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How old are/were you when you tried to have your first baby?

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?? Age??

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LuLu2260
LIF Adult

Member since 7/09

1647 total posts

Name:
Mich

?? Age??

Just curious.... How old were you/are you when you started to try to have a baby?

Message edited 3/9/2010 9:17:52 PM.

Posted 3/9/10 9:15 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

Member since 7/08

19084 total posts

Name:
Jib

Re: ?? Age??

I'm 25.. though I was ready since I got married at 23Chat Icon We just started this past November. It took that long for DH to get baby fever like me! Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/10 9:23 PM
 

LuLu2260
LIF Adult

Member since 7/09

1647 total posts

Name:
Mich

Re: ?? Age??

I know this seems like an odd question its just that some people that I work with are telling me I should wait! Although they do not know we are actually going to start trying soon! I am completely ready and so is my husband. They are just annoying me.

Message edited 3/9/2010 9:26:20 PM.

Posted 3/9/10 9:25 PM
 

MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!

Member since 7/09

4671 total posts

Name:
Christina

Re: ?? Age??

I'll be 25 next month. We started ttc 5 months ago on our HMChat Icon

Posted 3/9/10 9:45 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

Member since 7/08

19084 total posts

Name:
Jib

Re: ?? Age??

Posted by LuLu2260

I know this seems like an odd question its just that some people that I work with are telling me I should wait! Although they do not know we are actually going to start trying soon! I am completely ready and so is my husband. They are just annoying me.



Don't listen to them. Do what YOU and DH think is right for yourselves. Everyone will always have their own opinion.. Ultimately, it's your life!

I have a friend who is anti-marriage before 30 and is anti baby before 35...... so I don't share any of these details with her! I had a weak moment and confessed that we have been seeing an RE, but beyond that I say nothing. I know she won't be supportive so I don't bother.

When it comes to TTC, you should only surround yourself with positive, supportive people! Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/10 10:14 PM
 

Harlow-J
Mason's mommy!

Member since 12/09

3623 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: ?? Age??

I just turned 31, Dh will be 35 in August..we'll be trying by end of summer/early fall.

Posted 3/9/10 10:29 PM
 

nancy6485
So in love

Member since 10/05

3363 total posts

Name:
Nancy

Re: ?? Age??

Message edited 3/9/2010 11:13:04 PM.

Posted 3/9/10 11:10 PM
 

jteach
2 and through

Member since 9/07

3939 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: ?? Age??

I am 31 and this is our first month ttc.

We wanted everything in order before we tried. Marriage, buying first house, paying off debt, good, solid careers.

But now we are ready Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 6:56 AM
 

CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!

Member since 10/07

4937 total posts

Name:

Re: ?? Age??

I am 31 and DH is 32. This is our first month TTC. I just wasn't ready before now.

Posted 3/10/10 8:01 AM
 

LuLu2260
LIF Adult

Member since 7/09

1647 total posts

Name:
Mich

Re: ?? Age??

I totally agree that its if we are ready. And we are its just annoying to hear negitive things from people for something so positive!

Posted 3/10/10 8:01 AM
 

NeedtoHide
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/10

551 total posts

Name:

Re: ?? Age??

30 and starting now

Posted 3/10/10 10:03 AM
 

MayBbaby21
Baby no. 3 coming soon!

Member since 6/09

5738 total posts

Name:

Re: ?? Age??

Don't listen to other people. If you're ready, you're ready.
I'm 29 (about to turn 30). DH and I wanted to wait a few years and enjoy being married. I'm glad we had that time, but if I knew how hard this TTC process would be for me, I would've started a lot earlier.

Posted 3/10/10 10:13 AM
 

TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

7878 total posts

Name:
Mama mama mama....

Re: ?? Age??

29. Like Ollie said, we wanted to get everything in order first: careers, house, marriage, and finances straightened out before TTC.

If one more person tells me that I'm "a little behind" or that they were "MUCH younger when" when they had their kids, I'm going to scream.

Posted 3/10/10 10:17 AM
 

matzena
Lucky 7 <3

Member since 9/08

1213 total posts

Name:
Ashley

Re: ?? Age??

We started early b/c I have ENDO.. Luckily I got preggo right away with DD.. I was 22 when I concieved and I had her at 23 & DH was 26.. TTC #2 on the other hand is taking longer.. We started TTC#2 a month after I turned 25... looks like I will be at least 26 if/after #2 is here...

Message edited 3/10/2010 11:30:51 AM.

Posted 3/10/10 11:29 AM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
Welcome to the world Chase

Member since 9/08

6162 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: ?? Age??

Posted by TheDivineMrsM

29. Like Ollie said, we wanted to get everything in order first: careers, house, marriage, and finances straightened out before TTC.

If one more person tells me that I'm "a little behind" or that they were "MUCH younger when" when they had their kids, I'm going to scream.


Agreed!!!!
Good luck Jess! I didn't know you were trying. I am 28 now and Dh is 30. We hope to start TTC within this year or so. I just want to make sure all of our finances are in check first!

Posted 3/10/10 5:31 PM
 

jteach
2 and through

Member since 9/07

3939 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: ?? Age??

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by TheDivineMrsM

29. Like Ollie said, we wanted to get everything in order first: careers, house, marriage, and finances straightened out before TTC.

If one more person tells me that I'm "a little behind" or that they were "MUCH younger when" when they had their kids, I'm going to scream.


Agreed!!!!
Good luck Jess! I didn't know you were trying. I am 28 now and Dh is 30. We hope to start TTC within this year or so. I just want to make sure all of our finances are in check first!




Hey Kristin, this is our first month trying so we will see what happens. I have been ready for a while but Steve needed everything to be perfect before he felt comfortable with the idea. Well, things aren't perfect and I think he realized they never will be, but we have a lot going for us and he is not getting any younger LOL. Good luck to you when you start

Posted 3/10/10 5:55 PM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
Welcome to the world Chase

Member since 9/08

6162 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: ?? Age??

Posted by olliesmama

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

Posted by TheDivineMrsM

29. Like Ollie said, we wanted to get everything in order first: careers, house, marriage, and finances straightened out before TTC.

If one more person tells me that I'm "a little behind" or that they were "MUCH younger when" when they had their kids, I'm going to scream.


Agreed!!!!
Good luck Jess! I didn't know you were trying. I am 28 now and Dh is 30. We hope to start TTC within this year or so. I just want to make sure all of our finances are in check first!




Hey Kristin, this is our first month trying so we will see what happens. I have been ready for a while but Steve needed everything to be perfect before he felt comfortable with the idea. Well, things aren't perfect and I think he realized they never will be, but we have a lot going for us and he is not getting any younger LOL. Good luck to you when you start


aw I hear that! I think that so many of us just have to make it work. Things will never be completely perfect!! But lots of baby dust!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 3/10/2010 7:50:37 PM.

Posted 3/10/10 7:50 PM
 

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: ?? Age??

Going to be 28 next month. DH is going to be 28 in May. We started TTC last month but have to put it on hold, hopefully can pick it back up by this summer/Fall.

Posted 3/11/10 11:14 AM
 

KimberlyScott
Graceyn=My World <3

Member since 10/08

4173 total posts

Name:
Kimberly

Re: ?? Age??

I'll be 36 when we "officially" start trying. This will be my 1st.

Posted 3/11/10 12:44 PM
 

Cheeks24
Living a dream

Member since 1/08

8589 total posts

Name:
Cheeks

Re: ?? Age??

Posted by LuLu2260

I know this seems like an odd question its just that some people that I work with are telling me I should wait! Although they do not know we are actually going to start trying soon! I am completely ready and so is my husband. They are just annoying me.



People always have something to say. You get married and they ask when are you popping out kids? It's ridiculous really. Do what YOU want! Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/10 12:48 PM
 

JRsMaMa
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07

2044 total posts

Name:
Jake's Mama

Re: ?? Age??

We started trying when I was 29. I am now 30.

Posted 3/11/10 1:43 PM
 
 

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