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TeamSweet
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Member since 5/07

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Heather

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Well, DH has a pool business, and I'm due Memorial Day weekend, the start of his busy season, so who knows? Chat Icon The good thing is he makes his own schedule, so I know he'll try to be home as much as possible.

Posted 12/12/07 9:59 AM
 
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snowboardgirl
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Christine

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Posted by CherylWoops

Posted by snowboardgirl

None

Hopefully he won't work the day after the baby comes. Then my mother and his mother will help.

If he is home one day a week I will be happy!

Yes, it s*cks.



Don't worry, I am in the exact same situation, minus the MIL help and not sure what my mom's story will be. I feel for you! DH works most days and is on call 24/7. I am sure he will get coverage for when I actually deliver, but after that, all bets are off. Chat Icon



We should help eachother!! Live near Setauket? Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/07 10:08 AM
 

KellyDance
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Kelly

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Posted by bella06

we are both teachers and the baby is due in July- so whatever time we have left in our summer vacation. I hope the baby comes early that way we have more time to spend with him/her! Chat Icon



That's so nice because you will get to spend all the summers and vacations as a family! I'm jealous!!!

Mine...only 1 week! Makes me sad

Posted 12/12/07 10:18 AM
 

CherylWoops
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Cheryl

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Posted by snowboardgirl

We should help eachother!! Live near Setauket? Chat Icon



Bellmore...not even close. Chat Icon
Great idea though!!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/07 10:20 AM
 

Mkr09
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Member since 5/05

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M

Re: how long will your DH be at home

he's probably only going to take 3 days or so. He accrues time starting Jan 1st so he's really not going to have any time since I am due Jan 20th. Any time that he takes, he's going to have to make up.

Posted 12/12/07 10:55 AM
 

JustBrowsin
LIF Adult

Member since 2/07

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Re: how long will your DH be at home

DH worked it out that he can get a whole month off after the baby is born.

Posted 12/12/07 12:33 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: how long will your DH be at home

I am not sure yet.

I get three weeks vacation. Boosh is due anywhere from late May to mid June. I will likely take 2 weeks, beginning from the time she comes home. We also get flex days throughout the summer - so I may wiggle a few in there too.

then i'd take the last week's vacation during the holidays

Also, my company offers a 6-week sabbatical program for employees in their fourth year - I will be starting my 4th year in March. You take 2 weeks vacation, they give you two paid, and two unpaid. I am going to see if I can take 4 weeks, so that I don't lose a paycheck

Message edited 12/12/2007 12:44:19 PM.

Posted 12/12/07 12:39 PM
 

LIBOUND
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Suzy

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

I am not sure yet.

I get three weeks vacation. Boosh is due anywhere from late May to mid June. I will likely take 2 weeks, beginning from the time she comes home. We also get flex days throughout the summer - so I may wiggle a few in there too.

then i'd take the last week's vacation during the holidays

Also, my company offers a 6-week sabbatical program for employees in their fourth year - I will be starting my 4th year in March. You take 2 weeks vacation, they give you two paid, and two unpaid. I am going to see if I can take 4 weeks, so that I don't lose a paycheck



Basically that's exactly what my DH will be doing, except he'll take the two weeks in sick/personal time if he can, or it will end up being only the four weeks.

Posted 12/12/07 12:57 PM
 

eroxgirl
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Rebecca

Re: how long will your DH be at home

I have no idea. Hopefully he'll be able to get a couple of days but I'm not holding my breath.

Posted 12/12/07 1:06 PM
 

jennyb
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Member since 8/07

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Jen LIW: jenafee

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Not a clue. DH is an ER doctor and who knows if they'll be generous enough to help him out when the baby is born. I hope a few days!

Posted 12/12/07 1:12 PM
 

DC HJJ M

Member since 8/07

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Crystal

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Dont have a DH but thats what I have my mom for Chat Icon She will be around as much as I need her she said! Thank god!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/07 1:13 PM
 

08BabySurprise
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Re: how long will your DH be at home

2 weeks.

Posted 12/12/07 2:42 PM
 

nadia
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Re: how long will your DH be at home

Probably the day baby is born and the following day only.Chat Icon
But my mil will come to help me for 3wks.

Message edited 12/12/2007 3:31:49 PM.

Posted 12/12/07 3:31 PM
 

LisaI
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Re: how long will your DH be at home

Like the first he will take off a week, maybe 2. However as long as he is not traveling (which he won't be for 2 months after the birth) he will come home early or go in late. He's able to come and go as he pleases.

Posted 12/12/07 5:12 PM
 

Happy1
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Member since 6/07

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Re: how long will your DH be at home

2 weeks which will be paternity leave for him and than he plans on taking 1 week of vacation so he'll be home for 3 weeks.

Posted 12/12/07 9:22 PM
 

BRod-Cheng
I'm going to be a big brother!

Member since 6/07

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Name:
Betty

Re: how long will your DH be at home

Probably 1 week. We will see how it goes, and how much vacation time he has.

Posted 12/12/07 9:51 PM
 

dapnkap
Our 3 angels

Member since 7/07

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Name:
Karen

Re: how long will your DH be at home

I think he will take 2 weeks and then his job gives him a week of half-days at full-time pay.

Posted 12/13/07 12:47 PM
 

Suzanne
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Member since 5/05

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Suzanne

Re: how long will your DH be at home

I am very lucky in that DH works from home. He is around all day, everyday. He is a consultant so he mostly makes his own hours too. It will be nice to have him around most of the time.

Posted 12/13/07 2:21 PM
 

ckone
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Re: how long will your DH be at home

We haven't really discussed this - this time around. I'm not sure if he has vacation. He can be somewhat flexible so maybe a week after I get home from the hospital.

I guess that we'll have to discuss. This is our second baby so I'm thinking that I might have to see how it goes.

Posted 12/13/07 6:14 PM
 
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