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prunepie
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Member since 7/06

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jennifer

I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Running or walking through the mall with your baby or babies. Looking fresh and happy. Makeup and hair done. Flat stomach. No drool on your shoulder. I loathe you. Chat Icon just sayingChat Icon xo

Posted 9/7/12 2:38 PM
 
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nferrandi
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Member since 10/05

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Nicole

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

I would love to be that lady!

Posted 9/7/12 2:43 PM
 

Bearcat
Love my little girls!!! <3

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E

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

i'm pretty sure we've all felt like this - i know I have !!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 2:44 PM
 

Waste06
Waste not, want not

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Lois Mom Mommy Mama Ma

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by prunepie

Running or walking through the mall with your baby or babies. Looking fresh and happy. Makeup and hair done. Flat stomach. No drool on your shoulder. I loathe you. Chat Icon just sayingChat Icon xo



Nah, she cries herself to sleep at night. She's probably pretty unhappy. No one, IMO, is that perfect. It's all a facade.

At least that's what I tell myself, especially after I get a glimpse of my own image in a store mirror. Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 3:04 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

My smile... I just had a drink or two at the restaurant! Yes, my son spilled HIS milk all over the floor. Yep... that WAS him.

Drinking helps me get over the fact that I can't afford a new wardrobe because I'm paying for diapers. See that bag that TEENAGER is wearing? I can't afford it!

Is my daughter cute? Oh, thank you. Spit up and food caked on her shirt? Yes, I know. Thanks for pointing it out.

Yes, my son IS precious too! Is he climbing over the railing? Again? Don't worry, he can't get over it quite YET.

Makeup? Oh, I did it a few days ago... just haven't had the chance to wash my face yet. Haven't seen a mirror in a few days. Does it still look OK? Oh... a bit of smudging never killed anyone.

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Posted 9/7/12 3:13 PM
 

iluvmynutty
Mom to E&M

Member since 12/08

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D

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Ha, i thought the same thing when my DD was a baby! I had no idea how people look so good when they have babies to care for. My neighbor across the street had a baby a couple of months after i had mine and she always had time to go to the gym, go shopping, straighten her hair etc... She always looked great and i always looked haggard.

Posted 9/7/12 4:12 PM
 

PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

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Jib

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

crashing here .. but whenever I see a super skinny woman with a new baby I just assume she adopted .. or better yet, got a surrogate Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 4:23 PM
 

allIwant
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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by PennyCat

crashing here .. but whenever I see a super skinny woman with a new baby I just assume she adopted .. or better yet, got a surrogate Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 9/7/12 4:37 PM
 

phoenix913
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V

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by PennyCat

crashing here .. but whenever I see a super skinny woman with a new baby I just assume she adopted .. or better yet, got a surrogate Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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I always assume it's the nanny Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 4:50 PM
 

hotsauce345
my love, my life, my son

Member since 1/09

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Name:
Melody

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by nycgirl

My smile... I just had a drink or two at the restaurant! Yes, my son spilled HIS milk all over the floor. Yep... that WAS him.

Drinking helps me get over the fact that I can't afford a new wardrobe because I'm paying for diapers. See that bag that TEENAGER is wearing? I can't afford it!

Is my daughter cute? Oh, thank you. Spit up and food caked on her shirt? Yes, I know. Thanks for pointing it out.

Yes, my son IS precious too! Is he climbing over the railing? Again? Don't worry, he can't get over it quite YET.

Makeup? Oh, I did it a few days ago... just haven't had the chance to wash my face yet. Haven't seen a mirror in a few days. Does it still look OK? Oh... a bit of smudging never killed anyone.

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Posted 9/7/12 5:12 PM
 

BaseballWidow
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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Oh hey, didn't know you saw me at the mall!!
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We've all had those moments
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Posted 9/7/12 5:47 PM
 

Mom2Bianca&Ava
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C

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by MrsMeloyellow

Posted by nycgirl

My smile... I just had a drink or two at the restaurant! Yes, my son spilled HIS milk all over the floor. Yep... that WAS him.

Drinking helps me get over the fact that I can't afford a new wardrobe because I'm paying for diapers. See that bag that TEENAGER is wearing? I can't afford it!

Is my daughter cute? Oh, thank you. Spit up and food caked on her shirt? Yes, I know. Thanks for pointing it out.

Yes, my son IS precious too! Is he climbing over the railing? Again? Don't worry, he can't get over it quite YET.

Makeup? Oh, I did it a few days ago... just haven't had the chance to wash my face yet. Haven't seen a mirror in a few days. Does it still look OK? Oh... a bit of smudging never killed anyone.

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Posted 9/7/12 5:52 PM
 

KarenAnthony
Baby Girl Coming in May!!!

Member since 10/07

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Karen

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Ugh...but what i have come to realize is that a LOT of people have help. I know of three stay at home moms that still have babysitters. Another neighbor of mine just had a 2nd baby and is on maternity leave but still has her nanny coming every day..OR their husbands help out a LOT...sometimes i'm secretly jealous!
All that help can make a HUGE difference.



Posted 9/7/12 5:57 PM
 

MrsT809
LIF Adult

Member since 9/09

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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by Mom2Bianca&Ava

Posted by MrsMeloyellow

Posted by nycgirl

My smile... I just had a drink or two at the restaurant! Yes, my son spilled HIS milk all over the floor. Yep... that WAS him.

Drinking helps me get over the fact that I can't afford a new wardrobe because I'm paying for diapers. See that bag that TEENAGER is wearing? I can't afford it!

Is my daughter cute? Oh, thank you. Spit up and food caked on her shirt? Yes, I know. Thanks for pointing it out.

Yes, my son IS precious too! Is he climbing over the railing? Again? Don't worry, he can't get over it quite YET.

Makeup? Oh, I did it a few days ago... just haven't had the chance to wash my face yet. Haven't seen a mirror in a few days. Does it still look OK? Oh... a bit of smudging never killed anyone.

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Chat Icon BTW, what's a mall?

Posted 9/7/12 6:08 PM
 

KartveliT
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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

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Haha, I was THAT lady when I had DD , even when she was a NB , the baby weight came right off, I always managed to put make up on, have my hair look nice and dress well ... and I used to say "oh I could never go outside without looking all put together" blah, blah, blah.
Umm yeah , this was with just one kid,but now that I'm pregnant with my 2nd and will have a toddler and this baby to take care of on my own , yeah, I am realizing things will change BIG TIME! I highly doubt that I will ever be that lady any more or even close to it , I'll be thankful if I have time to brush my teeth, wash my face and eat , lol.
I have no idea how moms with 2 kids get anything done , let alone have some personal time (unless they have help) no idea whatsoever, but I guess I'll find out in about 7 days Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 6:17 PM
 

jenheartsrob
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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

The babies were a few months and I'm in the mall one day when I ventured out with the twins and my mom. We were two people and I looked a mess and we stopped to feed them and who strolls down the corridor? A super skinny woman on a cell phone drinking a latte and pushing her triple stroller with triplets no older than my few-month-old babies. Sigh. I had a mini meltdown right there.

Posted 9/7/12 6:57 PM
 

KPanas
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1691 total posts

Name:
Kathy

I hate you!!! yes you!!!

LOL i think this all the time!!

Posted 9/7/12 7:40 PM
 

MamaPapaBear
my little girl

Member since 1/11

2045 total posts

Name:
my whole world

I hate you!!! yes you!!!

I remember when DD was a few weeks old and I was sitting on the couch wearing the same pair of sweatpants I had come home from the hospital in (washed, at least) and only a zip up hoodie for a shirt because I was constantly nursing. And I thought to myself: "Will I ever wear real clothes again!?"

At least now I can wear a real shirt and pants (ok, maternity pants but still). They're covered in spit up and drool, but at least they're not pajamas!


ETA: I think of Victoria Beckham sometimes in those super high heels carrying the baby and I just laugh my butt off. I haven't worked myself up to heels yet.

Message edited 9/7/2012 8:59:21 PM.

Posted 9/7/12 8:57 PM
 

Champ
2 little ladies

Member since 1/11

2918 total posts

Name:
Rose

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by KarenAnthony

Ugh...but what i have come to realize is that a LOT of people have help. I know of three stay at home moms that still have babysitters. Another neighbor of mine just had a 2nd baby and is on maternity leave but still has her nanny coming every day..OR their husbands help out a LOT...sometimes i'm secretly jealous!
All that help can make a HUGE difference.






I was going to say that lots of people have help. I find that when I find out someone has help, I feel like they are cheating!!!! but really I am jealous!! My twins are all consuming and we just can not afford it.

Posted 9/7/12 9:26 PM
 

mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!

Member since 3/09

8585 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Reading this post reminds me what I think of almost everyday in my life. Since I watch other kids plus my own I am pretty sure I only own 2 dresses that aren't spit up on, stained from messy hands. One of those dresses is my wedding dress Chat Icon I think to myself everyday will there every be a day where I can wake up and make it to lunch time without smelling like formula, or having kids boogies on me????

Posted 9/7/12 9:34 PM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by jenheartsrob

The babies were a few months and I'm in the mall one day when I ventured out with the twins and my mom. We were two people and I looked a mess and we stopped to feed them and who strolls down the corridor? A super skinny woman on a cell phone drinking a latte and pushing her triple stroller with triplets no older than my few-month-old babies. Sigh. I had a mini meltdown right there.



I like to say maybe it's the babysitter or the nanny! LOL

Seriously, to those moms out there who can look that good, KUDOS!
When I came home with DS, it was sweatpants and XL sweatshirts.
Same with DD.

Posted 9/7/12 9:38 PM
 

babyberry
LIF Adult

Member since 1/11

1477 total posts

Name:
Ang

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by nycgirl

My smile... I just had a drink or two at the restaurant! Yes, my son spilled HIS milk all over the floor. Yep... that WAS him.

Drinking helps me get over the fact that I can't afford a new wardrobe because I'm paying for diapers. See that bag that TEENAGER is wearing? I can't afford it!

Is my daughter cute? Oh, thank you. Spit up and food caked on her shirt? Yes, I know. Thanks for pointing it out.

Yes, my son IS precious too! Is he climbing over the railing? Again? Don't worry, he can't get over it quite YET.

Makeup? Oh, I did it a few days ago... just haven't had the chance to wash my face yet. Haven't seen a mirror in a few days. Does it still look OK? Oh... a bit of smudging never killed anyone.

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Posted 9/7/12 10:09 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

Posted by KarenAnthony

Ugh...but what i have come to realize is that a LOT of people have help. I know of three stay at home moms that still have babysitters. Another neighbor of mine just had a 2nd baby and is on maternity leave but still has her nanny coming every day..OR their husbands help out a LOT...sometimes i'm secretly jealous!
All that help can make a HUGE difference.






ITA. I think this is partly the key. I have ZERO help and I always feel sloppy still, and my DD is almost 4 now!!! It was wayyy worse when she was a baby....even now, I always have to get ready last, etc, otherwise she will get food or powder or something on me.

Yes, I agree, I think a LOT of people have their moms helping or a babysitter, nanny, etc. but maybe I am just trying to make myself feel better?Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 10:30 PM
 

Adriana
LIF Infant

Member since 8/10

259 total posts

Name:
Adriana

Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

how bout the hot mom at the airport?
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saw it just this past weekend, flying home...
I look like I just woke up
and this thin woman walks by us (DH & I) with her baby looking all done up and in 4" heels....
I then said to my husband (after I noticed him lookin)-shame I'll never look like that at the airport! he just smiled


I felt a bit better that she changed her shoes to flats after she went through secruity Chat Icon

Posted 9/7/12 10:48 PM
 

OverTheMoon
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Member since 8/12

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Re: I hate you!!! yes you!!!

I saw her!!! She was crossing the street in Huntington with her tiny newborn, and she was skinny and gorgeous and I hated her, too.

I mean, I assume it was the same woman...an enigma like that couldn't possibly happen more than once! Chat Icon

Posted 9/8/12 8:45 AM
 
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