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To BD or not to BD?

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WishingforBaby
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To BD or not to BD?

This is Month #4 for DH and I and all of a sudden I feel like I have everything all wrong and don't know what to do!

Prior to TTC, I had an average of 26 day cycles..never exactly the same. Since TTC'ing I have been 29 days each time. So, I think I am more "regular" now. We have been BD'ing based on CM in past. Now I am temping and charting.

Fertilityfriend says my O day is CD 17...assuming I have a 14 LP. Mymonthlycycles says my O day is CD 15. WHAT THE HELL?!?

When should we BD??? I don't want to miss our day! I am currently on CD 12 and have watery CM. (Sorry TMI) Please help!! Chat Icon

Posted 10/27/09 10:26 PM
 
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Hofstra26
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Re: To BD or not to BD?

I would start now and BD at least every other day until a day or two after you peak on an OPK. Good luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/27/09 10:58 PM
 

8ternity
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Re: To BD or not to BD?

I would BD tonight and every other night until I guess CD20 ...those sites are not 100% accurate.

Do you use OPK's?

Posted 10/27/09 10:59 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
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Re: To BD or not to BD?

Keep in mind that MMC has a 14-day LP as its default. You can change it based on your temps and OPKs. Once it's set to your specifications, it'll be much more accurate.

Posted 10/28/09 7:19 AM
 

zoe282
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Jen

Re: To BD or not to BD?

I would BD every other day starting now...Deanna's plan says to start every other day starting CD 10 till you get positive oPK...if you don't then to continue every other day...but I'd start and wait till you see EWCM and go from there.

Posted 10/28/09 4:18 PM
 

OoMarshmallowoO
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MaybeBaby

Re: To BD or not to BD?

I noticed on mymonthlycycle, it takes the first day you spot CD1 compare to FF, it takes the first day you have light, medium heavy flow as CD1. Do you spot before you get flow? If so, that could be the reason why these two websites are giving you different O days.

If you have watery CM, you should BD tonight! Have fun!

Posted 10/28/09 8:43 PM
 
 
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