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babyfever08
Love my babies!
Member since 11/08 3938 total posts
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Antonella
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. 
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Erica
LIF Adult
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a wonderful relationship with your mom and those memories are yours! Write them down for your children.
Is there anyone on your DH's side that can help a little while you grieve? When my BIL's father died, I tried to take the kids so they could grieve.
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:15 AM |
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MissMeliss
Love my kids
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
My heart is breaking for you. I can't imagine what you must be going through. I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:24 AM |
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Dolphinsbaby
My 3 little guys!
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
Thank you everyone. I appreciate all the  and . I'll take what I can get.
I still can't believe she isn't here. I was about to call her the other day to tell her something the boys had done.:(
When I first had them and DH went back to work, I was so overwhelmed. She stayed with me and the boys every day while DH was at work the 3 months I was home on maternity.
I just miss her so much
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:28 AM |
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mrsboss
my little love
Member since 12/09 5054 total posts
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Me
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
My mother died in May, when dd was 14 mos old. I know how hard it is. There is no magical cure to feel better, just allow yourself to grieve. I sometimes think about her and cry while rocking DD to sleep at nite. My mother last held dd in that chair and put her to bed. That was the last time she saw/held her. I guess what I'm saying is, you will always have a million reminders of her, as it related to your babies. Just try to do the best you can, and allow family and friends to help you during these next couple of months.
Im sorry for your loss .
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:31 AM |
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JennP
LIF Adult
Member since 10/06 3986 total posts
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Jenn
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
Oh my goodness...I am so sorry for your loss.
I like the "one day at a time" approach. That is all you can do.
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:45 AM |
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ashap215
LIF Adult
Member since 8/09 1283 total posts
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
so sorry for your loss
I know how hard it is. My dad passed when I was 9 and my mom passed 6 years ago. Knowing that my daughter will never know her grandparents kills me.
When I first had DD I had no help at all. MIL is an absolute witch and I didn't want her near me and my only sibling lives out of state.
Just try to be strong for your babies...you can do this!
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:53 AM |
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Paramount
Sweet!
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I just want to reach out and and say I am so very very sorry.
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:55 AM |
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dlj97
LIF Adult
Member since 7/10 4399 total posts
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/3/12 10:58 AM |
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julz33
i run for bacon
Member since 5/05 20584 total posts
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julz
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I'm so sorry. I too lost my mom, 2 days before DS's 1st birthday. (My twins were born a year after that.) It was and still is very hard. My mom was my best friend too.... missing her will never get easier but functioning will get easier. I just try to be the kind of mom to my kids that she was for me. Keep her memory alive for the boys.
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| Posted 8/3/12 11:08 AM |
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MrsT809
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
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| Posted 8/3/12 11:09 AM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
i am so incredibly sorry
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| Posted 8/3/12 11:10 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08 12702 total posts
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Jen
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Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I have no advice, but i'm so very sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/3/12 11:20 AM |
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allIwant
Love my crazy life!
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 8/3/12 11:41 AM |
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ThreeforTea
Girls just want to have fun..
Member since 5/12 7482 total posts
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Mama
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Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss! Your mom will always be there for you and watch over your little boys. Many hugs!!!
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| Posted 8/3/12 11:57 AM |
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kahlua716
3 Girls for Me!
Member since 8/07 12475 total posts
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Keri
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through- this is one of my biggest fears.
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| Posted 8/3/12 12:13 PM |
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LSP2005
Bunny kisses are so cute!
Member since 5/05 19454 total posts
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L
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/3/12 12:30 PM |
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08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
Oh my God I am so very sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/3/12 12:41 PM |
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neener1211
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Member since 4/07 22952 total posts
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J
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/3/12 12:46 PM |
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Ma-n-Pa2008
Mommy's Big Boy
Member since 3/09 2584 total posts
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Melissa
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Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. I know how it feels to lose a parent suddenly. My father passed away from a heart attack at 56. It will take a long time to come to terms with things, but even still there are days it doesn't seem real. The pain never goes away, you just learn to deal.
My mom sounds exactly like your Mom and I can't imagine not having her around. I wish I had better words of wisdom for you. Just lots of hugs!
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| Posted 8/3/12 1:09 PM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
Member since 5/05 20223 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry. That is so sad that your Mom was taken from you. I can only imagine she is surrounding you with her love as we speak. Allow yourself time to grieve. Its OK if your kids see you cry, they will comfort you. Best of luck
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| Posted 8/3/12 1:20 PM |
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MrsS2005
Mom of 3
Member since 11/05 13118 total posts
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B
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 8/3/12 1:48 PM |
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PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True
Member since 8/10 2287 total posts
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Caren
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss. Take it one day at a time, cry when you have to and she will always be with you.
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| Posted 8/3/12 1:57 PM |
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so very sorry for your loss. Huge hugs.
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| Posted 8/3/12 2:06 PM |
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Finally1108
My two boys
Member since 12/08 3541 total posts
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Angela
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Re: Losing a parent and taking care of LOs
I am so sorry for your loss
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