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I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

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DaniJude
You're My Home <3

Member since 11/06

14815 total posts

Name:
Danielle

I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

or emotionally involved.

or think about a house all the time...

but, I can't help it and it is the main reason I'm up at 5am... and have been up since 2am. Chat Icon

I promised I wouldn't do this, I know that what is meant to be will find a way but this is so hard. Chat Icon We kind of got jerked around and that is what, I think, made me lose my "control" over the emotions of it all.

We put an offer in on a place (the third place we have liked and offered on), we got a counter, came up, basically got the thumbs up, and now we have to "wait" until Tuesday because tomorrow is a holiday so she can "ask" her Attorney at "decide" for sure.

I want to tell her to suuck it. Chat Icon

Thanks for the vent. Chat Icon

Posted 1/18/10 5:10 AM
 
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rkoenke
my little piggys

Member since 3/08

4315 total posts

Name:
rachel

Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

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good luck tomorrow.

it's okay to get emotional .. but only over that which you love!!

Posted 1/18/10 8:11 AM
 

Mrs-D-Girl
Love my fur baby

Member since 8/07

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Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

It is much easier said then done to not got emotional over a house or the process itself. It's a rollercoaster of emotions and any human being can say it has happened to them one form or another.

Just try to stay positive and what is meant to be is meant to be Chat Icon

Posted 1/18/10 8:17 AM
 

alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!

Member since 5/09

18388 total posts

Name:
Allison

Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

I think we all ended up getting emotional. I didnt sleep for days when we were going back and forth with negotiations.

And in most cases the seller took more than the 24 hrs. So dont worry, I think everything will be fine.

Posted 1/18/10 8:22 AM
 

Cheeks24
Living a dream

Member since 1/08

8589 total posts

Name:
Cheeks

Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

It's nerve racking! Good luck with it!

Posted 1/18/10 9:04 AM
 

JldDolphin

Member since 1/07

6929 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

It's completely normal. Just try to have faith that if it is meant to be it will. I went through this to, but in the end we bought a house that we made ours. Stay positive and GL on Tuesday. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/18/10 9:39 AM
 

Slightly-Taller
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Member since 4/08

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Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

i was an emotional train wreck. its hard when you want something so bad and someone has the power to tell you NO. i had many restless nights and butterflies in my tummy.but it was allll worth it in the end!

you will get through it! good luck!

Posted 1/18/10 10:23 AM
 

mandasue
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/09

772 total posts

Name:
Amanda

Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

the home buying process was the most stressful thing i have ever gone through but in the end it was sooooooo worth it!!!!!

hang in there and i am sure the house of your dreams will come
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Posted 1/18/10 11:42 AM
 

HeatherRose
Life is Good :)

Member since 11/07

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Re: I know I'm not supposed to get attached...

i've been there! its really hard! I knew I wasn't supposed to either but I couldn't help it. I also had many sleepless nights dreaming about living in the place, worry about getting it, thinking about where I would put furniture etc.

Its all completly normal Chat Icon

Good luck, I hope you guys get this one!!!

Posted 1/18/10 11:51 AM
 
 

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