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Just a little update on my teenage brother...

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05mommy09
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Just a little update on my teenage brother...

I don't know if anyone remembers but the last 2 yrs my mother was struggling to get control of my youngest brother, who was heavily into drugs, alcohol, and was both verbally and physically abusive to my mom at times...

So many of you pointed me (which in turn pointed her) in the right direction to get her and him help. She did receive an order of protection, he did go on the "pins" programs (which wasn't called that anymore) but everything was unsuccessful.

Well its been 2.5 yrs (probably longer than that- but 2.5 yrs that my family has been trying to get help) and apparently last weekend my very very drunk brother called my mom from a party asking to be taken to the hospital to go to detox.

From what I was told- he shared that he has been in NA (narcotics anonymous) for about a month or so, but realizes that he also has a drinking problem, and runs to it every time something upsets him (more so now that he is trying to be drug free). He starts AA this week as well...

This was all his choice- so I really hope he sticks to itChat Icon

Just thought Id share since I know there are a few that were dealing with very similar situations, and wanted to let all those who went out of there way to help, know that we are finally seeing a light.

Thanks again!

Posted 3/16/08 12:33 PM
 
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twobabies
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

i pray he sticks out the programs. He sounds like he is really ready to get on track now. many many prayers to him.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 12:39 PM
 

MsSissy
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Posted 3/16/08 12:43 PM
 

bklyngirl
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

the most important thing is that he was the one asking for help


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Posted 3/16/08 12:49 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Posted 3/16/08 1:37 PM
 

missus-hbradio
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Posted 3/16/08 1:50 PM
 

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Posted 3/16/08 3:39 PM
 

anjerandunder
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

he took the first step towards recovery. good luck with everything!!

Posted 3/16/08 5:27 PM
 

Shroggie
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

that's great news...i hope he sticks with it, and continues to get the help he needsChat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 5:32 PM
 

rose825
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

Thats awesome! Good luck to him and your familyChat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 5:37 PM
 

pinky
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Posted 3/16/08 6:13 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

I'll keep my fingers crossed that this is his wake-up call. Lots of kids get wrapped up in things like this, but go on to lead wonderful lives as adults.Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 6:17 PM
 

Holly
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

Great news to hear! I was actually going to FM you to ask about him b/c I remember reading the stories & something triggered me to think of you guys yesterday.

Hope he can get through this!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 6:21 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

I hope that you all continue to support him as he tried to straighten out his life

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Posted 3/16/08 7:11 PM
 

Faithx2
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Posted 3/16/08 7:28 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Posted 3/16/08 7:30 PM
 

Katie111806
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

i pray that he has hit his "bottom" and truly gets the help he needs! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon God bless your family. Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 8:01 PM
 

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Posted 3/16/08 9:09 PM
 

juanvi
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i hope all works out!

Posted 3/16/08 9:13 PM
 

CaseyGirl
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It's a great step that he reached out for help. Heres some prayers that he gets onto the right path. There may be some stumbling blocks along the way but as long as he wants it, he'll get there Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 9:26 PM
 

Jax430
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

I'm glad to hear that he has begun to admit that he has a problem and is reaching out to seek help. I hope this is the beginning of a new direction for his life. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/08 9:43 PM
 

justthe4ofus
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

THat's great Marissa,

I hope that he can stay with it!

Posted 3/16/08 9:45 PM
 

dooodles
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

Thanks for the update. I truly hope this is the beginning of a new life for him (and lots of refief for your family - especially Mom).

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Posted 3/16/08 9:45 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Just a little update on my teenage brother...

Wow! It definitely sounds like he is on the right road. HE recognized the problem and HE asked for help. I have noticed that the people who ask for help, are the most successful in recovery.

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Posted 3/17/08 9:39 AM
 

MST9106
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Posted 3/17/08 9:46 AM
 
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