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FET Results and Current Status

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Sneezy
Thankful for my miracle!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jen

FET Results and Current Status

I re-introduced myself about 6 weeks ago when I went back to the RE in pursuit of DC#2. I was foolish enough to think that maybe I had "paid my dues" and it would be easy this time.

On Tues., 6/7, I went for a FET and all went well. They transferred 2 day 6 blastocysts (a hatching blast and an expanding blast) that I've had in cryo since I got pregnant with my daughter in Feb. 2009. Because I'm a control freak, I started POAS the following Saturday. My faint BFP came on Monday and got progressively darker. DH and I were thrilled - and excitedly spread the news after beta #2.

Today (well, since it's 3am, I guess I really mean yesterday) at 6w5d, we went for our second sono expecting to see a heartbeat which wasn't there. Bloodwork showed that my beta wasn't where it should be and that, this time, it's over. I go back to the RE on Friday and they will give me something to speed up the natural process.

So, I lay here not sleeping, more appreciative of DD than ever and contemplating my next steps. As an act of self-preservation I rescinded the positive baby shower RSVP for this coming Saturday. Too bad I have my FIL and SMIL descending upon us on Friday from Florida for the weekends festivities. Bring on the wine - I'm gonna need more than usual to be nice to them.

"What doesn't kill us makes us stronger." - Friedrich Nietzsche



Posted 7/6/11 3:25 AM
 
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PennyCat
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Member since 7/08

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Jib

Re: FET Results and Current Status

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry you're dealing with that disappointment now, I absolutely know the feeling!!


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Posted 7/6/11 5:03 AM
 

skinny
3 boys and a princess!

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Momma

Re: FET Results and Current Status

I'm so sorry! I know how you're feeling. It sucks. Plain and simple.

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Posted 7/6/11 8:08 AM
 

addingonemore
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Posted 7/6/11 8:20 AM
 

LoLaBlue
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Posted 7/6/11 8:24 AM
 

keepingsecrets
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Posted 7/6/11 8:49 AM
 

cateyemm
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Posted 7/6/11 8:54 AM
 

InShock
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Posted 7/6/11 9:00 AM
 

kelsept
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/07

833 total posts

Name:
Kelley

Re: FET Results and Current Status

I'm so sorry....it will happen again...i lot a pregnancy last year and it was awful but know you will get pregnant again.....

Posted 7/6/11 9:01 AM
 

quierounotro
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Member since 2/11

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Re: FET Results and Current Status

I am so sorry to hear that. I remember you from last time around, our DCs are around the same age.

I also thought it was going to be so easy with #2 as I had already put in my "IF time." I ended up with a chemical after using my last frozen embryos and we are now 1 day away from transfer after a fresh cycle. It may not be easy, but as we know it will all be worth it!

Hang in there!

Posted 7/6/11 9:04 AM
 

MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!

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You know I'm here if you want to talk. I'm so sorry.

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Posted 7/6/11 11:17 AM
 

AngnShaun
Sisters

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Ang

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Posted 7/6/11 11:18 AM
 

ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!

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Name:
Coleen

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Posted 7/6/11 11:46 AM
 

BaseballWidow
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So sorry about that...but welcome back!
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I missed you!!

Posted 7/6/11 12:37 PM
 

jellybean78
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Mommy

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Posted 7/6/11 1:03 PM
 

prunepie
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Posted 7/6/11 2:09 PM
 
 
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