no?

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Posted 7/10/12 12:50 PM
 
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PUMPKIN ALL THE THINGS

Member since 8/11

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Name:
Trissy

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LOL
People are jerks

Posted 7/10/12 12:52 PM
 

Linda1003
love my 2 boys

Member since 8/08

10923 total posts

Name:
Linda

Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

I get the same thing.. I have a DS and we are havin another DS but I get.. DH must be thrilled!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/10/12 12:56 PM
 

BeachGrl
LIF Adult

Member since 10/11

2140 total posts

Name:
Kristy

Let the stupid comments begin!

Omg I almost punched MIL in the face on Saturday. We went to her house to show her the 12 week sono pic, and she looks at me and says "Whoa are you sure there isn't two in there???"

Umm so far I only gained 7 pounds and I'm just about in my 2nd trimester. But apparently this A hole thinks I'm a whale.

So I feel your pain. I wish it was socially acceptable to tell people to shut the f up LOL

Posted 7/10/12 12:56 PM
 

mommyof3girls
LIF Adult

Member since 5/12

2773 total posts

Name:
Sue

Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

OMG totally understand you. This is the reason why I haven't told anyone. We have 3 girls and I know once they find, the stupid commenst are going to start. I'm so not looking forward to this. Wish I could disappear and return with my baby once he/she is born.

Posted 7/10/12 1:01 PM
 

jessw
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/11

512 total posts

Name:
Jess

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I really don't understand why being pregnant gives everyone around us diarrhea of the mouth. SOO ANNOYING

Posted 7/10/12 1:03 PM
 

springsandra
Baby girl has a baby brother!

Member since 11/09

7155 total posts

Name:
Sandra

Let the stupid comments begin!

People said the same stuff to me when we found out we were having a boy! They were like "oh, your husband must be so thrilled or excited" or some variation of that. I was like "umm... I guess?" -- I hadn't even really thought about it and he didn't express any extra excitement over the gender revealed one way or another. I'm still in shock over it and still half wonder if it's really a girl in there.

Posted 7/10/12 1:03 PM
 

cateyemm
Twins!

Member since 7/10

8027 total posts

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Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

i just laugh at people and the misery they feel they must inflict on others.

Posted 7/10/12 1:04 PM
 

Lara&Aidansmommy
For mom i miss u ETC ILOVEU

Member since 3/07

13921 total posts

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ETC I LOVE YOU

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ugh!!! annoying I have a girl and just had a boy EVERYONE was like oh i guess your done you have one of each time to close up shop WHATEVER!! people are jerks LOL

Posted 7/10/12 1:05 PM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10

21015 total posts

Name:
Ang

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I dont understand it either. I got a lot of comments about how now i can be done since i was having twins... i want to ask them now if im allowed to have another since im no longer having twins.

Posted 7/10/12 1:06 PM
 

three4us
LIF Infant

Member since 12/09

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Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

It drives me crazy!! I have two boys and am now having a girl. People always say "aw, you finally got your girl", "there's nothing like a mother/daughter relationship" etc. etc. Chat Icon

Like I'd keep having kids until I got the opposite gender!! I would have been just as happy if I had another boy. (I actually wanted another boy!!Chat Icon ,but am happy to be having a girl)

Posted 7/10/12 1:43 PM
 

moonmist09
Thank you, St. Gerard!

Member since 2/11

5043 total posts

Name:
Antonella

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i think people are ridiculous with their comments!

Posted 7/10/12 1:52 PM
 

Sparrow
LIF Adult

Member since 11/10

6826 total posts

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Sometimes I think people just want to show their interest and wind up saying really dumb cliche things. I just ignore them.

Posted 7/10/12 2:33 PM
 

LiveItUp
Love my babies!

Member since 8/11

4096 total posts

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Let the stupid comments begin!

Some people really do say the stupidest things some times. It makes you wonder if they even think before they speak.

Posted 7/10/12 2:38 PM
 

MeganMylo
LIF Adult

Member since 2/09

1128 total posts

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Let the stupid comments begin!

One of the perks of being team green, no silly comments re: gender! :)'

Posted 7/10/12 2:45 PM
 

babyfever08
Love my babies!

Member since 11/08

3938 total posts

Name:
Antonella

Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

People are so freakin rude. I got pregnant with DS right after my honeymoon and someone actually told me I ruined my life. I can't stand stupid people.

Posted 7/10/12 3:11 PM
 

wishing2012
My heart is full

Member since 3/12

1961 total posts

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Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

people have no filter! i love your 2nd response though :)

Posted 7/10/12 3:20 PM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

14562 total posts

Name:
Marisa

Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

People just speak without thinking -
I have 2 boys .....everyone keeps asking me when I'm going to 'try for my girl' .......I tell them I'm not. Shop's closed. I don't want another PERSON.

Then they continue "oh, but you HAVE to have a girl' ..........Um, no actually, God says I don't have to have a girl ! He gave me 2 boys ....His opinion trumps yours - The End.

Posted 7/10/12 4:03 PM
 

missfabulous
#mommyneedswine

Member since 6/09

10031 total posts

Name:
Colleen

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What a dumb thing to say! People make the worst comments to pregnant women.

Posted 7/10/12 4:26 PM
 

sugar-magnolia
Love my baby girls

Member since 6/07

2281 total posts

Name:
n

Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

Two girls would THRILL me and DH!! It's so nice to have a sister.
I'm afraid we are going to have to sedate my MIL if this baby is a girl. She's already said she would prefer a boy and doesn't really like little girls and our first IS a girl!

Posted 7/10/12 5:36 PM
 

MeganMylo
LIF Adult

Member since 2/09

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Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

Posted by sugar-magnolia
I'm afraid we are going to have to sedate my MIL if this baby is a girl. She's already said she would prefer a boy and doesn't really like little girls and our first IS a girl!



Pretty sure you should go crazy on her and later blame the hormones!

Posted 7/10/12 5:54 PM
 

gottaluvmusik
Just the 4 of us

Member since 12/06

3554 total posts

Name:
Andrea

Let the stupid comments begin!

Oh do I hear this often!! My Dh coaches 3 seasons of sports and is a physical education teacher. Everyone says your poor husband he deserves a boy. You have to try for a 3rd. It drives me insane.

Posted 7/10/12 8:24 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

7878 total posts

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Mama mama mama....

Re: Let the stupid comments begin!

Posted by gottaluvmusik

Oh do I hear this often!! My Dh coaches 3 seasons of sports and is a physical education teacher. Everyone says your poor husband he deserves a boy. You have to try for a 3rd. It drives me insane.



Well that's obnoxious. Because clearly, girls can't play sports Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/12 7:28 AM
 
 

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