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Ugh
Im so sick of everyone in my family and Dh's calling and always starting with "sooooo any news" our biggest mistake was telling everyone as soon as we got pregnant last oct.... and since we lost the baby, everyone is just waiting....its so stressful
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Posted 5/23/08 12:42 PM  |
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LemonHead
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Re: Ugh
 I know how you feel- every time I tell my mom I'm stopping by, she's like, "Oh I thought you had something to tell us!"
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| Posted 5/23/08 12:43 PM |
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MetsGirl07
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i feel the SAME way!! they expect so much now .. after losing my baby , they make it more stressful on me.. 
i am not telling them when we are TTC , i want everything to be a secret next time
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| Posted 5/23/08 12:48 PM |
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WhitneyL
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same here...i see my grandma every sunday and she stares at me from across the table with this  on her face.."sooo...anything NEW?????"
What am i supposed to say??? "well, as a matter of fact, grandma...we've spent the last 3 months since the miscarriage going at it like rabbits..."
That's a way to spice up Sunday dinner with the fam...
but seriously, do they think i'm going to go through an entire pregnancy and NOT tell them? I'll let the cat out of the bag when i'm good and ready.
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| Posted 5/23/08 12:49 PM |
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Posted by WhitneyL
same here...i see my grandma every sunday and she stares at me from across the table with this on her face.."sooo...anything NEW?????"
What am i supposed to say??? "well, as a matter of fact, grandma...we've spent the last 3 months since the miscarriage going at it like rabbits..."
That's a way to spice up Sunday dinner with the fam...
but seriously, do they think i'm going to go through an entire pregnancy and NOT tell them? I'll let the cat out of the bag when i'm good and ready.
seriously......i was at a fam party for one of DH relatives and his mom was like...sooooooo and he said well mom shes ov right now and she said with a straight face...ok take her outsid OMG
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| Posted 5/23/08 12:56 PM |
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| Posted 5/23/08 12:59 PM |
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WhitneyL
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Re: Ugh
Posted by secretbabymaker
Posted by WhitneyL
same here...i see my grandma every sunday and she stares at me from across the table with this on her face.."sooo...anything NEW?????"
What am i supposed to say??? "well, as a matter of fact, grandma...we've spent the last 3 months since the miscarriage going at it like rabbits..."
That's a way to spice up Sunday dinner with the fam...
but seriously, do they think i'm going to go through an entire pregnancy and NOT tell them? I'll let the cat out of the bag when i'm good and ready.
seriously......i was at a fam party for one of DH relatives and his mom was like...sooooooo and he said well mom shes ov right now and she said with a straight face...ok take her outsid OMG
OMG I would DIE. I would just die right there on the spot.
I dont think i need my MIL knowing when i'm O'ing either. The woman already knows enough about me...that's just a little too much. It's bad enough at Christmas dinner she told me she wanted me to BF my children. Umm...1) i think that's MY call and 2) WHY are we talking about my boobs at Christmas???? 
I think because they feel they will be relatives to our DC, they have the right to know everything about it. It's a little creepy sometimes.
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| Posted 5/23/08 1:04 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Posted by WhitneyL
Posted by secretbabymaker
Posted by WhitneyL
same here...i see my grandma every sunday and she stares at me from across the table with this on her face.."sooo...anything NEW?????"
What am i supposed to say??? "well, as a matter of fact, grandma...we've spent the last 3 months since the miscarriage going at it like rabbits..."
That's a way to spice up Sunday dinner with the fam...
but seriously, do they think i'm going to go through an entire pregnancy and NOT tell them? I'll let the cat out of the bag when i'm good and ready.
seriously......i was at a fam party for one of DH relatives and his mom was like...sooooooo and he said well mom shes ov right now and she said with a straight face...ok take her outsid OMG
OMG I would DIE. I would just die right there on the spot.
I dont think i need my MIL knowing when i'm O'ing either. The woman already knows enough about me...that's just a little too much. It's bad enough at Christmas dinner she told me she wanted me to BF my children. Umm...1) i think that's MY call and 2) WHY are we talking about my boobs at Christmas????
I think because they feel they will be relatives to our DC, they have the right to know everything about it. It's a little creepy sometimes.
OMG totally
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| Posted 5/23/08 3:41 PM |
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SHOPAHOLIC
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I feel your pain 
EVERY SINGLE time I call my BFF she screams " SOOOOOOOO HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL ME??"
This has been going on for months and it is majorly depressing and annoying.
I am SO glad we decided not to tell any of our family. I couldn't handle that.
I think BFF is just catching on now to relax with the questioning. The calls to her were getting less and less frequent. Just the thought of calling her and knowing she would be asking depressed the heck out of me.
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| Posted 5/23/08 6:20 PM |
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