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Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

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cloddy
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Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

due to reflux or other illnesses or issues. If so, how and when did you transition to the crib. Did you CIO? For naps and night or one or the other. Looking for some advice. Thanks!


Update: Now on Attempted Nap #3 for today. First nap in crib was approx 40 min of crying and maybe 20 min of sleep. Nap #2 attempt almost one hour of crying and no sleep finally couldn't take it anymore. Trying again another hour later after BFing and changing him and calming him down. He woke my older DS from his nap b/c of all the screaming, It's nearly impossible to listen to but for all the blood curdling screaming there's nothing wrong with him. Everytime I look at him on the monitor or on the sly he's just laying there perfectly still looking up screaming for me! God give me the strength. How could he not be tired by now?

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Posted 1/13/12 9:09 AM
 
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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

I tried it for the same reasons. My ped warned against it. Turns out my swing was NOT suitable for this. I had the FP Little Lamb swing. I was in the same room with DD (even during the day for naps) and I found my DD one time slumped over at the waist. So I never did it again. Just being honest. Not judging. Just wanted to let you know, make sure your swing has a five point harness, mine did not.

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Posted 1/13/12 9:13 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

When DS was really young he napped in the swing most of the time but always slept in his Pack N Play unless he was sick. There really wasn't any medical reason other than him just sleeping really well in there.

Message edited 1/13/2012 9:19:14 AM.

Posted 1/13/12 9:18 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My dd napped everyday in the swing until 9 months old. I never let her sleep in it at night because I was too fearful but she never slept good in her crib because she just loved the swing. It took a while for her to get use to naping in the crib but eventually she got over it. Now she looks for her crib when she is tired.

Posted 1/13/12 9:28 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

I suggest trying the rock n play sleeper for reflux. It's the best thing ever and worked wonders for DS.

Posted 1/13/12 9:38 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

Posted by jamiemarie12

I suggest trying the rock n play sleeper for reflux. It's the best thing ever and worked wonders for DS.



This is what I then used since my swing was not suitable for sleeping.

Posted 1/13/12 9:43 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

Posted by Goobster

I tried it for the same reasons. My ped warned against it. Turns out my swing was NOT suitable for this. I had the FP Little Lamb swing. I was in the same room with DD (even during the day for naps) and I found my DD one time slumped over at the waist. So I never did it again. Just being honest. Not judging. Just wanted to let you know, make sure your swing has a five point harness, mine did not.



It does have a 5 point harness and he's already very used to sleeping overnight in it. But I want to get him back into the crib. He slept in the crib in the beginning. He can go from 7pm to 3 or 4 am in the swing but I'd like to get him to drop this one wake up and I'm hoping getting him back into the crib will do that.

Posted 1/13/12 9:44 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My dd slept in the swing until 1!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

She was addicted to it. We used to do it because of her reflux..But it became a habit and she loved that Lamb swing..haha..We after her 1st bday we had to let her cry it out. I removed the swing from her bedroom and put it away. After 3 nights of her wanting the swing she started to sleep in the crib.
Now if we could only get her to sleep through the night..I would be in heaven!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/13/12 9:52 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My DD napped in the swing for over a year, and starting at around 6 mths, the only way to get her to sleep at night was to start off in the swing, and then transition her to the crib when she was out. Sometimes in the middle of the night when there was nothing I could do to get her to sleep, I would put her in the swing and then watch tv myself, to make it feel more like she was napping, lol.

Breaking the habit was h.a.r.d. It involved a lot of crying, and lots of missed naps. I was only able to do it when I was working from home the 2 weeks before I went into labor with my second daughter. she was 12.5 mths at the time.

Posted 1/13/12 9:54 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My kids both napped in their swing ds just stopped atb13 monthsChat Icon We ave a graco that is very sturdy and has a harness. We also had the fp one but the kids would slump in it so we didn't use it . Both kids had reflux then he swing was a habit for them. No judging here, do whats best for the kids ( how ever they will sleep!)

Posted 1/13/12 9:54 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

For the first 6 months every night and every nap.
No sleeping issues at all now. She sleeps nightly in her crib since we transitioned her. She is 21 months old.

Posted 1/13/12 9:55 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

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Posted by jamiemarie12

I suggest trying the rock n play sleeper for reflux. It's the best thing ever and worked wonders for DS.



This is what I then used since my swing was not suitable for sleeping.



Yes! They didn't have this for ds1, it was heaven for ds2

Posted 1/13/12 9:56 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

DS is 8wks and uses it for naps and from 8p-1a normally. I sleep on the couch RIGHT NEXT TO HIM. It fing sucks, but he sleeps. After his 1am feeding we normally can get him in the bassinet but we spend at least 1/2 an hour or more getting him alseep. It has been better the last 2 nights, but right now I would rather sleep crappy on the couch then not at all. No judging here. You do what you can. I will let you know in a few days how it goes since he rolled over from belly to back last night so IMHO it's time for the crib at bedtime. GOD help us all.

Posted 1/13/12 10:07 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

When we brought DD2 home from the hospital, she slept great in the bassinette. When she was 7 weeks old, she got a cold, ear infection, and a chest infection. The pediatrician recommended her to sleep elevated. But she's a crazy sleeper, moving all over, so the only thing we had that would incline a bit was the swing. She ended up sleeping in it until she was about 4 months old Chat Icon

We did transition to the crib but it wasn't easy. There was a lot of tears, a lot of rocking to sleep, and we did CIO at about 6months.

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ETA: This is the swing we used... I don't think there was any way she could have sat up in that... it was a very low incline

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Posted 1/13/12 10:49 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

If DD liked the swing then I would have gladly let her sleep in it! She loved the bouncer and spent A LOT of time in that thing. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/13/12 10:59 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My DS slept in his little lamb swing until he was 7 months old and yes it was moving the entire night!!! I remember nights where the batteries were dying and DH and I running in there at 3am, I would swing it and he would be changing the batteries - LOL

He is 100% fine, was sitting up on his own at 5 months, crawling at 8 months and walking by a year.

We had to do CIO at 7 months when we moved him to his crib. I took a week off of work and made it my goal to focus on it. I started with naps during the day and at night it was rough, first night he cried/screamed for an 1 1/2 hours and then finally went to sleep, 2nd day was better and by the 3rd day he was sleeping like a dream!!!

You have to hang in there and just know that "it will get better". We did not go in and out of his room all night, we knew it would only make it worse.

We did not care what other people thought or said, we did what worked for all of us and our Ped had no problem with it.

If you need any advice or have questions, please let me know.

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Posted 1/13/12 11:02 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

Posted by Mrs-D-Girl

My DS slept in his little lamb swing until he was 7 months old and yes it was moving the entire night!!! I remember nights where the batteries were dying and DH and I running in there at 3am, I would swing it and he would be changing the batteries - LOL

He is 100% fine, was sitting up on his own at 5 months, crawling at 8 months and walking by a year.

We had to do CIO at 7 months when we moved him to his crib. I took a week off of work and made it my goal to focus on it. I started with naps during the day and at night it was rough, first night he cried/screamed for an 1 1/2 hours and then finally went to sleep, 2nd day was better and by the 3rd day he was sleeping like a dream!!!

You have to hang in there and just know that "it will get better". We did not go in and out of his room all night, we knew it would only make it worse.

We did not care what other people thought or said, we did what worked for all of us and our Ped had no problem with it.

If you need any advice or have questions, please let me know.

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Thank you. It helps knowing what to expect. If I know it's 3 days and then it's over I can stick it out. So far nap #2 in the crib this morning with lots of screaming! But he's been fed so I know it's not hunger.

Posted 1/13/12 11:24 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

DS slept in the swing for a few weeks when he was pretty young. He took naps in it for a long time, but the night time was only a little while b/c MIL told us her chiropractor said it was bad for DS back (I have found no other info to back this up but at the time I freaked a little.)

So, we tried swaddling (we had tried previous and it never worked but b/c we didn't know what else to do and were too afraid to have him in the swing we decided to give it another go.) And the swaddling really worked the second time around. He started sleeping in his bassinet for around 8 hours a night.

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Posted 1/13/12 11:32 AM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

DS had reflux and slept either in his swing or bouncy seat for naps and sometimes all night long... It was the only way he could sleep comfortably. I always slept with him.. For the first 8-10 weeks, he would sleep at night in the newborn napper of his pack and play. It was slightly inclined...

Posted 1/13/12 12:49 PM
 

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Re: Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

Both my sons slept in the swing until they were falling out. ha ha ha.. I had to let them CIO unfortunately. Good Luck!

Posted 1/13/12 12:52 PM
 

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Re: Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My DD naps in her carriage (the bassinet attachment) bc that is the only place I can get her to nap...she either falls asleep bfing or I put her in it and rock her for a few minutes. She naps for 2 hours now since I started doing this! I'm not a fan of CIO and think its better for her to nap than to cry in her crib.

At night getting her to sleep in her crib is sometimes challenging but we still don't CIO...and it's getting better.

Good luck!

Do what feels right to you.

Posted 1/13/12 1:58 PM
 

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Re: Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

I'm curious, why do you want to want to transition him to the crib? Do you feel he is too old?

Posted 1/13/12 2:44 PM
 

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Re: Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

Posted by Mrs-D-Girl

My DS slept in his little lamb swing until he was 7 months old and yes it was moving the entire night!!!:



Did yours have a waistband or a 5 pt harness? My version just had a waistband, no 5 pt harness and I found my DD slumped over at the waist one time. It was scary and awful and I never could trust it for sleeping if I wasnt up and watching as she would slump over. I def felt she wasnt secure in that swing. I am trying to figure out if they changed it as I always felt that was a major flaw of it.

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Posted 1/13/12 3:31 PM
 

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Re: Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

My DS has acid reflux, so we bought him the Rock & Play Sleeper and it really helped a lot, but he still naps in his Snugabunny swing. He hates his crib. Good Luck!!! You're not alone.

Posted 1/13/12 3:36 PM
 

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Re: Updated: non-stop screaming! Please no judging: are there others out there whose child slept in the swing

Posted by dita

I'm curious, why do you want to want to transition him to the crib? Do you feel he is too old?



I want him to learn to put himself to sleep before he gets too old. What I mean is I know that the older he gets the smarter he is, the more he will resist it and it will become a battle. Both of the older two kids learned to put themselves to sleep and return to sleep if they woke and I want # 3 to learn the same because he is still waking once per night at 6 months old and I cannot function anymore with the sleep deprivation so I need him to learn to put himself back to sleep. It's not like when you just have one child at home and you as a parent can nap during the day to catch up on sleep. He is exclusively BF and refuses bottles so I am the only one who can feed him. I haven't slept 8 hours straight for almost a year and I'm at the end of my rope. I can't take it anymore. I feel that he will never do that in the swing b/c he is now dependent on the motion of the swing to sooth him to sleep.

Posted 1/13/12 3:54 PM
 
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