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i think dave would do best with a first.....he's so adorably clueless with babies...but with a boy - i think he'd handle all the 'newness' better.

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I was thinking about it.....this is our first and Im very early 5 weeks, Im just happy we got our BFP!!! It doesnt matter to me at the point! I just want to carry to full term and of course we all want healthy babies!! Im so excited!

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i have one of each. DD is 8 and has always been so easy- she was the best baby. DS is 15 months and is a great baby, but is very how shall i say, busy- constant non-stop movement.
I thought i wanted a girl, so it would be a little easier since ill be juggling an infant and a toddler- but really at this point- i dont have a preferance. that has only changed recently- up until a few weeks ago, i really wanted another girl- and so does DD- she wants a little sister.

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I think I would prefer a for my first.

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Since this is our first, I don't really have a preference. I'd love to have a girl at some point though.

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We really wanted a first and that is what we are having! My intuition failed me though, i totally thought it was a until the Level II sono clearly showed the little pickle!

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I always wanted my 1st DC to be a boy and my 2nd to be a girl. Thats the way I grew up, and my brother was very protective of me. Of course I got my boy first, and though we could have sworn our 2nd was a girl, we got another boy, and we were just as thrilled. We are TTC again in July, and hoping for a girl.

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I've always dreamed of having a boy...and then a girl.....i've been around alot more boy babies and although i am girlie i definately cannot wait to get down in the yard and play in dirt and mud with the boys.....i got really lucky because i found out i was having twins...miracle enough...and then found out at 14 wks it was identical twin boys!!.....double my wish!...i would have been happy with 2 girls..as long as they are happy..healthy and dont keep us up all nite LOL

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I go back and forth. Since my kids will only be 13 months apart, I kind of hope for another so that the boys could grow up together, I think it would be nice for Joey to have a brother so close to his age. But I also would really love to have a little . I always thought I would be a girl mom, and I have a strong feeling this baby is a girl. I guess you could say that we don't have a preferance than lol.

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I've always wanted at least one of each. For our first, I truly didn't have a preference. FH wanted a boy to guarantee that he has a boy. We are having a girl, and he's still thrilled, but still wants a boy one day. If I could plan everything, I'd have DD now, then I'd have twins--a boy and a girl. Then another boy. Then I'd have 2 of each, and there would be 2 girls close in age and 2 boys close in age. But honestly, I feel blessed to be having a healthy baby girl and just pray that I'll be able to have more healthy children--whatever they may be--in the future.

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i have 3 boys already so i'm hoping for a girl this time. But either way this is going to be our last baby!

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I had a first, so I wanted next. I found out we have another little on the way. Now, I'm really excited about having 2 s. I always thought I would have a daughter, so if we go for a third it would be nice to get a , but I'm totally loving being the mom of s, so I would be happy either way.

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I'm having it the way I wanted, first a boy now girl, but if I have any more I'd probably want them to be boys.

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I wish i was having twins.. and one of each.. a boy and a girl this time around.. I want another girl for my dd to have a sister to bond with.. but also want a boy for dh so he has that boy to pal around with..

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I am mixed. If we had another girl then we would save so much money because we have the clothes for her already, but I would also want a boy because we didnt have one the first time around.

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i REALLY wanted a girl. So bad, that i was actually sad when i found out i was having a boy...NOW that my baby boy is here, i'm so in love with him and I couln't imagine life without him.. i am loving having a Boy...
We are only having one more and as much as a piece of me still wants a girl, I'd be totally fine with a another boy...so funny how you can change.