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summertime
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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by NervousNell

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So what about other charities.
Why is it only for ALS?
Why not cancer, heart disease, AIDS, etc etc.
Donate money.
Don't pour a bucket of water over your head.
I think that is why people are calling it stupid.
Because it doesn't make sense.



I think because this is one of the charities that gets less attention.



True, but there are 100s and 100s of little known charities and little known diseases, etc.
I just don't get it.
But more than that, I don't get the concept. Pour ice water on your head OR donate.
So everyone is pouring ice water on their heads.
Aren't they supposed to be donating instead of doing that?
Flawed if you ask me.



Not flawed if you consider the amount of money and awareness it has raised! It actually pretty amazing!

Posted 8/15/14 12:07 PM
 
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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Hopefulmama

Posted by NervousNell

So what about other charities.
Why is it only for ALS?
Why not cancer, heart disease, AIDS, etc etc.
Donate money.
Don't pour a bucket of water over your head.
I think that is why people are calling it stupid.
Because it doesn't make sense.



Sorry, but those disease you listed, even Aids, so not compare to als in terms of horror. At least with those disease there is some hope. They are also fabulously well founded and all have available treatment, unlike als. I have a son with cerebral palsy and my husband wanted to do the challenge and publicly statE on fb he was donating to UCP. I said absolutely not. Many forms of cp are a gift compared to als. And no, I am not personally affected by als. It's just that bad.



I totally agree with you!!!
ALS is finally being brought to light by this challenge and I think it's wonderful that people are participating. ALS is a horrific disease and I saw someone very close to me suffer from it. There is no hope with ALS no hope at all!!!!

Posted 8/15/14 12:08 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by summertime

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by tourist

Posted by NervousNell

So what about other charities.
Why is it only for ALS?
Why not cancer, heart disease, AIDS, etc etc.
Donate money.
Don't pour a bucket of water over your head.
I think that is why people are calling it stupid.
Because it doesn't make sense.



I think because this is one of the charities that gets less attention.



True, but there are 100s and 100s of little known charities and little known diseases, etc.
I just don't get it.
But more than that, I don't get the concept. Pour ice water on your head OR donate.
So everyone is pouring ice water on their heads.
Aren't they supposed to be donating instead of doing that?
Flawed if you ask me.



Not flawed if you consider the amount of money and awareness it has raised! It actually pretty amazing!



Yes absolutely AMAZING!!!

Posted 8/15/14 12:09 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Only on LIF would people find a way to be negative about a "viral movement" that has done ZERO harm and 100% good to the tune of 4 million dollars.



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Posted 8/15/14 12:18 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Michelle1110

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Just so Im clear, people are upset/annoyed that 4 people on their peroonal small newsfeed didnt "seem" to donate bc they didnt say so and bc of that it makes this whole thing, "stupid" despite the thousands of people who HAVE donated and raised 4 million dollars?



Yes I think it's stupid for those people who are just pouring water over their head, more than half didn't even mention ALS on my feed.

Like I mentioned in my previous post my SS said it's just a game going around on Instagram. I tried to explain to him and tell him he should donate something in addition to the challenge and spread the word. He did none of it, just called out four people and put water of his head. It was really stupid.



I agree. I ASKED the people who posted videos (or others did and they were pretty clear that they fulfilled the challenge with the water and made no donation.

That's what rubs me the wrong way. It seemed like it was for the "look at me factor" and not hey - ALS awareness.


I don't understand how people are confused that if all you are seeing is a bunch of attention seekers pouring water over their heads, how you won't think it's stupid???

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Posted 8/15/14 12:23 PM
 

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this stupid ice water challenge....

I didn't read everyone's comments but I've read that millions have been donated to cancer and yet we aren't any closer to curing it. A disease like als gets virtually no mentions and this time last year raised 22k. It's at 4m now. You're supposed to donate $10 for every person you nominate. Not everyone realizes this. But without this ice bucket challenge no one would have donated. I wouldn't have, but bc of awareness I did.

And to everyone who says it's stupid if your husband had ALS you'd be singing a different tune and so grateful. I think it's awesome. Let's all focus on the positive for a hot minute.

Posted 8/15/14 12:32 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Yeah this really seems like something that should be called stupid. Raising $4 million to help fight against a disease and bringing awareness to people who may have not known what ALS was before? Simply asinine.

In fact, it's so effing stupid that I hope it acts as a precedent and brings about even more dumbass awareness movements to raise money for other charities too.


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I'm sorry, but honestly with this post. There is so much anger, hatred, and killing in the world. If you don't want to participate, don't; but look at the disgusting things people do in this world and be happy that some people still care about others.

Message edited 8/15/2014 12:46:21 PM.

Posted 8/15/14 12:43 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Sash

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by Sash

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Just so Im clear, people are upset/annoyed that 4 people on their peroonal small newsfeed didnt "seem" to donate bc they didnt say so and bc of that it makes this whole thing, "stupid" despite the thousands of people who HAVE donated and raised 4 million dollars?



Yes I think it's stupid for those people who are just pouring water over their head, more than half didn't even mention ALS on my feed.

Like I mentioned in my previous post my SS said it's just a game going around on Instagram. I tried to explain to him and tell him he should donate something in addition to the challenge and spread the word. He did none of it, just called out four people and put water of his head. It was really stupid.



I agree. I ASKED the people who posted videos (or others did and they were pretty clear that they fulfilled the challenge with the water and made no donation.

That's what rubs me the wrong way. It seemed like it was for the "look at me factor" and not hey - ALS awareness.


I don't understand how people are confused that if all you are seeing is a bunch of attention seekers pouring water over their heads, how you won't think it's stupid???

Maybe it boils down to I need new family and friends Chat Icon




I'll be really honest, not one of the people on my FB feed were out for attention on it. A lot of people on my feed were saying how they are doing this in the honor of XYZ person. I'm sorry that your feed is full of the attention seekers!

Posted 8/15/14 12:45 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Straightarrow

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Only on LIF would people find a way to be negative about a "viral movement" that has done ZERO harm and 100% good to the tune of 4 million dollars.



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Posted 8/15/14 12:46 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by peanutbutter2

Yeah this really seems like something that should be called stupid. Raising $4 million to help fight against a disease and bringing awareness to people who may have not known what ALS was before? Simply asinine.

In fact, it's so effing stupid that I hope it acts as a precedent and brings about even more dumbass awareness movements to raise money for other charities too.


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I'm sorry, but honestly with this post. There is so much anger, hatred, and killing in the world. If you don't want to participate, don't; but look at the disgusting things people do in this world and be happy that some people still care about others.



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Posted 8/15/14 12:47 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Jugglemom

Posted by peanutbutter2

Yeah this really seems like something that should be called stupid. Raising $4 million to help fight against a disease and bringing awareness to people who may have not known what ALS was before? Simply asinine.

In fact, it's so effing stupid that I hope it acts as a precedent and brings about even more dumbass awareness movements to raise money for other charities too.


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I'm sorry, but honestly with this post. There is so much anger, hatred, and killing in the world. If you don't want to participate, don't; but look at the disgusting things people do in this world and be happy that some people still care about others.



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Posted 8/15/14 12:50 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

http://time.com/3101166/als-ice-bucket-challenge-fundraising/


5.5 mil How anyone can think this is stupid is beyond me.

Posted 8/15/14 12:56 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Sash

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by Sash

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Just so Im clear, people are upset/annoyed that 4 people on their peroonal small newsfeed didnt "seem" to donate bc they didnt say so and bc of that it makes this whole thing, "stupid" despite the thousands of people who HAVE donated and raised 4 million dollars?



Yes I think it's stupid for those people who are just pouring water over their head, more than half didn't even mention ALS on my feed.

Like I mentioned in my previous post my SS said it's just a game going around on Instagram. I tried to explain to him and tell him he should donate something in addition to the challenge and spread the word. He did none of it, just called out four people and put water of his head. It was really stupid.



I agree. I ASKED the people who posted videos (or others did and they were pretty clear that they fulfilled the challenge with the water and made no donation.

That's what rubs me the wrong way. It seemed like it was for the "look at me factor" and not hey - ALS awareness.


I don't understand how people are confused that if all you are seeing is a bunch of attention seekers pouring water over their heads, how you won't think it's stupid???

Maybe it boils down to I need new family and friends Chat Icon




Seriously.

And to be very CLEAR... I don't think it is stupid, I think the people on my feed who are doing it for attention seeking purposes ONLY and not donating, but bragging about being dumped with ice water, are "stupid".

Posted 8/15/14 1:00 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by jessnbrian

Posted by Sash

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by Sash

Posted by 2BadSoSad

Just so Im clear, people are upset/annoyed that 4 people on their peroonal small newsfeed didnt "seem" to donate bc they didnt say so and bc of that it makes this whole thing, "stupid" despite the thousands of people who HAVE donated and raised 4 million dollars?



Yes I think it's stupid for those people who are just pouring water over their head, more than half didn't even mention ALS on my feed.

Like I mentioned in my previous post my SS said it's just a game going around on Instagram. I tried to explain to him and tell him he should donate something in addition to the challenge and spread the word. He did none of it, just called out four people and put water of his head. It was really stupid.



I agree. I ASKED the people who posted videos (or others did and they were pretty clear that they fulfilled the challenge with the water and made no donation.

That's what rubs me the wrong way. It seemed like it was for the "look at me factor" and not hey - ALS awareness.


I don't understand how people are confused that if all you are seeing is a bunch of attention seekers pouring water over their heads, how you won't think it's stupid???

Maybe it boils down to I need new family and friends Chat Icon






I'll be really honest, not one of the people on my FB feed were out for attention on it. A lot of people on my feed were saying how they are doing this in the honor of XYZ person. I'm sorry that your feed is full of the attention seekers!



Me too, and honestly after reading others people experience and what they have seen, I think it's awesome what I read on here. But going off of my feed, it's nothing like that. So to me it just seemed stupid and like a dumb idea. Obviously, I see now for a the couple of hundred morons they are a million others doing a great thing for ALS.

And trust me it's not anger or hatred, I just have no patience for stupid. I literally had to witness the stupidity in my own home last night.Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/14 1:00 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Lola0703

Posted by Jugglemom

Posted by peanutbutter2

Yeah this really seems like something that should be called stupid. Raising $4 million to help fight against a disease and bringing awareness to people who may have not known what ALS was before? Simply asinine.

In fact, it's so effing stupid that I hope it acts as a precedent and brings about even more dumbass awareness movements to raise money for other charities too.


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I'm sorry, but honestly with this post. There is so much anger, hatred, and killing in the world. If you don't want to participate, don't; but look at the disgusting things people do in this world and be happy that some people still care about others.



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Posted 8/15/14 1:02 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

I think the issue that people have with it being stupid is b/c there really are some people who are doing it b/c it's the "cool" thing to do right now. Not the donating part. The dumping a bucket of ice water on their heads and "making" 3 other friends do it as well part. I can guarantee you that there are some people who are doing it because it's funny and had and still have no idea what ALS is.

But thankfully, many people are also donating and doing the challenge or are just donating. It's pretty amazing how raised!

Posted 8/15/14 1:02 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by ElizaRags35

I think the issue that people have with it being stupid is b/c there really are some people who are doing it b/c it's the "cool" thing to do right now. Not the donating part. The dumping a bucket of ice water on their heads and "making" 3 other friends do it as well part. I can guarantee you that there are some people who are doing it because it's funny and had and still have no idea what ALS is.

But thankfully, many people are also donating and doing the challenge or are just donating. It's pretty amazing how raised!



Exactly

Posted 8/15/14 1:07 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Michelle1110

Posted by ElizaRags35

I think the issue that people have with it being stupid is b/c there really are some people who are doing it b/c it's the "cool" thing to do right now. Not the donating part. The dumping a bucket of ice water on their heads and "making" 3 other friends do it as well part. I can guarantee you that there are some people who are doing it because it's funny and had and still have no idea what ALS is.

But thankfully, many people are also donating and doing the challenge or are just donating. It's pretty amazing how raised!



Exactly



If I had been seeing what you are describing, I'd be complaining about the stupidity, too. I have been shocked to see how many people actually know someone who has been affected by ALS, which I learned solely from this viral challenge. I had no idea how prevalent it really is.

Posted 8/15/14 1:14 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

If we ignored every movement that had a few trend-hungry, greedy, or oblivious people attached to it, we'd pretty much have nothing left. People are forever doing things to be trendy; the start of that didn't come with this challenge.

These people who are doing it "to be cool" aren't undercutting the entire project or rendering the project itself foolish, unworthy, "stupid," etc., and, perhaps, they are learning a little something, unbeknownst to those viewing the video through Facebook.

Message edited 8/15/2014 1:15:04 PM.

Posted 8/15/14 1:14 PM
 

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yeah, so what, some people do it and don't donate, who cares, millions of dollars raised for a good cause negate people trying to be "cool" , people are reaching here, if you are so easily offended by this on your FB feed something is wrong with you not anyone else

Posted 8/15/14 1:22 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

honestly, EVERY SINGLE ice water challenge i've seen on my news feed always says the same thing.... "dump a bucket of ice water over your head OR donate to ALS". i've never seen anyone who posts that they are going to dump the water AND donate its always been presented as dump or donate

i think this is the case for a lot of people which is why people are getting a bad taste in their mouth from the ice water challenge. i know i did, until i read this thread

Posted 8/15/14 1:28 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by NervousNell

So what about other charities.
Why is it only for ALS?
Why not cancer, heart disease, AIDS, etc etc.
Donate money.
Don't pour a bucket of water over your head.
I think that is why people are calling it stupid.
Because it doesn't make sense.



Its not only ALS, that just whats going around at the moment. Back in April when it was COLD my husband and I did it and donated to the Suffolk County Burn Center. Were both volly FF and it was going around the fire departments back then.

Nobody is saying you CANT donate to other charities. I dont understand why people think its stupid. Its for a good cause and its all in fun. If you dont want to watch the video keep scrolling. I think its stupid that everyone is so put off by something that is doing so much good...

Posted 8/15/14 1:30 PM
 

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Posted by InShock

I read that ALS's donations have gone up 1000% since this began. It's bringing awareness to a terrible disease. Not so stupid, IMO.



This!

Posted 8/15/14 1:32 PM
 

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this stupid ice water challenge....

IMO, The people who donate = People raising awareness. Which is like 6 of one half dozen of the other in terms of donating. Both roads lead to the same destination.

And to the OP: I would post a status update on FB how you would like to be excluded from being nominated further if it's become too much.

Posted 8/15/14 1:32 PM
 

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Re: this stupid ice water challenge....

Posted by Snoopy36

honestly, EVERY SINGLE ice water challenge i've seen on my news feed always says the same thing.... "dump a bucket of ice water over your head OR donate to ALS". i've never seen anyone who posts that they are going to dump the water AND donate its always been presented as dump or donate

i think this is the case for a lot of people which is why people are getting a bad taste in their mouth from the ice water challenge. i know i did, until i read this thread




I have the opposite. Every single one posted. I'm dumping and also donating and I challenge you to do the same.

Posted 8/15/14 1:33 PM
 
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