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sweetbabydreams
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When TTC who do you see

When TTC should i be talking with my GYN or find an OB GYN. my gyn unforntunately isnt a obgyn. of course she says i am to young but dH and i have great jobs and are ready. I dont think 27 is to young do you?

Posted 12/15/07 8:25 PM
 
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MrsRbk
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Re: When TTC who do you see

your doctor told you that you were too young to TTC?? I find that so unacceptable!

Posted 12/15/07 8:29 PM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Chat Icon ridiculous....27 is definitely not too young and he/she had no place to say it bc no matter what its YOU AND DH'S decision

Posted 12/15/07 8:31 PM
 

mia818
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Re: When TTC who do you see

That's weird. I was 27 when I got pg with my ds! Maybe she meant you are still young you have plenty of time?
If you are TTC then I would think you should find an OBGYN.

Posted 12/15/07 8:38 PM
 

sweetbabydreams
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Re: When TTC who do you see

her exact words were i really think you 2 should wait your still young. And then she handed me a trial of bc pills that i have yet to take. this was before we left for our honey moon. i guess she didnt take me seariously.

Posted 12/15/07 8:46 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Posted by sweetbabydreams

her exact words were i really think you 2 should wait your still young. And then she handed me a trial of bc pills that i have yet to take. this was before we left for our honey moon. i guess she didnt take me seariously.



Wow...I have no words! I would find a new doctor asap!

Posted 12/15/07 8:47 PM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Posted by MrsRbk

Posted by sweetbabydreams

her exact words were i really think you 2 should wait your still young. And then she handed me a trial of bc pills that i have yet to take. this was before we left for our honey moon. i guess she didnt take me seariously.



Wow...I have no words! I would find a new doctor asap!



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Posted 12/15/07 8:48 PM
 

julz33
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Posted by JenandMikey

Posted by MrsRbk

Posted by sweetbabydreams

her exact words were i really think you 2 should wait your still young. And then she handed me a trial of bc pills that i have yet to take. this was before we left for our honey moon. i guess she didnt take me seariously.



Wow...I have no words! I would find a new doctor asap!



totally agreeChat Icon


Chat Icon I agree too!

Posted 12/15/07 8:58 PM
 

BellaRock
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Re: When TTC who do you see

I agree with the other ladies. Def find your self a OBGYN.
One of the first OBGYN I went to see told me that maybe I should focus more on weight loss rather than TTC. Needless to say I grabbed my stuff and never went back. When to TTC is a decision only you and your DH can make. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/07 10:06 PM
 

Domino
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Chat Icon maybe that's why she's not an OBChat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 6:07 AM
 

runlikethewind
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Re: When TTC who do you see

I don't think you're too young, plus age should not be the issue, some 38 year olds are not established!! I would recommend finding and ob/gyn so you can at least get to know them for when the times comes!! Good luck Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 6:58 AM
 

LuckySV
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Re: When TTC who do you see

That is completely unacceptable! Find a new doc. It's not her business (unless there are medical concerns) when you and DH TTC. She should be there to support you and give you medical advice not tell you you're too young TTC.

Posted 12/16/07 8:36 AM
 

Lolitababy
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Re: When TTC who do you see

That's horrible...maybe she was just trying to promote the BC pills-that would be really terrible

Posted 12/16/07 8:48 AM
 

MrsS518
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Re: When TTC who do you see

im 23 and TTC so i must be REALLY young then 27 is a great age i think to TTC

Posted 12/16/07 9:33 AM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: When TTC who do you see

I cant believe she told you you were too young!

I think you should switch to an obgyn this way you can have the same doctor follow you through from ttc to delivery

Posted 12/16/07 9:54 AM
 

TLC1018
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Posted by sweetbabydreams

her exact words were i really think you 2 should wait your still young. And then she handed me a trial of bc pills that i have yet to take. this was before we left for our honey moon. i guess she didnt take me seariously.



WOW! That is not good at all! It's not her opinion you're there for! Definitely find another doctor!

Posted 12/16/07 10:03 AM
 

sfp0701
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Find a new doctor ASAP!!! She has some @#@$%#% nerve!!! You will need an OB as soon as you are PG anyway so finding one before is a nice idea. You can get a relationship with him/her and make sure you like them. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/07 10:33 AM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: When TTC who do you see

I could see her saying that if you were in your early 20's but I think 27 is a great age to start TTC. If you feel like she won't be supportive, you should def. find a new doctor.

Posted 12/16/07 11:31 AM
 

Dani922
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Re: When TTC who do you see

Posted by babygirl71777

im 23 and TTC so i must be REALLY young then 27 is a great age i think to TTC



I'm 20! Imagine what she would say about me!

IMO, it really isn't acceptable for them to be telling you that you are too young. I would suggest that you switch doctors, and if you're doing so, you might as well find an OB/GYN that you'll be comfortable delivering with.

I had my DD when I was 18. Yeah, obviously I was young, but she was a pill baby so not exactly planned. At my 6 week PP check up, my doctor was trying to convince me to get an IUD because she said that "Condoms take a lot of responsibility & have to be used consistantly" and she told me that she didn't want to see me in her office pregnant again for quite a while becuase I was so young. Chat Icon Thanks for basically calling me irresponsible & telling me how to live my life. Needless to say, that practice will not be delivering #2 (I'm getting a midwife).

Posted 12/16/07 12:28 PM
 
 

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