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eroxgirl
My Loves
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Rebecca
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I'm going to hurt this woman...
There's this beast in my office who OF COURSE has never been pregnant, and she just can't control herself when it comes to me. Today she sees me walking toward her and she starts waddling to mimick how I'm walking.  A few weeks ago she she asked me -- SERIOUSLY -- if I was having twins because I'm so huge. And a few weeks before that told me and someone else that I make her feel skinny - she's very overweight, by the way. I'm going to lose my job because if she doesn't knock it off, I'm going to hit her. 
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Posted 10/15/07 10:42 AM  |
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MelToddJulia
Love my Family!
Member since 7/05 29064 total posts
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Mel
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
You have to pull this b itch aside and tell her how you feel, thats not right how shes treating you, joking or not!
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| Posted 10/15/07 10:45 AM |
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neener1211
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Member since 4/07 22952 total posts
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J
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
you need to go to human resources and let them know so that they can speak with her.
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| Posted 10/15/07 10:48 AM |
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jms100303
Luv my munchkins
Member since 5/05 4789 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
I can't believe you haven't hit her already. If she came waddling towards me I would have knocked her out!!!
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| Posted 10/15/07 10:49 AM |
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
I agree with ap, I would mention to her that her actions are offensive, and if that doesnt work, I would then go to hr and mention it to them
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| Posted 10/15/07 10:52 AM |
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NewlyMrs
Laugh-Live-Love LIFE!
Member since 10/06 14432 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
Posted by Maybeababyin08
I agree with ap, I would mention to her that her actions are offensive, and if that doesnt work, I would then go to hr and mention it to them
ITA! That is unprofessional and offensive and should not continue!!!!
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| Posted 10/15/07 10:56 AM |
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lululu
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
First of all, I dont care how huge you are, her comments are totally inappropriate. Second of all, I just looked at your album at your belly shots and you are NOT HUGE by any stretch of the imagination! You look GREAT! I suspect that she is just saying this stuff because she is jealous of you. Normally I hate saying people behave poorly because of jealousy but that's what it does really sound like.
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:02 AM |
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CAT215
The Merlster
Member since 10/06 2540 total posts
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Cathie
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
I agree with the previous poster, go to HR and file an official complaint. I just looked at your pictures, you look great and you are NOT huge.
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:08 AM |
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dawnie
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
I actually can believe that someone can be that rude and say that to a pregnant woman because I would get the twins comment all the time when I was pregnant with my son!
I am so so sorry because I know how it made me feel!
You look beautiful!
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:10 AM |
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Kidsaplenty
Sister love
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
What an idiot!
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:11 AM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
Posted by NewlyMrs
Posted by Maybeababyin08
I agree with ap, I would mention to her that her actions are offensive, and if that doesnt work, I would then go to hr and mention it to them
ITA! That is unprofessional and offensive and should not continue!!!!
I completely agree.
If they do nothing & it she continued, I would be countering back with how huge she is.
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:11 AM |
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MayMommy
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Member since 10/07 836 total posts
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Marilyn
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
Posted by Maybeababyin08
I agree with ap, I would mention to her that her actions are offensive, and if that doesnt work, I would then go to hr and mention it to them
I agree
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:35 AM |
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Happy1
I'm a mommy!!!!
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
That is completely unacceptable especially in the workplace! I swear, some people have no shame!
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:42 AM |
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Mkr09
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
I would def say something to your HR dept. Before my wedding I lost about 50 lbs and one of the ladies in my office constantly made comments about how my clothes looked frumpy because I couldn't afford to buy new clothes. I eventually told my boss and we brought the HR person in and she was spoken too. Some people just don't realize what comes out of their mouth is so offensive.
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| Posted 10/15/07 11:53 AM |
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CherylWoops
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Member since 10/07 1553 total posts
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Cheryl
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
That is completely unacceptable and should not be tolerated. If you work with a close personal friend and she mimics your walk to tease you, that seems fine because it is light-hearted. It does not sounds like you and this jerk are BFF though. I would either pull her aside or file a complaint with HR, depending on which you are more comfortable with.
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| Posted 10/15/07 12:18 PM |
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nicrae
He's here!
Member since 12/06 9289 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: I'm going to hurt this woman...
Posted by MayMommy
Posted by Maybeababyin08
I agree with ap, I would mention to her that her actions are offensive, and if that doesnt work, I would then go to hr and mention it to them
I agree
I agree also.
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| Posted 10/15/07 12:23 PM |
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