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Smileyd17
kids
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Mommy
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4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
My DD is 4 months and I am the mom who holds her when I can, takes her out of her infant carrier at the store or while out.
Daddy is no help either. We are the suckers 
I am noticing how she will not LET me do anything lately.
I put her on her tummy and put her down to play, I walk away, the crying starts.
It continues and dosent stop until I pick her up...therefore proving, there is nothing wrong..not hungry, wet or tired.
Of course I feel bad, so I pick her up!!
Its a bad CYCLE!
 
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Posted 9/11/07 10:10 AM  |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
Member since 9/05 32436 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
my dd is doing the same type of things...she cries when I leave the room but stops the moment I come back in. I do not think it is being spoiled but this is the age when the separation anxiety starts...at this point, I hold my dd all the time, whever she wants, I will worry about spoiling her later
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| Posted 9/11/07 10:19 AM |
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Dragonfly75
I love Hypnobabies
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
Sometimes babies just need to be held. They go through more needy phases and then they'll be more indepedent, then needy again. I use a sling or my ergo carrier when DS is in need of a little more hold time. It's perfect -- I get my stuff done and he gets the touching and holding he needs.
I don't think it's spoiling at all. It's natural. IMHO, I think a baby that wants to be held and communicate with you is much healthier than a baby who just wants to be left alone.
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| Posted 9/11/07 10:40 AM |
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Smileyd17
kids
Member since 5/05 20997 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
Thanks...
Its just tough and I do give in ALL the time.
Laundry is backed up...
its ok!
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| Posted 9/11/07 10:45 AM |
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JenBenMen
party of five
Member since 9/06 11343 total posts
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Jen
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
DS is 4 months and I am noticing that when I put him down, he does cry. I usually let him cry for a bit and then he stops.
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| Posted 9/11/07 10:45 AM |
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Briannasmommy
Love her so much <3
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Christina
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
DD does the samething. Yesterday i was over my firends house and i went to go to the bathroom and as soon as i left the room she started to cry.
When i put her down to go get something leave the room she crys.
Your DD is not the only one. I though it was just mine to lol 
Hope it is just a stage
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| Posted 9/11/07 10:47 AM |
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Laura1
Fun in the Snow!
Member since 11/06 4512 total posts
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Laura
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
DD is 6 months and sometimes does the same thing
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| Posted 9/11/07 10:55 AM |
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KateDevine
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
Yeah, we are having the same issue here. It actually makes me feel A LOT better that I didn't "cause" it.
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| Posted 9/11/07 11:34 AM |
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cgdg61606
Little Brother Christopher
Member since 2/07 6815 total posts
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Christine
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Re: 4 months and spoiled? Such a thing?
Posted by stephanief
my dd is doing the same type of things...she cries when I leave the room but stops the moment I come back in. I do not think it is being spoiled but this is the age when the separation anxiety starts...at this point, I hold my dd all the time, whever she wants, I will worry about spoiling her later
I agree about it being about seperation anxiety and not about being spoiled!
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| Posted 9/11/07 11:38 AM |
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