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And the saga continues...

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Bxgell2
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And the saga continues...

I suppose this is what we get for buying a short sale!!

To give a little background about the family that was living in the house - husband and wife and two adult daughters. The couple divorced and husband, who was also a contractor, moved out about a year ago. He stopped helping out with the mortgage, the wife couldn’t afford it, the house went into total disrepair.

Wife let her two adult daughters live there with their drug-dealer boyfriends in the house, with two dogs and god-knows how many cats. The neighbors we’ve met, who are all really nice, tell us that the police were often at that house, numerous arrests, the dogs wandered the neighborhood, etc… mind you, this is a very affluent, well-to-do neighborhood, so this is very atypical for the area.

So when we were negotiating on the house, we rarely interfaced with the husband and wife because our offer was below what they owed on the mortgage, so we were mostly negotiating with the bank to accept an offer below what they owed on the mortgage. The husband and wife did, though, have to sign all the papers.

The husband was a PIECE OF WORK. He went into the house, several times, after the agreement of sale was signed listing all the items that were to be left in the house, like all brand new bosch appliances and washer/dryer, and took THEM ALL. This was another reason why I was LIVID at the listing agent, because she basically told us, tough, he’s going in and taking it. I raised hell, arguing that the agreement of sale is a binding contract, and that if they were going to remove any items, they would have to reimburse us. Needless to say, at closing, the listing agent gave us a check for the value of all the appliances, out of her own pocket, which she was not too thrilled about. Apparently, also, the husband blackmailed the listing agent, and told her he wouldn’t sign the papers unless she paid for his attorney fees. She wanted her commission out of this deal, so she paid him off.

So, long story short – we were working on the house yesterday. I left early to get the girls while DH wrapped things up. He was upstairs when he heard someone just walk right into the house, and start walking around. DH came down and this man was there, demanding to know who DH was. DH looked at him and was like, this is my house, why don’t you tell me who YOU are. Apparently it was the husband. A big, fat, overweight creep who REEKED of alcohol.

This guy starts walking all around the house, scoping it out. DH got the sense that he was trying to see what else he could swipe from the house. Then the guy points to this small TV in the living room, and tells DH that he had installed a camera in the back yard which fed into the TV in the living room, and that, on the weekends he would just sit in the living room and watch as his teenage daughters and their friends played in the pool in their skimpy bikinis.

YUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We told the neighbors to keep an eye out for this guy and if they EVER see his truck at the house to call the police. If he ever dares to show up again, I’m calling 911, and getting a restraining order. It makes me nervous that he felt entitled to just waltz into the house acting as if he still owns it!

Posted 10/12/10 10:12 AM
 
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Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by Bxgell2

I suppose this is what we get for buying a short sale!!

To give a little background about the family that was living in the house - husband and wife and two adult daughters. The couple divorced and husband, who was also a contractor, moved out about a year ago. He stopped helping out with the mortgage, the wife couldn’t afford it, the house went into total disrepair.

Wife let her two adult daughters live there with their drug-dealer boyfriends in the house, with two dogs and god-knows how many cats. The neighbors we’ve met, who are all really nice, tell us that the police were often at that house, numerous arrests, the dogs wandered the neighborhood, etc… mind you, this is a very affluent, well-to-do neighborhood, so this is very atypical for the area.

So when we were negotiating on the house, we rarely interfaced with the husband and wife because our offer was below what they owed on the mortgage, so we were mostly negotiating with the bank to accept an offer below what they owed on the mortgage. The husband and wife did, though, have to sign all the papers.

The husband was a PIECE OF WORK. He went into the house, several times, after the agreement of sale was signed listing all the items that were to be left in the house, like all brand new bosch appliances and washer/dryer, and took THEM ALL. This was another reason why I was LIVID at the listing agent, because she basically told us, tough, he’s going in and taking it. I raised hell, arguing that the agreement of sale is a binding contract, and that if they were going to remove any items, they would have to reimburse us. Needless to say, at closing, the listing agent gave us a check for the value of all the appliances, out of her own pocket, which she was not too thrilled about. Apparently, also, the husband blackmailed the listing agent, and told her he wouldn’t sign the papers unless she paid for his attorney fees. She wanted her commission out of this deal, so she paid him off.

So, long story short – we were working on the house yesterday. I left early to get the girls while DH wrapped things up. He was upstairs when he heard someone just walk right into the house, and start walking around. DH came down and this man was there, demanding to know who DH was. DH looked at him and was like, this is my house, why don’t you tell me who YOU are. Apparently it was the husband. A big, fat, overweight creep who REEKED of alcohol.

This guy starts walking all around the house, scoping it out. DH got the sense that he was trying to see what else he could swipe from the house. Then the guy points to this small TV in the living room, and tells DH that he had installed a camera in the back yard which fed into the TV in the living room, and that, on the weekends he would just sit in the living room and watch as his teenage daughters and their friends played in the pool in their skimpy bikinis.

YUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We told the neighbors to keep an eye out for this guy and if they EVER see his truck at the house to call the police. If he ever dares to show up again, I’m calling 911, and getting a restraining order. It makes me nervous that he felt entitled to just waltz into the house acting as if he still owns it!



AAAACCCCCKKKKKKKKK!

Alarm your house asap. Tell the police what this guy said. Have him arrested.

Holy crap!

Posted 10/12/10 10:21 AM
 

pickles16
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Jen

Re: And the saga continues...

HOLY CRAP!!!! Have you changed the locks yet on all doors.CHANGE THEM ASAP! Alert the cops immediately so they know something is up by you....I swear I would get a burly relative to stand at the door to make sure this guy doesn't come back and scare the crap out of him, but that's just meChat Icon

Posted 10/12/10 10:29 AM
 

Kara
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Re: And the saga continues...

How did he get in? Was the door open?

You did change the locks already, right? I would also get an alarm system ASAP.

That's sooooooo creepy. I hope he doesn't come back. Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/10 10:31 AM
 

Faithx2
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Re: And the saga continues...

Change all locks to big deadbolts, get an alarm system and keep the cops on speed dial!!! What a nutcase!!Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/10 10:35 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Member since 5/05

16438 total posts

Name:
Beth

Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by pickles16

HOLY CRAP!!!! Have you changed the locks yet on all doors.CHANGE THEM ASAP! Alert the cops immediately so they know something is up by you....I swear I would get a burly relative to stand at the door to make sure this guy doesn't come back and scare the crap out of him, but that's just meChat Icon



DH can be rather intimidating - I'm sure if this gets out of hand he'll nip it in the bud, as will I. I think part of the problem is that we used my inheritance from my father to buy the house cash, with no mortgage. This guy knows, and now thinks we have deep pockets, which we don't, that he can take advantage of - we're changing the locks today, and I think I will call the township police and put them on alert. They're familiar enough with the house anyway considering how many trips they made to it in the past few years!!

Yesterday, as we were working in the yard, literally every single neighbor stopped by and said what a releif it was that someone bought the house and plans on cleaning it up!

Posted 10/12/10 10:39 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Beth

Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by Kara

How did he get in? Was the door open?

You did change the locks already, right? I would also get an alarm system ASAP.

That's sooooooo creepy. I hope he doesn't come back. Chat Icon



Yeah, we're trying to air out the house, so the doors and windows were open - it's literally the most foul smell I've ever encountered in my life!

Locks are changing today, and when we start the renovations we plan on putting in an alarm. The good news is there is nothing to steal NOW, as we haven't really even started and won't move for another 4-5 months.

Posted 10/12/10 10:40 AM
 

Otherme
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Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by Bxgell2

Posted by Kara

How did he get in? Was the door open?

You did change the locks already, right? I would also get an alarm system ASAP.

That's sooooooo creepy. I hope he doesn't come back. Chat Icon



Yeah, we're trying to air out the house, so the doors and windows were open - it's literally the most foul smell I've ever encountered in my life!

Locks are changing today, and when we start the renovations we plan on putting in an alarm. The good news is there is nothing to steal NOW, as we haven't really even started and won't move for another 4-5 months.



i would consider putting in the alarm now anyway.. even if there's nothing to steal, what's to stop this nutjob from breaking in and defacing the property anyway, just to cause you problems?
ugh, what a horrible thing to have to deal with

Posted 10/12/10 12:45 PM
 

Beth
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Member since 2/06

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Beth

Re: And the saga continues...

this is why I was told never to take a listing for a short sale unless all the owners are on board

this agent needs to take a class....or lose her lic ASAP

Posted 10/12/10 1:05 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Member since 12/05

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Name:
Kelly

Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by Beth
this agent needs to take a class....or lose her lic ASAP



I am sure people get in over their head sometimes...no? It was refreshing to see that she did the right thing by Bxgell when she realized what, in the end, was the right thing to do. This doesn't always happen, and I think you know that.

As to the OP....Oh lord....I hope you change those locks and that this vile beast of a man never comes back to bother you again Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/10 2:17 PM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

Member since 2/06

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Name:
Beth

Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by mommy2bella

Posted by Beth
this agent needs to take a class....or lose her lic ASAP



I am sure people get in over their head sometimes...no? It was refreshing to see that she did the right thing by Bxgell when she realized what, in the end, was the right thing to do. This doesn't always happen, and I think you know that.

As to the OP....Oh lord....I hope you change those locks and that this vile beast of a man never comes back to bother you again Chat Icon



there is more to the story then just this post...way more

Message edited 10/12/2010 2:39:25 PM.

Posted 10/12/10 2:36 PM
 

Karen
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Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by Otherme

Posted by Bxgell2

Posted by Kara

How did he get in? Was the door open?

You did change the locks already, right? I would also get an alarm system ASAP.

That's sooooooo creepy. I hope he doesn't come back. Chat Icon



Yeah, we're trying to air out the house, so the doors and windows were open - it's literally the most foul smell I've ever encountered in my life!

Locks are changing today, and when we start the renovations we plan on putting in an alarm. The good news is there is nothing to steal NOW, as we haven't really even started and won't move for another 4-5 months.



i would consider putting in the alarm now anyway.. even if there's nothing to steal, what's to stop this nutjob from breaking in and defacing the property anyway, just to cause you problems?
ugh, what a horrible thing to have to deal with



I agree. He sounds unstable and ****** off enough that he woud pour cement down the pipes or something crazy like that.

Posted 10/12/10 3:02 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: And the saga continues...

I know you said you are going to, but I'd change the locks, alarm the house, alert the police and tell the neighbors. This guy is really gross and entitled, huh?!?!Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/10 3:06 PM
 

jilliibabii
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Re: And the saga continues...

Chat Icon WOW! Is this guy friggin nuts?!

Posted 10/12/10 3:22 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Leslie

Re: And the saga continues...

Posted by Bxgell2

To give a little background about the family that was living in the house - husband and wife and two adult daughters. The couple divorced and husband, who was also a contractor, moved out about a year ago. He stopped helping out with the mortgage, the wife couldn’t afford it, the house went into total disrepair.



Same with us but he daughters were grade school age. They let the house go to pot. Lesson learned.

Posted 10/12/10 3:42 PM
 

LSP2005
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L

Re: And the saga continues...

I would get an alarm and change all of the locks asap.

Posted 10/12/10 4:10 PM
 

NASP09
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Re: And the saga continues...

That situation sounds like an absolute nightmare, but dont knock short sales. They arent all bad.

I agree with PP - change the locks, get a security system, get an alarm, and make friends with your neighbors.

Posted 10/12/10 7:29 PM
 

Bearcat
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E

Re: And the saga continues...

Wow... I don't even know what to say, but good luck.

Posted 10/12/10 7:49 PM
 

jgl
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g

Re: And the saga continues...

Omg what a crazy story! Maybe get a restraining order. Chat Icon

Posted 10/12/10 8:59 PM
 

jam11308

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Re: And the saga continues...

Oh ewwww - what a skeevy scumbag Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/10 10:07 AM
 
 

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